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Don't get me wrong, if you have a good jam or preserves it's totally fine on a sandwich, and I wouldn't turn my nose up at it. However, peanut butter doesn't really need the help, and the extra sweetness from jelly is totally unnecessary. Toasted bread and peanut butter is all you need for a quality simple sandwich.

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[–] TwiddleTwaddle@lemmy.blahaj.zone 49 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] Stiffneckedppl@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

With a glass of milk, it's great.

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Lots of butter helps to lube it up.

[–] setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world 35 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Upvoted for strong disagreement. If I had to drop an ingredient it would be the peanut butter (leaving out the bread would be too messy)

[–] TWeaK@lemmy.today 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I strongly disagree. You can't drop the peanut butter.

But I also agree that you can't drop the jam.

There are better ways to enjoy plain peanut butter than in bread. Like straight out the jar.

[–] Zorque@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'd say toast with jelly is definitely a breakfast staple, though.

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[–] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Peanut butter and honey ftw

[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago

That was the only way my kids would have them.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago

I was raised on PB&H.

It was cheaper getting the comby stuff right from the apiarist, so while it fit our budget back then it was a little comby. And the bread was homemade, as dad would make like 72 loaves in the kitchen and barter most of them away (1983 financial crunch).

Yep. Homemade bread, organic honey, kraft PB. Smooth, ya bloody heathens.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Adding Jelly to a Peanutbutter Sandwich makes it a PB&J. If someone asked me if I wanted a Peanutbutter Sandwich and I said yes, and then they instead brought me a PB&J, I'd be annoyed.

I acknowledge this probably could have been worded better, but I'm gonna take bong rips rather than fix it 😤

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I agree, but I'd add butter.

This is because I got used to butter on all of my sandwiches, because my mom made them that way. The reasoning was the butter prevented the other wet stuff from soaking through the bread, and that works.

[–] PNW_Doug@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Butter on sandwiches isn't something I grew up with, but I can appreciate the logic behind its use. I've tried it a few times and am generally neutral on it. It is in essence—on a sandwich infrastructure level—mayonnaise with a different flavor profile.

I'd expect peanut butter to be a better moisture barrier than either butter or mayo however.

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[–] voxthefox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago

I'd agree that people always put too much jelly, I like a thin layer of jam/jelly opposed to globs of it, but peanut butter sandwich by itself is just too dry & chewy.

[–] kubok@fedia.io 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Better unpopular opinion: US-style peanut butter is disgusting. It is sweetened and has an off-putting structure. European style peanut butter is way better.

More popular opinion: the best topping for peanut butter is sambal, which is an Indonesian style chilli paste

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[–] arcine@jlai.lu 6 points 1 month ago

Peanut butter is horrifyingly dry on its own.

[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I like pickles more then jelly

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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

Well, definitely fits the community!

I will say that I disagree, though I do find joy in just a plain peanutbutter sandwich at times.

But, to me, peanutbutter is a foundation to build with, not the main goal. When teamed up with the right ingredients, it provides synergy. It's got sweet, salty, a little umami, and that unique peanut taste. So it mixes well with so much.

The key to jelly is making sure that it still manages to have a tartness and the experience is more fulfilling. I find that actually jellies aren't as good as preserves or jams, as jelly tends to be way more sugar based and has little or no "body" from the original fruit.

But one of my favorite PB based sandwiches is apples. Slice them up thin, a scant layer of pb on each slice of bread, with the slices stacked in between. A decently tart apple is sublime. Add a slice of cheddar and you get a deeper complexity.

[–] Styxia@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I prefer it with cucumber myself. Ads a nice fresh crispness to it.

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[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Jelly is for children.

Use jam instead. Organic (no HFCS) strawberry is my go-to.

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[–] elephantium@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Good post. This IS an unpopular opinion. I really want to downvote you because I disagree, but I want to upvote you because you clearly understood the assignment.

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[–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I like peanut butter with a bit of agave. Something I think might differ between you and the people objecting to this is the type of peanut butter used. "Natural" peanut butter where you have to mix the peanut butter is better for plain sandwiches because the oil makes it less gunky imo.

[–] ohshit604@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Peanut butter + Honey + Banana slices

Your welcome, just keep a drink close by.

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[–] PNW_Doug@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

You are absolutely correct if that is what you prefer.

You are incorrect for me however, as I generally prefer mine with a little raspberry jam to shake up the flavor profile. Plain is good too however.

Can't say I've ever gotten worked up over someone's food preference.

[–] titanicx@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sooooo, you want to eat just a peanut butter sandwich. Since there's no jam.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] titanicx@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago

Now that's my jam

[–] nomecks@lemmy.wtf 4 points 1 month ago

Thin layer of jam, 4cm thick layer of peanut butter.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 4 points 1 month ago

As far as blank blank& blank sandwiches go, my favorite is cream cheese and Nutella.

[–] harambe69@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago

I like to put a sliced banana. Offsets the dryness of plain peanut butter, and adds a bit of sweetness.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 4 points 1 month ago

I don't think I've purchased jelly in like decades, but I eat a lot of peanut butter. Sometimes with bananas.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

When I ate peanut butter, I would agree with you. I always preferred just some crunchy peanut butter and a lotta water. Helped keep me hydrated.

[–] wattanao@fedia.io 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My unpopular opinion is that peanut butter does not belong on a sandwich. Don't get me wrong, I love peanut butter, on its own or as part of a snack or dessert, but spreading it between two slices of bread? It doesn't matter what else you put on it, it's way too sticky and messy for me to enjoy it.

[–] swicano@programming.dev 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Try holding the sandwich from the outside rather than jamming your hand in the middle like a popsicle. I find that really reduced the stickiness and messiness for me.

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[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)
[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I......I have to upvote this. Not because I agree, but because I don't agree. This opinion is completely unpopular with me. Therefore you get an upvote for being objectively wrong.

[–] NihilsineNefas@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 month ago

Welp yeah, if you add jelly to it then the sandwich wouldn't be a peanut butter, but a PB+J sandwich

[–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Even better without the peanut butter

[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

No, a peanut butter sandwich with no peanut butter would be objectively terrible.

[–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Proof by counterexample: I like it better

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[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Well, yeah of course, because adding jelly would make it a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.

[–] farmgineer@nord.pub 3 points 1 month ago

I always hated PB&J. Both were fine on bread (though toasted was preferable with the jam), but I hated them mixed. I think I tried it twice ever in my life. It's weird since I love all kinds of sweet + salty combos; I think it's a texture issue.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I like peanut butter in savory stuff much more than in sweet. So I would agree. I don't buy the kind with sugar in it. But I would never make a peanut butter sandwich either, unless the only food in the house was somehow peanut butter and bread.

Someone posted here that they liked a peanut butter and onion sandwich, I'd try that.

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