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Maybe I’m oversensitive? We all know our votes here are public record, but to me it seems like weird, obsessive, and unhealthy behavior.

It definitely is a red flag for me to the point where I wonder if I shouldn’t just outright block people who go around making it known it’s something the participate in.

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[–] BassTurd@lemmy.world 4 points 41 minutes ago

I'll look at some users who post a ridiculous take on something. I mostly look to see if they are just a shitty troll or if it was a one off and decide if I want to block them. I don't look through there posts for context, just the raw vote numbers. If someone is majority negative on their posts, then they don't need to show up in my feed.

There are a handful of other users on here who I see frequently that I don't agree with on a lot of things, and the community agrees with me based on votes, but those users also make good comments that are beneficial to some conversations and sometimes I learn something new. I'll put up with the bad for the good.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 21 minutes ago

I think its something I would have to encounter, and encounter enough, to be wierded out. If people do this I have no idea about it. I mean if Im thinking of blocking someone I look at their profile but that is mostly about comment and post history. I guess I should look and up and down voting because if someone is obviously brigrading I think I would want to block them.

[–] TootSweet@lemmy.world 1 points 24 minutes ago

The only "creepy" thing about it is that viewing who upvoted/downvoted what isn't a feature that's just built into Lemmy (and Lemmy-UI). I can't imagine why the authors of Lemmy would want to have a class system with some (instance admins) being able to see vote information and others (everyone else) being unable.

You say "we all know our votes here are public record", but that's not really true. Even Lemvotes doesn't work for at least half of the posts I've tried it on. It'd be more accurate to say "we all know our votes here aren't secret".

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 1 hour ago

It's public to stop vote manipulation and brigading. When you can see that a ton of up/downvotes on a post all come from 37 alts of the same user, it makes it easier to ban those people.

[–] ZkhqrD5o@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I only do that with accounts that are sus, like posting propaganda, ads, etc. To check if it is a bot and to report it.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago

Sometimes I'll check post and comment history if something seems a little off. For example, does this account show patterns you might see in a troll or bot?

Looking at votes though? That never even occurred to me, and even know I don't see what the point would be.

[–] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 4 points 3 hours ago

It's certainly a waste of time.

[–] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 4 points 3 hours ago

More sad than creepy IMO

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 25 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Yeah. I did it though. Wish I hadn't but shitty pattern seeking brain was like "but what if something interesting happens? What if you have an arch enemy"

No such luck, but it turns out there's a few accounts who just downvote everything indiscriminately and that's a little funny

[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I was curious who the single down vote on every cat post was so I checked. It was a bunch of different people. I’m still confused.

[–] ccunning@lemmy.world 12 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

The doing it doesn’t bother me so much as the “Hey so I was browsing through my downvotes and noticed you downvoted me. Justify your actions to me!” PMs.

Like - I don’t even know who you are or what you’re talking about. Thanks for the research project so I can piece together all these disparate pieces of information so I can figure out wtf you’re even talking about.

[–] HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social 1 points 7 minutes ago

“Hey so I was browsing through my downvotes and noticed you downvoted me. Justify your actions to me!” PMs.

Yeah that's a instant block lol

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 10 points 5 hours ago

The doing it doesn’t bother me so much as the “Hey so I was browsing through my downvotes and noticed you downvoted me. Justify your actions to me!” PMs.

That is not healthy behavior.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Oh. Yeah that's fuggin weird. Did somebody do that to you? How fragile.

[–] ccunning@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah. Not sure I’m proud of the response but I hadn’t given my self much time to think before responding…

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 hours ago

I'm not judging. Weird conversation to be forced to have, hope they grow out of it

[–] datavoid@sh.itjust.works 27 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, the internet is filled with weirdos - next question

[–] fyzzlefry@retrolemmy.com 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] protist@retrofed.com 1 points 2 hours ago

No! I'm Spartacus

[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 hours ago

I dunno. It's how the platform was designed. Lemmy was designed to imitate Reddit but with some changes. Looking back at a Redditor's post history was always controversial. Vote history just adds a new layer to that.

I got banned from a bunch of AI comms I've never visited; I can only guess because I'm a member of "Fuck AI". Truth is, I'm curiously cautious, or cautiously curious, I'm not sure. I'm not too big on AI, but neither am I vehemently against it (besides its affect on the gaming industry). I think the ban was just a knee-jerk reaction and probably a bit uncalled for, but again, the platform has the feature for a reason.

I always thought I had the sanest take on Reddit when it came to viewing post history. If someone was vitriolic, I'd check their history to see if this is how they are all the time or if they're having a bad day. If the former, I might downvote/block... if the latter, I might give it a few days and reply, hoping they'd be in a better mood then.

I've never looked at another user's vote history. It's not really any of my business; I don't see a real benefit for me to do so.

[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 18 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

You should immediately block everyone who disagrees with you. Then all of your BS will be eternally enabled and you'll never be wrong about anything.

[–] schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works 5 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Legitimately the reason I hesitated to block people I was reporting on reddit.

Lemmy's public downvoting could be easily gamed.

[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

I can't imagine how any of these things could actually matter. Like... ...ever.

Even a little bit.

