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Even less than a 150 years ago that would have been impossible. And prior to that communication among normal people could take months.

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[–] ThunderQueen@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago (2 children)

150 years ago, you being on a plane wouldve been unthinkable, let alone instantaneous international communication

[–] northernlights@lemmy.today 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Seriously I was astonished hearing our teenagers complaining the plane wifi "sucks" because they had bad ping at fortnite. Like seriously think about it 1 second ungrateful brats.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Didn't have internet when I was in Guangzhou all the way until my family left China 2010

I still don't know if it was even a thing in my area or if it was just because of money issues.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

The idea of an airplane itself would he quite a stretch in 1876 considering the Wright brothers made their famous flight in 1903.

But instantaneous communication? They had telegraph at that time. Even international lines.

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[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 56 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Being out of contact is underrated these days.

Used to be, on a flight or a train, and in many other scenarios, you weren't expected to work or be contactable. It was time to sit with your thoughts, read something fun, sleep, or converse quietly with someone next to you, often a stranger. That was GOOD, not bad.

[–] half_fiction@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What I really miss is the distinction between texting and instant messenging. I LOVED chatting on AIM when I was teenager. When you wanted to talk you signed on and when you were done, you just signed off. Now anyone anywhere can pop up in your pocket at any moment, demanding attention. Worse is that a good portion of people consider it rude to not answer a text immediately or even still, consider a day or 2 to be unreasonably long. Yeah, I might be checking my phone, but that doesn't mean I'm available to talk to you at this exact moment for any myriad of reasons, including that maybe I just don't feel like it. I started treating texts more like email and it has helped so much.

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Good news! You may now use Teams for that classic IM functionality. And all your coworkers are there! And nobody judges your status icon during working hours!

[–] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

One can still be out of contact by simply not responding. A mobile devices can be disconnected from the network easier than a house with multiple lan lines, just turn it off.

[–] fuzzzerd@programming.dev 6 points 2 days ago

While you are absolutely correct, it's the fact that most people don't make this choice and it has shifted societal expectations.

I encourage everyone to disconnect as much as possible. Enjoy the wonderful things technology offers us, and equally enjoy breaking free from the chains it introduces.

[–] KingGimpicus@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago (5 children)

You picked the wrong line of work.

As a machinist, I'm not expected to work anywhere that's not in front of a lathe or mill.

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[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Me, on a plane: sits

The person next to me: so you're disabled eh? Tell me all about it so I can explain to you how it's the government's fault, and then indirectly blame you for not working with partial blindness, one good arm and leg

Or

The person next to me: I couldn't help but notice the stickers on your luggage and laptop, with the gay flag and the paw prints, I can help you find Jesus again

Or

The people awaiting boarding when I hug and kiss my partner[1] goodbye and cry: is he, uh, you know, is your friend not coming with you?

Me: stewardess, I'm gonna need a new seat

[1]He's technically my master and not my partner, but try explaining that to like 300 boomers

Yeah, sure, 'good'...

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[–] LegoBrickOnFire@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I've not been on a plane in a few years, and the idea that we have wifi on the plane seems weird

[–] hemko@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 2 days ago

I can get real-time death threats from some kid from Australia while sitting in Europe, it's truly a great time to be alive

[–] UnspecificGravity@piefed.social 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

150 years? That would have been damned near impossible 25 years ago, or at least prohibitively expensive for a civilian to just do off the cuff.

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I picked a longer timeframe because I knew people would have focused on non-civilian communication being possible.

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[–] saimen@feddit.org 14 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I remember calling someone in another country was super expensive but you could predial some super long numbers which made it cheaper somehow

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Lol before smartphones became ubiquitious, my parents went to these stores to buy these weird pre-paid long-distance phone cards to relatives in China because in this era, minutes were still limited and data plans were expensive af.

Like you'd dial a local number in the US then you'd use the phone's numpad to enter your destination number they'd call your desired number for you then connect you...

Idk how that worked

I saw them being sold anywhere from $10 to $50 with varying minutes

It's kinda like a gift card. You scratch off a number in the back and that's your access code, then you just call the number corresponding to your region.

