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fuck thousands for a coffin. or hundreds for an urn. can i legally be burried in butcher paper?

can i donate my body to science and skip burrial all together?

i want my final action to be a big middle finger to the funeral industry picking on people in their weakest moments.

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[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Have nothing of value left when you die and make sure your relatives refuse ownership of anything. Leave it as a problem for the state to deal with.

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[–] bufalo1973@europe.pub 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Donate everything still working and the rest goes to a medical school for practice.

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[–] bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Who pays if you get so irradiated that you need to be buried in a lead casket, like the firefighters at Chernobyl?

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago
[–] EponymousBosh@awful.systems 4 points 1 week ago

Check Caitlin Doughty's "Ask A Mortician" videos, in addition to some of the other suggestions.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

No idea but I love how you think👑

No lie, i want a sky burial. Your body is split open and left on a mountainside populated by vultures, after a few days the villagers return and collect your bones, the only thing left. They grind your bones and mix them into crackers, which are then spread around the fields for birds to eat. Your entire body goes back to the birds, i love it. My wife isn’t taking it seriously but I mean it, i want one of those

[–] DrunkAnRoot@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

have your homies smoke your ashes in a blunt

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[–] sunbytes@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

There's a book called "Stiff" by Mary Roach where she looks into all the various ways to (legally) dispose of your body.

You can donate it to scientific research (my personal preference) and they will use it as a very accurate crash test dummy (usually).

Things like the glass in car windows and car crumple zones were invented with the help of such donations, and she claims that on average 14 lives are saved by every body donated.

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