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Am I projecting? What do you think, fellow lemmings?

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[–] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

Yeah, there's a gas leak everywhere and where just realizing it.

[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 5 points 11 hours ago

People have been trying to ignore the world so they can get their high for the last several decades to the point where one the largest companies advertising on the internet is one where you pay people who label themselves as "councilors" with barely training to gaslight you hopefully to feel better and people know brand name drugs for helping them feel better and suggest them to others if you are wealthy enough. And been struggling to hold onto that sense of normalcy at all costs of the world.

And all of that avoidance meant jack-shit when the real world changed anyways and it didn't just stay the same.

People likely feel lied to and that miserableness spreads like a virus of selfish people doing anything to prove themselves better than others at the cost of others.

[–] GnuLinuxDude@lemmy.ml 0 points 7 hours ago

liberal hegemony of the last several decades fraying. but the line must go up, of course.

[–] Zementid@feddit.nl 22 points 1 day ago

Well humanity is dying a little bit due to climate change.

[–] PresidentCamacho@lemm.ee 26 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Over 20 years ago I started to see the many problems with the world. Over the course of those ~20 years I saw more and more problems begin, none of them are ever resolved. There was a point where I believed I wouldn't live long enough to see the full ramifications, but now it seems like those problems are compounding faster and faster.

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[–] wreckingball4good@lemm.ee 26 points 1 day ago

I dunno man, genocides and overtly fascist takeovers just have a shitty affect on the vibe.

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 40 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Climate change is getting worse and the world in general is sliding into fascism. The odds of things getting better in our lifetimes is very low. I'm only happy when I'm focusing on what's around me and not the big picture, because the big picture is bleak.

I agree that things are bleak. I also try to focus on practical, local things on which I can have a positive impact.

I'd like to think that some things will get better, and others will be less bleak.

Climate change is occurring quicker than we had hoped, but we are making progress towards mitigating the worst effects, even of that progress is slower than we had hoped.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The whole world is indeed in a bad mood and the reason is we’re all addicted to social media, which makes people miserable.

It’s impossible to fully patrol one’s territory in cyberspace. That means our hippocampus never sends the “all clear” signal which would allow us to relax from fight or flight mode.

As a result, the entire population of humanity is in an unprecedented state of hypervigilance.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Buddy, I don't have territory to patrol IRL. That's why I pay to exist (rent) everywhere I go. Everything is temporary.

Meet the neighbors? Who cares! I'm moving at the end of my lease because rent is going up.

Sense of community? The one that refuses to solve the housing crisis with council housing?

Be patriotic for our shared nation state? You mean the country that spies on me legally and illegally? The country that relentlessly attacks me and my people via the war on drugs? It hungers for what few civil liberties we have left.

Escaping into the net, substance abuse and enjoying art is the only thing that gives me relief from existing in the shitter multiverse. The only thing that stops me from counting the moments I have left until I am abused by my shitty jobs.

Go outside to touch grass? Sorry, I don't own the grass and it has a "keep off the grass" sign. Trespassers will be shot on sight.

[–] drq@mastodon.ml 4 points 1 day ago

@UltraGiGaGigantic
"Everywhere I travel, tiny life. Single-serving sugar, single-serving cream, single pat of butter. The microwave Cordon Bleu hobby kit. Shampoo-conditioner combos, sample-packaged mouthwash, tiny bars of soap. The people I meet on each flight? They're single-serving friends."

@intensely_human

[–] Allonzee@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Chinese people seem pretty happy on Rednote.

They mostly empathize with us Americans for our life of economic struggle for our wealth class in exchange for nothing but Subsistence.

They're confused as to how it's allowed to happen. They thought a lot of true horror stories about our health insurance murder industry and living paycheck go paycheck statistically unlikely to be able to cover a 400 expense was their government's propaganda, and are horrified it's not.

It's amazing how many protections non-wealthy people have there.

I now completely understand why our government doesn't want us having casual conversations with actual societies of people, as opposed to capitalist slaughterhouses like we are here in the US. Mooooo....

Also their cars are so high tech ours are in the stone age by comparison. No wonder they can't sell them here, they'd eat our lunch. App controlled call the car to pull up to you, captains chairs that power rotate into new configurations, on and on.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There was a soviet joke:

A refugee from the sovjet union was not surprised to learn that most of what his government had told him about his country way lies - it wasn't that great.

However, he was shocked to learn that they were telling the truth about other countries.

[–] Jentu@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

The weird incongruous part is that the people on Rednote (up until recently) thought the average American has over a million dollars (due to a weird mistranslation of something our embassy said about the average income from all Americans being over a million dollars), have a house (due to television shows), have free healthcare, and generally live a carefree life. Many people are questioning why there's been such a push to work over here by their friends and family who visit.

Not trying to be an ass but American cars havent been great since forever.

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 18 points 1 day ago (3 children)

All honesty, I tend to be optimistic to a fault and try really hard to be cheerful.

Everything starts to crack once socioeconomics comes up. The news lately is all about how everything is about to get worse. "This is collapsing, that's more expensive, getting a slice of diminishing wages is going to be even harder now! They're cracking down here and forcing ads there." Etc etc.

When I'm knee-deep in fixing up my servers or making art or being with my people, everything is just peachy!

But yeah, "How next money tho?" Usually starts the mental downward spiral.

I love living, can do a ton of things, love learning, but I don't get along with churning out a repetitive task for increasingly worthless currency.

The world outside of what I'm choosing to do feels entirely impossibly out of our control. So I try to balance being informed with staying sane.

Like damn I don't need much, can't folk just be left alone? Lol

Wonder if a lot of people feel like I do?

oh yeah I certainly do. I mean even the churning would not be so bad if there was any indication it would end.

