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So as long as I'm a good boy, I'm okay to be there?
I'm not going there on purpose, but I managed to stumble into bars a couple of times without noticing it at first. I finished my drink and went on as I didn't want to offend anyone as the foreign object invading.
This lesbian bar has no fire exits!
Pretty much like this, yeah, but it was all men.
This was me in a foreign city one time. Walked into a random bar by myself, had a few drinks. In retrospect i think it was a gay bar, but i had no idea.
Nobody cares.
When I was younger gay bars were always the pre-drink bars.
It's not like they're all you can eat buffets where everyone is down, it's just a place where gay people feel comfortable approaching people they're attracted to.
So by being there, the only thing you're agreeing to, is not to freak out if a guy hits on you. It's a very low bar to clear.