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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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If all things were the same, but it was men who fell pregnant and gave birth, abortion clinics would be so standard they’d be on every corner, like McDonald’s. In fact, it’d be a sign of status to go to one.

Male 1: “I’m just off to the abortion clinic real quick.”

Male 2: “Oh nice, King. You’ve been busy.”

Male 1 leaves.

Male 3: “He’s so cool.”

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[–] nitroemdash@lemmy.wtf 6 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

In year 2000 poll, percentage of pro-choice people was 49% among both men and women. In 2006 it was 51% for both. Since 1995 and until 2020, the difference never exceeded 8%, peaking at 20% in 2025 correlating with political polarisation, with year 2010 men responding more pro-choice than women respondents by 5% (47% vs. 42%)‡.

Partisan divide was always more influential than the gender one, with pro-choice stance being 47% less popular among republican women than among democratic women; 42% gap for R/D men in 2020–2021 poll‡. If cisgender men could give birth, it wouldn't have more influence on their abortion stance than overall political beliefs.

‡ Gender Gaps on Abortion Reach Historic Highs | Gallup, June 2025

[–] Scrogu@lemmy.zip 5 points 5 hours ago

If males gave birth then it would be females that competed for access to us and became physically stronger than males. The only thing that would change is the name of the physically and politically powerful gender.

It wouldn't make society better. Hyenas have bigger stronger dominant females and they have no utopia. Seahorse males give birth, they are the more maternal, females cheat on them.

Only fundamental difference between male and female is size and motility of sex cells. Only reason animals like us vary in size and strength is due to difference in offspring investment strategies.

[–] bss03@infosec.pub 1 points 4 hours ago

https://spot.colorado.edu/~heathwoo/Phil160,Fall02/thomson.htm -- ANYTHING less is denying the personhood of anyone that can get pregnant.

[–] Michal@programming.dev 2 points 6 hours ago

No, but they (we) would be more careful about contraception.

[–] ennof@feddit.org 1 points 5 hours ago

If all things were the same, but it was men who fell pregnant and gave birth, all things would be different.

[–] ironycanal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Is it a hostility to some essential concept of women, or a way to devalue reproduction caring and domestic labor? Which force is stronger, more original?

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Sexism is the strongest of all oppression. It is the most common, widespread, and ignored of all oppression and causes a huge amount of human suffering.

When women are dehumanized it usually relies on the prejudices that have been developed and reinforced through culture. So I think the essential concept is the driving force.

The devaluing of domestic labor is a side effect of a class of people without rights viewed as property.

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 1 points 6 hours ago

Most likely. Let's make it happen!

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

What is up with Lemmy, men and pregnancy??
Did I miss the new meta?

https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/69748408

[–] Zeddex@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I was thinking the same thing. First something about moths(I don't really get what that was about), then Loss, now this. What's next?

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 59 minutes ago

Luigi board? /j

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 9 points 17 hours ago

If men bore the children then women would have to do the sexual pursuing. The human race would quickly die out.

[–] 6244901@lemmy.zip 3 points 13 hours ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–] SabinStargem@lemmy.today 7 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (2 children)

Clearly, we have to genetically modify all men to be hyenas, so that they can experience the Miracle of Life through their dicks. /S.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 5 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

men have the anti-mullerien hormone from the Y chromosone to stop female secondary characteristics during fetal development. rarely there are disorders that prevent that gene from activating or it goes missing and they develop as a female, minus having the extra biological X CHromosone.

Androgen insensitivity syndrome is fascinating. Plenty of people with it grow up female and have no idea their genes are different, until they reached puberty and never get their period.

[–] wabafee@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I need to know more about this.

[–] SabinStargem@lemmy.today 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] wabafee@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Wow real life futas, also that is fucked up.

[–] binux@sh.itjust.works 29 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

This would be such an extreme warping of reality that it’s essentially impossible to make any assumptions about what it would entail like this. You know the joke about a time traveller moving a rock? Yeah, that times a million.

[–] squaresinger@lemmy.world 16 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

This here. If men would give birth, they would be women.

So much of what makes up the differences between the male and female experiences is down to the fact that women give birth.

If it was the men who gave birth and not the women, we'd have pretty much everything we have now, just gender-reversed.

[–] Wataba@sh.itjust.works 2 points 12 hours ago

So, basically that one Red Dwarf episode. Cool.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 14 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (2 children)

This assumes it simply reverses the roles so men give birth and women don't.

What if we all gave birth?

[–] squaresinger@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

In that case, there likely wouldn't be two separate genders at all, because why would there be? Hermaphrodite species exist, and they usually just have a single gender.

[–] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 hours ago

*sex

sexes are not the same as genders and should not be called genders

[–] thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 14 hours ago

what if we all gave birth 👉👈

(???)

[–] Hawk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

All this post proves is that people have no fucking clue what abortion entails

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Having been present for an abortion please do tell.

[–] tiny_hedgehog@piefed.social 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)
[–] arin@lemmy.world 30 points 1 day ago (5 children)

If men gave birth they would be called women

[–] Scrollone@feddit.it 10 points 1 day ago (7 children)

You're joking but maybe that's exactly the reason why men always had it easier in history. They didn't have to spend 9 months × child suffering + menstrual cycle every month

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[–] Pudutr0n@lemmy.world 94 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Did you know grey hyenas have a matriarchal society? Females are more aggressive, dominant and hold different social status to males. They aren't less horrible than patriarchal hyenas.

The problem isn't the males or the females. It's that they're hyenas.

[–] ILikeTraaaains@lemmy.world 58 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And they give birth through a pseudo penis that is torn apart.

I don’t think it brings anything useful to the conversation, but it is an interesting fact.

[–] Pudutr0n@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago

This conversation is now about hyenas.

[–] EyIchFragDochNur@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Pudutr0n@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago

Are you not?

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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago

No, there wouldn't be.

The policy would be the same, because the issue of abortion makes the two ruling parties way too much money to make it worth legalizing or banning completely. Hell, when the leak of the Roe repeal occurred, Democrats raked in $80,000,000 alone. A cool $80,000,000 and all they had to do was pretend to care about abortion by making a tweet or something.

OP is incorrect.

[–] RickyRigatoni@piefed.zip 11 points 1 day ago

If men could give birth everyone would tell them to man the fuck up and deal with it.

[–] daannii@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

You never see legislation on condoms.

Just birth control.

When it's a man's choice it's uncontested.

But a woman shouldn't have the same autonomy.

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