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[–] Allonzee@lemmy.world 74 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Republicans have proven they're willing to burn themselves alive, as long as their never ending list of enemies burn beside them and they get to watch.

oh, but that think they're not burning as badly as us. I strive to have more fun than they are

[–] Yolkie@lemm.ee 6 points 2 days ago

Not even that, they do it because they don't have to watch or be accountable. "It's just someone I support the policies more of, the policies that I won't say specifically."

[–] Prandom_returns@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

"...I just shrug it off, comment 'lol' and go back to work where I slave off to a billionaire and pay taxes to a fascist government"

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 20 points 2 days ago

I am really annoyed at whoever taught him the word tariff.

[–] missandry351@lemmings.world 39 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Waking up everyday and it’s a different “thank god I don’t live in the USA” I say, usually after reading any news related to the usa

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I would invite you to consider that a fascist government with access to both the largest nuclear stockpile as well as by far the largest stating military is now in power

So it might not be your problem today, but it will CERTAINLY be your problem at some point

because the territory greed of fascist governments are never sated, and now who can stop us?

[–] Schorsch@feddit.org 55 points 3 days ago

Seems like it is no fun living in The Best Country in the World™.

[–] bob_lemon@feddit.org 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Typical leftist, won't even show a shred of empathy to the profit margins of the American cock and ball torture device industry!

(/s because I have lost faith in people)

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 10 points 2 days ago

Why are libral killing the torture industry??

[–] Baguette@lemm.ee 28 points 2 days ago

Just live out of spite

Thats how I'm mentally gaslighting myself nowadays

[–] VoteNixon2016@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Can't believe you've got me supporting something hypothetical Trump did

[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 16 points 2 days ago

Why the fuck would you support 2500 % Tariffs on anything?!?!?

Ohhhhhhhh. Nevermind.

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

He'd just be doing that to harass women for breaking the rule.

[–] mastod0n@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

Meanwhile in an unnamed hobby room: "nh hmmppf mpf hmml hwwmm?" ("Is the mandatory torture worth the tariffs?")

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago

Bullshit!

The tariffs on the tools required for the mandatory cock and ball torture would be set higher than for everything else imaginable.

[–] Emmie@lemm.ee 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

In previous news there has been this EU initiative of adopting cute twinks and offering honest woodcutting work for tomboys, maybe it is still up

[–] bitofarambler@crazypeople.online 14 points 3 days ago (2 children)

i suggest leaving.

it's better outside.

[–] will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone 60 points 3 days ago (31 children)

Plenty of people literally can't leave

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[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have no intention to leave because this is my home. These naive fascists think America is just the government and economy, but those have always been it's worst features. I'm gonna stay and I'm gonna enjoy myself until the bullet passes through my brain. I'm gonna make sure it stains their nicest carpets and finest dress, because I know they love seeming civil and clean.

[–] bitofarambler@crazypeople.online 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

nobody is going to make you leave, I'm offering advice and encouragement for people who do want to leave or feel hopeless about their prospects.

couple things here:

"I'm gonna stay and I'm gonna enjoy myself until the bullet passes through my brain. I'm gonna make sure it stains their nicest carpets and finest dress,"

  1. it's much easier to die for a cause than to live for a cause.

  2. you can do a lot more damage alive than dead.

  3. your life is worth a lot more than inconveniencing somebody's carpet.

as an example, if you travel for 11 months out of the year, you don't have to pay earned income tax, and taking away revenue from the government is going to do a lot more harm than you being dead.

especially because I don't see any evidence for this:

"they love seeming civil and clean."

I don't think they like being clean so much as they don't care about being dirty in public anymore.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oh, but I do want them to be filthy and dirty in public. In fact, I'm almost pleased that they're so unhinged nowadays, because it's not an issue peace lovers can ignore anymore. They put off real resistance for too long.

The main reason I'm prepared to die isn't because I don't want to live. I'm just planning on living as obnoxiously and proudly as possible. I want queer people to be an issue no one can ignore, and being visible in today's world is very very dangerous. I don't want to die, but I will never live quietly. I'm gonna dance on the carpets of the rich and nothing but lethal, blood staining violence will stop me.

[–] bitofarambler@crazypeople.online 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

"...filthy and dirty in public.'

they really have been for a while now.

you got your wish.

"planning on living as obnoxiously and proudly as possible."

go for it, my concern is that you won't achieve what you want this way.

"I want queer people to be an issue no one can ignore,"

I think this is another goal you've already achieved, queer people in general are an issue nobody is ignoring already.

on the good side, the prevalence of queer culture is higher than it's ever been, even in conservative enclaves like the US.

on the bad side, the most powerful people in a few countries like tge US are so afraid of glitter that they're trying to override the other two branches of government in a vain efforts to shove the fancypants genie back in the bottle.

but that's the thing about genies and bottles, though.

"being visible in today's world is very very dangerous"

in some places, it is.

in other places it's totally normal and accepted to be as visibly queer as you like, as it has been forever because other cultures have never been binary.

I support whatever course of action fulfills you and hope your activism achieves the further goals you are working toward, and also hope you're aware that becoming a martyr is not the only or possibly most effective way you can be useful to your movement.

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