π΅ I'm an object, π΅
π΅ She's an object, π΅
π΅ He's an object, π΅
π΅ We're all objects, π΅
π΅ Wouldn't you like to be an object too? π΅
this post was submitted on 15 Mar 2026
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I had a troubled childhood and so did you, like I literally want to be drugged, like that's normal
Godsdammit my violet08 is leaking acid salts again. Accidentally left the batteries in her for a year again.
knowing who posted this before even checking the username....
Lemmy stands on the shoulders of like 5 people with some uhhh interesting social media habits
yes but thats kinda why it is so compfy around here
if adora and jessica stop posting, blahaj.zone might as well close.
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Pretty much my current relationship. (I'm not the one "being used" though.)
Reality isn't always as sexy though: Your moods won't always be in sync and your libidos won't always match. That's just human. But those times it all matches are just magic.
And for the other times: Open communication, toys and setting and respecting clear boundaries go a long way.
Based and consent pilled
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I had this for a couple of years. It's all it's cracked up to be. Really wish she hadn't gone crazy, shaved her head, and moved to Bali.
The whole "sex object" complaint never made sense to me tbh. Like I've always wanted "sex object" to be a part of my identity. It's great for non-sexual stuff to be appreciated, but I'd want my partner to just be horny for me at least for a portion of the time.
Itβs a problem when itβs all that your partner cares about. Sex is great, but the vast majority of the time you spend with your SO will not involve fucking. That other 90% is important too.
God I wish I could find a relationship that was 10% sex. I would actually try dating again.
I choose to read this as if you meant "only 10% sex" - because it amuses me, not because I think 10% is insufficient.
That would be a much better problem to have.
I don't know if it's puritanical or what, but I think some people misunderstand sexual objectification to be a rejection of all sexual displays entirely. Like as an idiom, even.
On the idiom point, it's entirely possible to objectify people in other ways, but I never really see anyone talk about them.
Some common ones: worker, consumer, commuter, fan, voter, reader, viewer, subscriber...
Edit: sex worker is an interesting one, conceptually. Plenty of people talk about how "wrong" and "coercive" it can be (and they can be right!), but for some reason like to skip over the whole incentive coming from the exact same place as any other work done to make a living. They don't do sexual things for money because people want them to, they do it because they need to pay bills.
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Consentual non consent I think they call it? Not sure
i think this is more free use kink.
CNC involves pretending you don't want it
Fine line for sure lol
"A lady in the streets but a freak in the bed"
- Ludacris
One of the truest trues that ever trued.
Its freak in the sheets... its supposed to ryme.. this broke me today.
"No pain, no increase"
Hes even a rapper. WTH...
At that point he's just trolling.
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Do people really want the whole "be used as a sex toy any time" thing? I do not understand that at all, tbh. I'm not judging y'all or whatever, it's just a very confusing concept to me. But sex is also a very complicated thing for me because of some shit I went through in my last relationship.
yeah I've known subs with a "I want to wake up in the middle of sex" or "I want to be drugged" fetish.
The more this thread teaches me, the more I realize that me wanting a cute girl to pull my hair isn't so crazy.
I once watched someone get chicken feet sewn into their skin at a fetish club. I think hair pulling is fine π
How do you even discover that that's your fetish. I have so many questions
Same way you find favorite foods: give it a try.
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Yes, not at all uncommon in the BDSM community. Neither are 24/7 kink relationships. However, reality is different from fantasy and there is a fair amount of nuance in how this works in the context of a LTR and not a fun weekend.
Many people like a bit of subordination/domination. As most things, it's a spectrum and there are some people tending to either edges.
The two big caveats about subordination fetishes are however that firstly, such fantasies can be a response to trauma and/or abuse and secondly, it puts you in a very vulnerable position and leaves you very open to exploitation.
It's the "comfy wholesome" part which really holds this together and makes it great: You're putting an immense amount of trust and responsibility on your partner if you submit yourself like that and it can only work if your partner is fully aware of this, up to the task and really cares about you.
Yeah, some people are into that. Terms called free-use. Sometimes its just an overly desire to be available to your significant other but there are many different ways one arrives at such affirmations
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Same, girl. Same. π
OK, by now we get that youβre rampantly horny, but besides that, whatβs your damage? Just the standard ADHD/autism, or borderline/dissociative or something extra spicy?
Borderline :3
Same dude. Same.
Saved. Working on being honest with what I want. Hoping we get the happiness we all deserve. One of these days...
Same yβall. Same.
Same, small furry creatures from Alpha Centuri. Same
Just the left one. Iβm taking this virginity to my grave and my impressively godlike asexuality cannot be stopped.
But romance is so good.
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So real
Lol my wife would very much vibe to this but as i guy i have to say its very hard to switch between these all the time. Mostly if am in comfy wholesome Mode.... dirty talk always feels super awkaward....
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