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[–] hirihit640@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I used to never really care about fashion. Felt like a stupid status symbol. But I once went to a big city in east asia, and I was impressed by how nicely everybody dressed. Everybody felt like they complemented the environment, and I felt like I stook out like a sore thumb.

I feel like that's an underappreciated side of fashion. Dressing up to fit the environment, to avoid ruining overall aesthetics. It's less about the individual, more about the community. In this asian city I also noticed that people weren't as loud and disruptive in public spaces. It feels like the same concept. You try not to make loud noises to disturb others, and you try not to dress so badly as to clash with the environment.

It really feels like a cultural difference between the east and west, and I feel like the west could learn a bit from the east here.

So if you're going to a fine dining restaurant with ornate decor and chandeliers, dress up in fancy clothes. If you're just walking around a popular spot in the city, casual is fine but look at how people are dressed around you and try not to clash. The goal isn't to look amazing and draw attention, the goal is to avoid looking out-of-place.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

That definitely wasn't my wardrobe approach. One of my main inspirations as I was learning how to dress better was Chalky White from Boardwalk Empire.

I like colors. Tended toward the ostentatious. But I was working in politics, so it helped to be eye-catching.

[–] Erna_muse@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I remember parts of this show being oddly dark. I'd watch a reboot that was all about America declining but with dinosaurs.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

The ending was about as bleak as endings get.

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 5 points 5 hours ago

NOT THE MAMA!!!

[–] rangber@lemmy.zip 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

This Twitter channel is pretty racist btw.

[–] modus@lemmy.world 11 points 7 hours ago

~~This~~ Twitter ~~channel~~ is pretty racist btw.

FTFY

[–] Wander@sh.itjust.works 17 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

All of western history people cared about how they look.

Now people just go out wearing some advertisement for some stupid company.

Self respect and respect for the community is gone.

[–] ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world 13 points 15 hours ago (5 children)

Being concerned about what strangers think of you & your attire is the opposite of self-respect.

[–] VelvetPinkOtter123@lemmy.world -2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Depends, I would say it's a show of respect

I'm aware other people are around and I'm going to present myself in a way that is un-offensive to those people. And not just other customers, but the staff as well

Does it matter at McDonalds? no, McDonalds is a pretty casual place where you would expect people to show in casual attire; be that pajamas because they've been being lazy all day, suits because they're at lunch during work, or dirty clothes because they've been doing manual labor... whatever

But showing up to a nicer place in casual clothes basically says to everyone, "I have about as much respect for this place as I do Wal-Mart or McDonalds"; it can also say, "I don't have much respect for myself" too. As in, "I'm too lazy to even put on clothes so I just walk around in my cookie monster pajamas".

[–] jjlinux@lemmy.zip 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

And why should I care for what other people decide my attire tells them?

[–] VelvetPinkOtter123@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

You don't have to but we don't have time to get to know every single person in the world on a personal level, and the way someone looks can tell you a lot about them

I always heard it as, "you wear a hat to be associated with other people that wear that same hat".

You put on a cowboy hat so that people assume you like big trucks and country music.

You're free to walk around looking like human trash but then also you shouldn't be surprised when people assume you are human trash. Remember, you don't always just represent yourself. You represent other people in your social group. Like if you're a teenager you represent teenagers.

The assumption is that all the nerds that play cards at comic book stores are fat, dirty, and stinky because enough of the nerds that paly cards at comic book stores showed up fat, dirty and stinky that this became the stereotype.

Had they all shown up in suits we'd probably have a different opinion of them. It doesn't matter if they're nice people, we have no idea, we didn't get the opportunity to talk to them... all we know is that they look mega-gross so we assume they're all mega-gross. And now, if you admit that you like playing cards at comic book stores, we'll all assume you're mega gross too

So, it really would have been helpful if enough of them had cared what others thought of them enough to clean up a bit so they didn't destroy the reputation of all the other people who wear that same hat

And if you're a business owner, if you let people look like this in your business, it can hurt your business. There's a reason we all assume Wal-Mart is trashy as fuck and that's because the people shopping at Wal-Mart have a tendency to go there looking trashy as fuck. So much so there use to be a website dedicated to looking at all the insane ways Wal-Mart shoppers dressed

[–] jjlinux@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 hours ago

I can work from pretty much anywhere as long as I have a connection, so most of my attires are comprised of PJ pants, opinionated r-shirts and flip flops. Evidently, I have other clothes, but unless my wife wants to go out somewhere that has a strict dress code (and by strict I mean that they won't let you in unless you're wearing the bare minimum) I barely wear any of them. Then there's fully formal requirements, you just won't see me anywhere near those. I guess I'm old enough to not care at all.

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[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world 41 points 21 hours ago (3 children)

Why do 'Murican "car guys" make owning a car (well, the finance company really owns it) their whole personality?

It's a car

Like dickheads who wear Harley clothing to advertise the fact that they're afraid of going around corners and desperately need attention

[–] mattyroses@lemmy.today 8 points 10 hours ago

Fun fact, for decades Harley has made more selling their clothes to wannabes than selling their shit bikes to dentists with a midlife crisis

[–] nickiwest@lemmy.world 23 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Not nearly as bad as the lady who briefly worked in my office. She had a ton of Harley-Davidson accessories. Literally the first thing she told us was that she and her husband love the brand and riding motorcycles. I asked how many Harleys they had. The answer? Zero, but they hoped to buy one someday.

They made "hoping to own something" their whole personality.

[–] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 hours ago

They made “hoping to own something” their whole personality.

The American Dream.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

I wonder what will happen when they can actually afford to buy a Harley, and realize they're not very good bikes?

[–] BeardedBlaze@lemmy.world 9 points 18 hours ago

To be fair, it's not just an American thing. Plenty of beemer bros in Europe.

[–] Spezi@feddit.org 11 points 20 hours ago
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