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Plumbing Subreddit that locks anyone that is "new", even after everyone has commented (lemmy.ml)
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It just baffles my mind of how some of these places are ran by the mod teams. If it wasn't for the masses of people that still flock to them I would've given up a long time ago (now only check like once every two weeks), but by the evidence they (the users) just aren't getting the help they need.

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If it makes you feel any better, whoever did that also isn’t a plumber. (511 points)

That's a bong. Sewer gas bong, specifically. Nice humblebrag.Having one in your home all built in like that, la de da, isn't this a fancy one...... (330 points)

Like 10 mods, and they don't auto-block "new" people from posting (the post had 103 comments when it was locked). Easy to tell this wasn't spam and it was a legitimate person looking for advice.

They suggest logging into your "main" account. As if people want to post identifying pictures of their house under an account which might have lots of references for identification. I just wish they knew how much easier it would be to make a lemmy account instead of jumping through Reddit's hoops, could have a very robust community of tradesmen on here that would attract more people looking for advice.

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[–] Supervisor194@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

It's all the same on lemmy.world, I had a comment deleted yesterday in /c/showerthoughts. Reason given: "Lots of generalizing going on."

I was not the OP, just a commenter, but the thread title was Religious people are the original "gamers...". My now-deleted post just said I thought it was a mostly apt metaphor except that gamers don't think their games are real. That's it.

So some mod is butthurt because, I don't know... Jesus or whatever and I get my comment deleted like I did something wrong, which I didn't. I didn't violate any rules nor the code of conduct. It's all the same, new boss same as the old boss.

Edit: fucking coward, too - signs his delete using automod. Typical.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 20 hours ago

I think I remember your comment and I read it about 8-9h ago.
Was a good comment :)

[–] SparrowHawk@feddit.it 4 points 1 day ago

Lemmy.world is stinky af

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk -4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Mods on some communities are completely out of their minds. I got banned from !ukraine@sopuli.xyz simply for voicing my skepticism about how feasible it is to win back all the occupied territories and wether it would even be worth all the deaths it would require. And not only that but they delete the comment from modlog too.

[–] example@reddthat.com 6 points 1 day ago

you can't delete comments from modlog, except for admins purging then, and then there is a purge modlog entry. purging also only applies to the local instance. the reason that you don't see it in modlog is that banning a user while selecting to also remove their content is only going to put the ban in modlog currently, so the comment removal was never there in the first place.

[–] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

just don’t use reddit?

[–] tal@lemmy.today 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

!plumbing@lemmy.world and !plumbing@lemmy.dbzer0.com don't currently have much activity, unfortunately.

[–] 4am@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There’s a way to change that

[–] CmdrShepard42@lemm.ee 15 points 1 day ago

By locking new posts?

[–] Cataphract@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

Typically I don't, the only reason I pull it up is because I have posts from 10 years ago that still get responses every month (I get e-mail alerts for those posts). Usually I'll just message the user with information and an alternative forum I've setup in the past if they need more answers (it's really niche and this forum format (reddit/lemmy) really doesn't suit the topic). I keep thinking one day it will be all bots just leaving messages but they respond and usually sign up on the other site. So, I feel conflicted about deleting my posts or not responding because it is actually effective at connecting to new people, at least for the time being.

[–] RedEyeFlightControl@lemmy.world 30 points 1 day ago

Some mods have CSS/automod set up where if you're not subscribed, you can't post. This is actually against reddit's own TOS, mods are not allowed to break site functionality to gain views, clicks, or participation, but the admins let it slide because it results in higher subscription counts.

[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

As someone who worked in the trades I’d love it if we had a trades community here

[–] 4am@lemm.ee 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You do, they just don’t see much activity and therefore people assume they do not exist.

Discoverability is becoming a big issue for niche communities within Lemmy.

I almost wish that the community model was more like a tag, and there was just one single “plumbing” for all instances, for example. I realize though that this idea raises hell for moderation/what do you do when someone takes over a name for hateful purposes/where does the sidebar exist/etc.

Having separate comms on separate instances just results in the biggest instance hosting all the communities; at what point is that any better than Reddit?

[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Totally agree with all your points.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Or you could just type your interest into the search bar.

Y'know. You could just actually want to be here and look for things you want to see, not be spoonfed by some shitty algorithm or tag system, not get upset that you missed content when you could just sort by Top - All. You could take some intellectual agency.

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Agreed. Not much to relate with all the discussion about office work.

[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago

I no longer work in the trades other than occasional side work because I hurt my hand/wrist/arm but I miss it :( I’ve done some really cool really fucking insane shit for work that I never in a million years thought I’d do.

I’ve done office work too but not as cool. Not even close.

[–] Fubarberry@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I know a lot of subreddits like that have rules that you have to be part of the profession to post. Reason being that they don't want amateurs/etc to fill up the community with posts asking for advice, but instead want it to be a place for people in the profession to be able to talk to other professionals.

I can fully understand that approach, and how following that rule would directly lead to posts like this getting locked. At the same time, this is an interesting post and seems like it would have interesting discussion.

So basically this post probably breaks the written rules of the community, but is the kind of content that they wanted the rules to encourage. If it was my community I'd let the post stay (maybe with a mod comment on why it was allowed to stay up), but it's always risky to enforce the written rules inconsistently. I've seen a lot of communities get upset about inconsistent mods.

[–] person420@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 day ago

I would bet that there's a rule that not only says what you said, but redirects people to something like r/askplumbers or whatever for these kind of posts.

I haven't used reddit regularly since the API exodus, but I was part of plenty of communities like that. Mods can't allow exceptions because you'll get regulars complaining about the rule breaking content and new users complaining that their post was removed.

Like you said, they were mostly professional subreddits, but others had similar rules (like r/churning, but they were extra crazy. They'd require all discussion to be in specific threads so the content was less likely to be indexed by search engines).