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Please don't expect the community to give you answers to your questions which you then delete right afterwards. Those of us who put time into answering your questions are not doing so just to serve your personal needs, we are here to help build a community knowledge base that others can search and reference.

This has become a chronic issue with Lemmy and its starting to feel like it's a waste of time to answer questions.

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[–] DundasStation@lemmy.ca 28 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Well OP. Looks like your post resulted in a moderator resigning and the appointment of two new moderators in this community. As I've said previously, it was a moderator removing posts for a very far stretch interpretation of Rule 3, and not users deleting them after getting the answer.

Let's hope this results in a better community for the selfhosters here.

[–] curbstickle_lw@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago

And I'll use your comment as my post here for a local mod appointment of my lw account!

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Oh my GOD that's probably what happened to mine! I was discussing something on my last post and then suddenly the mod removed it because of "Rule 3". Because we were talking about selfhosting. Which, all selfhosting is on our own hardware..., but I think my post leaned more hardware than the mod liked. Super annoying when you're having a valid conversation, people are chiming in and helping, and then suddenly Removed: Arbitrary rule violation.

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago

Let’s hope this results in a better community for the selfhosters here.

Wow! I just noticed that. Shit moves quickly on the tubes. Welcome our new overlords!

[–] netvor@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

a moderator removing posts for a very far stretch interpretation of Rule 3

...stretch by which party? in the sense that the post not really about self-hosting (and OP tried to use rule 3 in a stretched interpretation), or that the post was about self-hosting but moderator applied it in unnecessarily strict way? The way you phrased it seems like the former, but then why would that result in moderator resigning?

(I'm not a native English speaker so sorry if it should have been clear.)

[–] DundasStation@lemmy.ca 8 points 21 hours ago

To give you some context, I initially made this comment on OP's post. Then I followed up with this comment after the resignation of a moderator on !selfhosted@lemmy.world.

I was referring to the former moderator's very bizarre interpretation of Rule 3. You'll see in the modlogs that many posts that were clearly about selfhosting getting removed under Rule 3.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 30 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I've never understood why the OP can nuke an entire thread full of comments. Not even reddit is that obtuse.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

They didn't

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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's a particularly egregious case of "fuck you, got mine"

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago
[–] imetators@lemmy.dbzer0.com 63 points 2 days ago (3 children)

People do that? That's fucked up...

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

No, they don't.

[–] modus@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

What the hell is the purpose?

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[–] irish_link@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago (2 children)

This is the same thing as posting on a forum a question, then saying never mind I figured it out WITHOUT STATING THE ANSWER! When googling shit and coming across this back in the day I would get more mad at those than my issue.

[–] foo@feddit.uk 14 points 1 day ago (4 children)

That's even more infuriating than when you used Google to find a thread where someone asks the exact question you have, and there is only one response and it's someone saying "use Google".

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

“use Google”.

It makes me cringe when I see it in a forum. *Imagine you come to a forum designed to help people do , you ask a question, and the response is 'Google exists. Piss off."

[–] plutopos@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

The spiritual heir to 'RTFM'

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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Came across that so many fucking times that it's burned into my psyche. I will go out of my way to list the answer, especially now google is a wet pile of shit technically

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 47 points 2 days ago (3 children)

we need to make a list of usernames who are deleting their posts, regularly or even just twice

[–] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Yeah it's more than likely the same people doing it all the time.

Edit: either that or AI bots farming information from Lemmy to feed their databases.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 0 points 3 hours ago

None of that happened

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[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 192 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (29 children)

It doesn't make sense, either. There's no rational reason to delete a thread after the question has been answered.

Even if it wasn't actually a person but was an AI agent asking questions so it can scrape the data from the answers, there's no real utility in deleting the posts after receiving responses. It just seems so weird.

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[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 44 points 2 days ago (10 children)

I just want to apologize for being the person who asks questions and then doesn't respond to the comments. I get overwhelmed D: but I'd never delete my post, what's the purpose in that?

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[–] happydoors@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I haven’t seen the posts (probably from deletion) but Lemmy to me is an invaluable source of smart Linux and selfhosters. Seems like a great place to ask questions for problem to me on the surface. Where should people like me go to if I need help? Genuinely asking

[–] username123@sh.itjust.works 25 points 1 day ago

The way I read it is it's not the asking questions that is the problem at all, it's the deleting afterwards.

[–] SaltySalamander@fedia.io 1 points 1 day ago

Where should people like me go to if I need help?

Here. Just don't delete the question after you get your answer.

[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Oh, I thought this was about me since I just asked for file transfer stuff but you're specifically talking about deleting it right after. It happened to me on asklemmy where the user deleted it right after

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

It was a mod

[–] krypto@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 days ago

Asking questions in a public forum (after searching imo) is generally a positive thing. Answers are then public and the next person with the question can find the answer. That sort of behaviour should be encouraged, and no one will ever complain about it imo.

[–] goferking0@lemmy.sdf.org 61 points 2 days ago (19 children)
[–] mlg@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

https://lemmy.world/post/39025760

wtf? Half the post is nuked even after being locked. I don't even see how such a small community can be so stuck up about relevancy and purity washing selfhosted as if we all own our own DNS registrars and can do outbound SMTP.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

I assume they did not read the post very clearly.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 39 points 2 days ago (12 children)

I don't get it. why are they deleting their posts?

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[–] laserjet@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 day ago

On reddit they had bots that would automatically repost the content of the post so it couldn't be deleted.

[–] whatiswrongwithyou@lemmy.ml 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 71 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Has that been happening a lot here?

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 103 points 2 days ago (10 children)

Lemmy in general, yes. Here in self hosted at least a couple of times that I've seen. Including earlier today. But I don't interact on every post.

I only find out because sometimes I like to go back to posts I comment on and see what additional information people have offered. (There's always something to learn.) Then I find the post has been deleted.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 92 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I absolutely detest how on lemmy deleting a post also nukes access to the comments. They’re still there, but there’s no way in many normally lemmy UI to get to them.

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