You should consider talking to a therapist about why you don’t consider non-romantic relationships to be valuable, because your take is not only not universal, but also indicative that you have some shit you need to work through.
Showerthoughts
A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:
- Both “200” and “160” are 2 minutes in microwave math
- When you’re a kid, you don’t realize you’re also watching your mom and dad grow up.
- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
Rules
- All posts must be showerthoughts
- The entire showerthought must be in the title
- No politics
- If your topic is in a grey area, please phrase it to emphasize the fascinating aspects, not the dramatic aspects. You can do this by avoiding overly politicized terms such as "capitalism" and "communism". If you must make comparisons, you can say something is different without saying something is better/worse.
- A good place for politics is c/politicaldiscussion
- Posts must be original/unique
- Adhere to Lemmy's Code of Conduct and the TOS
If you made it this far, showerthoughts is accepting new mods. This community is generally tame so its not a lot of work, but having a few more mods would help reports get addressed a little sooner.
Whats it like to be a mod? Reports just show up as messages in your Lemmy inbox, and if a different mod has already addressed the report, the message goes away and you never worry about it.
An uncle, a child, a best friend, a parent, a teammate getting killed is not tragic
That's a unique take, to say the least.
That's cold.
OP's like It's only tragic if we were banging.
So if your character is from Alabama it could still work then.
Username checks out. 😑
Seems like loss of sex is the main motivation for OP.
Where are these unpopular opinions when people are asking for them??
Well, this is showerthoughts, not unpopular opinion. Maybe we need an unpopular opinion community here.
What the chicken fried fuck are you talking about?
Fridging is a form of reductionist misogyny. It's not just that somebody died, it's that a woman existed only to die in a brutal fashion.
What an awful take. I hope you aren't a parent if you expect a parent to just get over the loss of their child. You don't expect people to be motivated by loss of any loved one other than a romantic partner? Really? No other kind of love is strong enough for you? I've reached my limit of stupid for tonight.
Sounds like you need to read The Count of Monte Cristo.
It is the epitome of a revenge story and it doesn't need to kill the love interest to work. In fact, it works better because his wife doesn't die but remarried the fucker who ruined his life.
Moby Dick, too. Pretty sure the whale didn't kill Ahab's wife.
How about just be decent for the fuck of it? Why should we need reasons to be good people?
Edit: take classic Superman, for instance. That dude is good simply because he's good. He's the type of person who'd apologise if you walked into them and mean it, not because they're a pushover, but because why the hell not.
Bruh. Get help.
The relationship with your kid should be deeper than with your partner. Nowadays, many people have far more partners during their lifetime than children - you'll never know whether your partner will still be with you in 10 years, but it's very unlikely that your child will not be yours anymore. Similar with parents.
I will say that family members who aren't love interests typically don't get enough time and characterization to make the audience care much about them.
I'm not gonna bother with saying that the other losses that you're discounting can be just as tragic as losing a romantic partner. Everyone else here has said it probably better than I could.
What I'll bring up is that not only are there more kinds of revenge motivation than the loss of someone close to you, there are more motivations than just revenge. For other kinds of revenge, what about wounded honour? A hunter who's prey keeps escaping them might feel the need to finally end that hunt before they can look themselves in the eye. That's its own form of revenge arc, and it can make just as powerful a story as avenging the loss of a loved one. And for non revenge motivations, there's far too many to list, but here's a start
- duty
- repaying a debt to the world
- self improvement
- survival (usually more of a side character motive compared to a hero protagonist, but still good)
- seeking admiration (from people in general or from a few important people)
I'm interpreting this as trolling. No way is someone who isn't trying to start shit going to put something like this out in the world, unless there is something seriously skewed in their worldview. Dude, if this is how you have fun, get bent. If you mean this, get help.
The fuck kind of fucked up bullshit are you on about? You would honestly see some one kill your parents, friends, or kids and just shrug your shoulders? There is something deeply wrong with you.
I would absolutely react more to my child getting killed than literally anyone else on the planet, what are you on about?
Though in fairness, if I had powers, I don't think it would be a pursuit of justice or launch me on some path of heroism. Somebody would just die badly (assuming the initial killing was either deliberate or through willful neglect).
Weirdest troll ever. But the bait was taken.