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Yeah that's a bad choice. Like real bad.
Edit: I keep coming back to this in my mind - thinking about this guy who will think this is a GREAT IDEA for two weeks. And then get home sans a finger.
Not even to mention the possible outcomes of the games. Anything could happen. Their team could be out in the first round (maybe because everyone didn't have all their fingers at it hurt their play more than they expected!). There was also a fire on the trains earlier today in an arson attempt. I hate to think about it, but the Olympics have had bombs go off before, and what if the games are postponed for some reason. I really hope that doesn't happen, but I'm just thinking about all these possibilities that could come up to make amputation even more dumb than it is right now.
I get that competitive spirit makes you do crazy things sometimes. But I will 100% predict - no matter what this guy says in the future - that when he's 50, 60, 70...30 years + one month old he's going to have the biggest regrets. It doesn't even matter which finger - you use that finger more that you think. And there's going to be something that is now worse. Shit, I'm typing this message and I'm using ALL my fingers. I can't even imagine not having one.
I feel bad for him.
I find it somewhat shocking that the doctors agreed to amputate. You can’t force patients to make good decisions, but amputating a finger because he doesn’t want to wait for it to heal seems to go beyond what’s ethical. If he wasn’t going to be stopped from going regardless I guess you could make an argument it was harm reduction.
Or they might have been worried that he would do it himself if they said no.
That’s what I was thinking.. if the doc doesn’t do it then this pounds a bottle of whisky and has his buddies get the hedge trimmers
I would say letting a finger stop you from playing in the Olympics when you're a hockey player and individual fingers aren't all that necessary would be the sort of thing that would weigh on someone for years. Leading to clinical depression, in fact. I wouldn't blame a doctor for doing it. As you said, harm reduction.
That said, this is his third Olympics, so I don't know if that would be enough in this case.
It's a legitimate decision... It sounds like a bad one IMO (I'd try to play through the pain in a brace or I could or I'd ride the bench personally), but doctors should give you your options then help you.
You can a normal life without a finger, and it absolutely does heal more quickly. It's an option, and I'd say a doctor that doesn't present it to you when you ask about options should lose their license
Aside from the FOMO, if he had info from his doctor that the chance of regaining pain free use of the finger after the long recovery was low, then it's just a personal choice to remove it. We can't really relate to that.
I'm not sure which finger. But if it was a pinkie, I have to imagine they would more regret missing the Olympics, even if it was the third one.
You have a third pinky?
Yeah, don't you? It's always good to have a jar of spares, just in case you want to go to the Olympics for the third time!
The pinkie is a terrible one to lose. You don't realize how important it is until you are missing one. NerdForge had a great video on creating an artificial replacement for her missing pinkie. If I had a choice, the middle finger is a better one to lose and compensate for. Better, as in there isn't a good one to lose.
Its not just that - it's the state of mind to get to the point of participating at the Olympics. Imagine investing years into something just for some irrelevant random thing to block that.
I don't really se how an athlete like that missing a finger could ever compare to the decades of regret.
Athletes that have to drop out of events they trained for years can cause them serious psychological damage (with a lot more consequences than a finger ever would). And Olympics are for most athletes once in a lifetime opportunity and goal. Its not a vacation you can just choose.
If the finger can be saved after a couple of months it’s still a bad move since the guy has a good 50 years of his life left.
This was his third Olympics, too.
I’ve learned that it’s only half a finger, so it’s just a nub now. Which I guess is a little better? Still. Bad move, potentially.
Idk, ppl value things differently.