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[–] bobs_monkey@lemmy.zip 48 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Back when I was a cable guy some 15 years ago, we'd have our connection boxes for multistory apartment buildings in these closets, similar to a power room. In these closets, there were always spare PVC conduits coming up through the floor. Now, company regulations forbade us from using any public restroom in uniform (including those of customers), to the extent we had pee ports on the side of our service trucks that led to a bag that was to be disposed of at the end of each day. We all hated them, and the unofficial way to do it was to piss in those conduits.

To whomever had to eventually pull fiber through those conduits, I am so sorry.

[–] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 27 points 1 month ago (3 children)

How tf were women techs supposed to do it???

[–] kate@lemmy.uhhoh.com 32 points 1 month ago

throigh her penis ofc

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They sell funnels for women

[–] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 28 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Well yes, but it's a bit ridiculous for a company to provide a male-oriented contraption, and then just say "tough, adapt" to the women in their workforce.

Have you ever been like... Part of society in the last 3000 years or so? That's exactly what a company would do

[–] tektite@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 month ago

"Here, this thingy'll help you pee in the conduits like everybody else."

[–] bobs_monkey@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Truth be told I don't think I ever remember and woman techs.

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] bobs_monkey@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 month ago

Lack of interest or sexist hiring practices? Couldn't tell you. Tbf, it was often enough that it would be a single tech dispatched to a home or business, and given this was years ago, there may have been a corporate safety factor. Some of the people were definitely weirdos and I could only imagine how that might've been an issue if the tech was a solo woman. There were some jobs I walked away from because the customer creeped me out and I'm a 6'3" 240lb dude.

[–] CatsPajamas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 1 month ago

Capitalism breeds innovation

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I piss in the sink. It does not stop, I sink in the piss.

[–] cannon_annon88@lemmy.today 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] regdog@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago
I piss in the sink
To boost my fragile ego
Wive is disgusted
[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sink pissers are men who were smart enough to realise that using a standard toilet while standing is inherently difficult, but not smart enough to realise they could just sit down instead.

[–] petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Sitting down is feminine.

That's why I'll never sit down, ever.

Restaurant? I'll eat at the bar.
Plane? Flight attendant better knock me out.
Roller coaster? My gorilla grip strength will do just fine.
Friend's car? I'll stand in the trunk.
Getting into bed? I let gravity rotate me, stiff as a board and fully clothed so no burglars can steal my chastity.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 9 points 1 month ago

Woke lies around every corner. We must stay vigilant brothers!

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

... I mean, pissing in the sink is still considerably better than pissing on the floor...

Especially when there are other drunk people sleeping on said floor.

Edit: and you plan on returning to your spot next to them as well. Ok, yeah, this really did happen, but I wasn't the one who pissed on the floor! I pissed in a trash can, with a trash bag in it, like a decent human being.

[–] A_norny_mousse@feddit.org 14 points 1 month ago

I think Sleaford Mods have a song about this.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago

edit: ex-girlfriend found out

[–] Sarcasmo220@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago

I've only ever dreamed of pissing in the sink.

And I don't mean that in the aspirational sense. Like, I literally have had dreams that I had to pee so I peed in a sink.

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

One of my old cats did. I thought it was great and reduced litter maintenance. The rest of the household disagreed.