[–] schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I envy your lack of imagination.

Let's say 0.5% of users care enough about unreported bots to downvote or report them. If all information is public, you can quickly hide your bot comment or posts from that 0.5% and dodge being detected by the community.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

I didn't know what that is and will continue with that. Thanks though!

[–] ccunning@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Are you saying I should embrace the thing I fear to take away its power?

Or just just block folks who vocally disagree?

[–] bluGill@fedia.io 1 points 3 hours ago

You should take an active effort to read the intelligent comments of people who disagree with you. I don't know how you hand downvotes and blocking and so I can't tell if this is a comment that is directly at you to change your ways or if you already are doing this and you are only downvoting/blocking obvious garbage. Too many people, when they see a point of view they disagree with, assume immediately that the other person is stupid and that common is garbage. But that is false. It is, however, a very hard bias to overcome in yourself. Something I struggle with, too.

[–] DjangoFett@lemmy.zip 5 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] DjangoFett@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I just wish I knew why I keep hearing myself after I speak. So strange.

[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

I totally agree.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 13 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, those people are creepy.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Ngl, I'm curious who the two consistent downvoters of .ml posts are, even if of they're just slightly progressive or relatively conservative or actual socialist comments.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Well, that would be a job for a script checking for such occasions, and react to summaries. Not a reason to poke a personal nose into this.

[–] Fuckfuckmyfuckingass@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

How do you even see who down votes?

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

This is up and down votes for your comment: (I gave you a downvote so you can see how it looks. Sorry)

https://lemvotes.org/comment/lemmy.world/comment/25430224

If you click the colored link icon that looks like a spiderweb, you get a direct link to your comment, copy the last numbered part in this case: 25430224 and add it to this lemvotes link: https://lemvotes.org/comment/lemmy.world/comment/

AFAIK some apps have the function built in.

[–] Fuckfuckmyfuckingass@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

NOOO MY IMAGINARY INTERNET POINTS IM BLOCKING YOU 5EVER!!!!

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 1 points 26 minutes ago

Goddammit! 4ever I can handle but 5ever that is brutal. 😋

[–] Archangel1313@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Yes. An explanation for this, would be great.

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Explanation provided, just check context of the post you responded to. I'm not repeating it here to avoid double posting.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

"I went through your post history and so now I feel confident stereotyping you" is a borderline temp ban red flag, imo. It definitely indicates that the person is tilted hard enough, for one reason or another, to not take the discussion rationally and maybe need a break. If your community excludes certain harmful opinions then a post history check can be helpful for moderation, but using it to ad hominem someone in a discussion forum where all the important information should be in the discussion is flame war tactics and can lead to stalking.

Usually doesn't happen here to the degree it happens on reddit, but literally this week I had someone do it to try and claim that I hate cars because I post in /c/fuckcars@lemmy.world, even though I myself own two cars. Indeed, it was a stupid topic that dependably gets some people irrationally incensed, which primed this guy to try and make it personal.

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

I don't care, just seems like a waste of time and a bit childish IMO.
It's been a long time since it happened last, but I have experienced users claiming they have me flagged for something.
And sometimes when taken out of context a post can seem bad, but the times it has happened, the opinion quickly turned against them when they "called me out", and I explained the background.
I basically never see that anymore, IDK maybe I blocked them? Because generally those people are idiots.

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I used to ban people who repeatedly downvoted content on my conservative community but the last couple months I’ve stopped doing that and it hasn’t changed the vibe of the community at all.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 4 points 4 hours ago

Yet another example of how the pearl clutching about down votes is stupid.

[–] EntheoNaut@lemmy.ml 0 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

TIL

WTFC

TMDV

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

The only time I check is to try and catch if I'm being targeted by someone mass down voting me or using alts to do so. Only when I'm seeing weird stuff like every one of my comments for a while getting at least one downvote, or seeing my comments deep in a one on one conversation on an otherwise dead thread getting multiple downvotes (no one's going to even see those except me and who I'm talking to).

Unfortunately, this has been a "you're only paranoid if they aren't out to get you" situation. Most give up after a day or two and I just block and move on, but it was a bit common for a few months.


I caught one of the "respected" members of my instance pulling that shit, a person who moderates multiple comms, downvoting me using their alts over multiple instances.

They accused me of doxxing them (they were actually around that time). Now I have a bunch of bans in my modlog saying that I used a slur, when I was quoting the name of an ancient meme and I edited the word out long before they did the bans.

[–] Aqivex@fedinsfw.app 1 points 3 hours ago

(no one's going to even see those except me and who I'm talking to).

Untrue. Even one on one's in a public medium, are public. Lurkers have every right to opine on takes as they see fit, reply or platform-granted reaction tools both. Whether they catch the comments fresh or later when you consider it a "dead thread".

I personally do it all the time, upvote or downvote.

There's only so many hours in a day and Fediverse content isn't so plentiful that it makes sense to mark discussions that are still near the top of a comms feed as "dead" to me.

That's before we even get into how easy it is to accidentally hit the buttons in a lot of Lemmy client apps.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 3 points 4 hours ago

Just letting you know that I down voted this comment so you don't need to waste the time looking up who did it.