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[–] surph_ninja@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Covid causes brain damage and increased aggression.

[–] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 hours ago

So does aging and we're getting old as fuck!

[–] Aria@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 1 day ago

There's an ongoing genocide and nobody is fighting it or even condemning it, bar a few weak powers like Yemen, DPRK, South Africa.

[–] yogthos@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Seems like mostly just people in the west because western world order is now visibly collapsing.

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[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 74 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (6 children)

Our wealth is taken, no one does anything.

Our health is taken, no one does anything.

Our privacy is taken, no one does anything.

Our voices are taken, no one does anything.

Our citizenships are taken, no one does anything.

The reason is apathy, which feeds inability, which feeds apathy, which feeds inability to do anything.

When our lives are taken, most people will be both ultimately unable and unwilling to do anything.

Even if people don't know it outright, they feel it.

More than this, we feel a disappointment and a shame in our bones that can't be shaken off because it is that outrageous and primal fear of losing anything more that drives our inaction, and so we feel ourselves to be cowards at our very core.

This is what grinds away at our souls daily.

When you eventually decide to do something, you will see you are no longer apathetic or unable. Your fears will begin to heal, and in this way it will save your soul. This is the power of courage. It is something you have to make for yourself, but hope is what drives it and hope is given.

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[–] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (12 children)

I'm just waiting to die at this point. Fuck this life. Fuck this world. I'd kill myself if I wasn't such a pussy. I keep living with the vague hope that things might get better, but deep down I already know it won't.

[–] fatur0000new@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

I’d kill myself if I wasn’t such a pussy

If you kill yourself, the number of socialists will decrease. Don't you want capitalism fall?

[–] zdhzm2pgp@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

🙏Please don't say that.

[–] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Thank you for giving a shit about me. ❤️

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[–] Allonzee@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Same page club, except the vague hope.

Honestly the vague hope was keeping me at my lowest until I learned to understand and completely accept that our world is ending by our own hands, detach from being on the human team, and just gawk at the freak show of the exploitative macro-cancer monkeys that we are with gallows fascination.

This is the same thing comedian George Carlin bragged about doing to find peace in his later years, BTW.

When you remove trying to root for us to be not horrible, we are a spectacular and peculiar thing to behold, a remarkable evolutionary oddity, like Pandas. Like how are we the apex predator?! It's nuts and hilarious.

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[–] zdhzm2pgp@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I see that you've posted a few new things in the last hour or so; hope this means you're feeling a little better about things.

[–] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm fine, just needed to vent my deep down feelings. Thank you.

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[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 42 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I mean, our new Dear Leader’s best oligarch buddy threw two very unambiguous Nazi salutes inside of five seconds during a nationally televised speech, and the vast majority of our media establishment is simply bending over backwards to give him the benefit of the doubt over his “awkward hand motion”. So yeah I’m in a bad fucking mood, because this shit is going to become de rigueur.

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[–] nifty@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago

Idk, some leftist people (including minorities) are energized and motivated, so it’s important not to get stuck in some weird self-defeating trap. Political up and downs happen every generation. Don’t fall for the doomer BS, it’s important to keep following through with your personal goals and persevere. Find a community and volunteer, take care of each other.

Ultimately people should seek to close gaps with others, and try to find common ground, while acknowledging that there are some values which cannot be compromised, like sacrificing someone’s humanity and (personal/psychological) safety.

[–] coolusername@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

covid causes vascular damage

[–] TacoButtPlug@sh.itjust.works 56 points 2 days ago (10 children)

My coworker said to me today that all the news outside of the US is calling us Nazi America and this goes hand in hand with my own international news reading experience in the last day. I think everyone is acknowledging how dumb we look and how it affects them?

[–] menemen@lemmy.ml 24 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

As someone from "outside the US": It isn't much better elsewhere. Italy has a fascist government, France is fucking up everything, Sweden has a governemnt depending on a borderline fascist party, the Netherlands has borderline fascists as part of the government, in Germany open fascists poll at 20% as the 2nd most popular party (elections are next month), Georgia is on the brink of civil war, Korea is in a utterly weird crisis/coup mode, in the middle east we are having a genocide happening, Sudan is in chaos, and so on and on.

On the bright side: Things appear to be somewhat okay in Spain and Belgium seems to have a somewhat half-working government.

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[–] misty_sea610@lemmy.ml 84 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (10 children)

Certainly, there is a grim atmosphere across many social platforms. Mainly, the last few days from my anecdotal experience.

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[–] index@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago

It is and if you can't see it it's because you are being dragged down too.

I'm going to remark something nobody seem to be focusing on. Humans didn't evolve 1 million years to eat processed food and be around artificial everything.

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 71 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I keep having this and similar conversations with my wife and my friends and family .....

The majority of the world has always been in a bad mood because 90% of planet has always been poor, struggling, doesn't have enough, live in poverty, are hungry and are generally not happy.

The only difference is that us in the rich west have been recently affected and are facing a near future where our comfort and freedoms are going to be affected. We are starting to feel what the rest of the world has been feeling for a long, long time.

I say all this from the perspective of an Indigenous Canadian because I grew up poor and in a circumstance where me and my family were always made to feel less than the rest of the Canada.

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[–] UniversalMonk@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago (4 children)
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[–] Bieren@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

Been outside or watched the news lately. What’s there to be in a good mood about?

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.world 43 points 2 days ago (10 children)

It's the looming boiling point. More and more people understand things are going to come to a head Sooner Than Predicted™.

What we're seeing is grief, but multiplied by billions

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