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[–] whoisearth@lemmy.ca 3 points 30 minutes ago

Make that a Kenyan girl and you have my ex.

Miss me with that bullshit. Christ that relationship damaged me.

[–] Dookieman12@piefed.social 7 points 53 minutes ago (1 children)

I've met several women like this. They're selfish, manipulative, hypocritical, and they LIE. Being involved with them to any extent is exhausting.

Never got one pregnant. A friend of mine married a ho like this after she baby trapped him. He wanted her to get a job so she called the police and said he hit her and touched their kid. He's in prison now.

Don't put your dick in crazy.

[–] Thebeardedsinglemalt@lemmy.world 2 points 45 minutes ago* (last edited 44 minutes ago)

"Those are the eyes of someone who'd poke holes in a condom just to extend the relationship"

[–] JCSpark@lemmy.ca 3 points 26 minutes ago

I'm all for any person practising whatever relationship style they want. What im against is using people to fulfill your needs/wants. Have fun, meet people, enjoy experiences, but please dont make people your experiments. You may enjoy "the chase", but the long term effects on those individuals may have further impacts.

I won't fully agree with all the other comments that OP is not a nice person for doing this. We all have our motivations, methods, and reasoning. That being said, considering the fact that other humans have feelings and desires helps to mitigate that main character syndrome.

[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 3 points 50 minutes ago (1 children)

Ew. Relationships are two-way.

[–] did_you_find_violets@lemmy.world 2 points 43 minutes ago

this isn't about relationships tho. it's about having fun without commitment, which can also be 2-way. for example, my fling and i are keeping each other entertained without the expectation of anything serious.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

She likes to be chased, but doesn't like to be caught. Or at least that's what she wants in that point in her life. Move on, maybe you'll bump into her down the road when she's ready or maybe not.

Whatever you do, don't stick around and play the games if you want something more serious. You'll just end up either getting hurt or even worse. Either you grow your feelings for her when she doesn't. This isn't fun. Or, you'll get her to be with you when she doesn't want to be tied down. This can cause her to either resent you or if she's for the streets, to cheat on you. Either way it's not a fun time for anyone.

[–] StarryPhoenix97@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago

"I like the idea of it, not the truth. the weakness. we have no future."

[–] OhStopYellingAtMe@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] did_you_find_violets@lemmy.world 6 points 1 hour ago (3 children)

the concept of a female perspective meme about libertinage being an incel meme...

the only angle i see in which it could be seen that way is if you think all women are puritanical prudes, which is misogynistic. ironic.

[–] SaltyIceteaMaker@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

nah they got a point, thats the typa post id expect to see on 4chan right before they invent a new slur that no one will ever use

nah, relegating a woman's expression of libertinage, vanity, or playful detachment to the realm of "inceldom" is deeply puritanical. it suggests that women aren't allowed to be chaotic, selfish, or purely driven by the ego-boost of the chase. it assumes women must only want wholesome, committed love & be passive, relationship-seeking partners

[–] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 3 points 30 minutes ago (1 children)

Change your perspective and imagine the meme was made by a (male) incel and you'll get what they were getting at.

[–] did_you_find_violets@lemmy.world 1 points 23 minutes ago

i'm imagining it. the content doesn't change, so the meaning of the meme doesn't change (fun without commitment). the only thing that could cause someone to label it as “incel” is, ironically, the reader's own biases about women.

my points still stand.

[–] DeLancre@piefed.social 6 points 1 hour ago

I will be honest, I'm somewhat proud of my proficiency level in English, especially considering I learned russian and German in school.

But your comment confuses me, cause I don't understand half of it.

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 24 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

It's like trying to gently explain to your dealer that you don't want to hear his mixtape.

[–] fonix232@fedia.io 16 points 3 hours ago

More like trying to tell him that you'll listen to his mixtape as long as he provides drugs for free