Some phone cards were so scummy and they deducted your minutes while its waiting before it even gets connected. Or just calling to check minutes, and they deduct your minutes for that call before you actually make the long distance call. So you'd have to shop around in different stores to hope their phone cards are less scummy.

Ever since 2014/2015 they got actual smartphones and then just started using WeChat. Free calls and video calls over the internet. And now mobile data is unlimited (and actually affordable compared to before).

But problem is... now CCP is listening in the livingroom... 👀 (cuz they use voice memo instead of typing... so WeChat gets permanent access to the microphone permission...)

[–] bandwidthcrisis@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I used those to call back to the UK when I moved to the US, back around 2005.

When you entered the number you wanted to call, it would do a VOIP connection from the line you were on to that company to a line in the destination county. So it was an Internet call for the international part (which is how they did it cheaply).

I realized that because the cards I bought were from a company with "VOIP" in the name!

I had one of those Radio Shack tone dialler boxes so that I could pre-program the free US number and the card id number.

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[–] Snapz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

You think that's crazy, how about the fact that we have the tech to record and remotely view the conversation you two had from anywhere in the world. Computers, man...

https://youtu.be/Yio9_-5TMew

[–] TomMasz@piefed.social 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's a double-edged sword.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I would even go as far to say as we do not have it under control* right now it's massively being exploited and endangering humanity.

*I'm missing a better word for this. I don't mean government control but so corporate lobby and malevolent influence of other entities can't run rampant.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Early Chinese immigrants to the US had to write letters to get physically carried across the pacific ocean... which took like months I think. I don't think a telegraph cable even exist across the ocean back then.

Now I can just video chat my aunts in China in HD in real time... (tbh I haven't really talked to them since I left when I was 8, I only ever like briefly say a few words when mom was calling)

So bizzare to be born in this time period...

Like I could just summon any information on a glass thingy whenever I get curious

[–] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I can literally get to know someome 1400kms away and be a buddy with, and can do this with whoever i want in the world in about seconds if i just feel to, that's crazy shit if ya ask me

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Hey you

BE MY FRIEND¹

HI HI HI

OMG THIS IS CRAZY

THIS IS JUST ELEMENTAL WITCHCRAFT

This message isn't real

You're just hallucinating electrons

Lol

¹Just kidding... unless... 🥺👉👈

[–] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Dear wizard, i , axolotl magnificus, indeed want to be your friemd if you feel to

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Lol so um... like... how do we do this? do we just click the button on the diplomacy menu and then... like.. chill for the next 30 turns? (Civ Reference)

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[–] xorollo@leminal.space 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Ok people, how do you get texts in the air? Do you have to buy airplane wifi?

[–] 3abas@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Some airlines now provide different levels of free wifi the entire flight. Some require a free account that can be a pain to setup, some limit the access to specific apps like Whatsapp, and some like Qatar airways give you full high-speed low latency access.

But wifi on airplanes isn't new, but used to be exclusively paid for slow internet access.

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

American Airlines is offering free WiFi via AT&T. I also found out if you have WiFi calling enabled you’ll even get phone calls. But that also translates into SMS over WiFi. Baring that, iMessage, Signal, WhatsApp and Messenger all work over WiFi as they don’t need cell service, just internet.

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I was once skyping from Germany with my friend who was deep in some South American jungle and my brother somewhere in an African rain forest.

And I had to tell them my line was about to drop because I was entering my town.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

And I had to tell them my line was about to drop because I was entering my town.

In NYC subways, my parents would make phone calls on the D-line while it's above ground, then once it was about to enter 36 street (upbound direction), they'd be like "about to enter the tunnels, call again when have time" and sometimes they'd keep talking until the signal actually gets cut off.

The most memorable part was the manhattan bridge. They'd get the phone ready and the once they see daylight (or sometimez the night lights, if it's 6PM), they'd press call and talk for the entire duration of the bridge crossing. Like I remember once I was with my mom and we were heading home, and the subway got the the bridge segment, and mom called home to my older brother to tell him to start cooking the rice with the rice cooker so it'd be ready when we got home.

SO NOSTALGIC

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

For a while now I've had a theory that there is a positive correlation between our emotional intelligence and our expanding ability to communicate.

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