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[–] Lennnny@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Lemmy users project their toxicity towards Reddit. This place can be quite hostile if you don't echo the 'correct' ideals.

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[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 days ago

I'm frustrated more people are complacent with the state of the world, including myself.

[–] LuckyPierre@lemm.ee 26 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I prefer rap music by white artists because it's less likely to feature the N word.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 2 points 2 days ago

That isn't just an unpopular opinion, but a very interesting one. Bravo.

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[–] DonaldJMusk@lemmy.today 35 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Desktop computers are way better and more fun than using phone for browsing, wikipedia, news, and Lemmy

I rarely use my phone for anything other than texting. I like using my desktop computer to browse and post.

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[–] 18107@aussie.zone 20 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Abortion should be mandatory.

People keep arguing over whether abortion should be legal or not, but my opinion is that it should be forced on everyone whether they want it or not. Late term abortions up to 100 years after birth should also be considered for inclusion in this rule.

One of my favourite activities is finding controversial opinions, then taking an opinion so extreme that it makes everyone else look like a centrist.

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[–] iowagneiss@midwest.social 77 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (5 children)

Graveyards are a disgusting waste of space. Their existence communicates to society that many dead people are more entitled to space on this Earth than some living people will ever have.

[–] sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 3 days ago (4 children)

From everything I read in this thread… you won.

Graveyards don’t exist for the dead, they are a place where living people can mourn the loss of the dead person and remember older days.

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[–] LuckyPierre@lemm.ee 13 points 3 days ago

Graveyards don't exist for the dead.

They exist for both relatives to mourn, and the wider populace who value the perspective on their own problems that graveyards provide. They're also normally a peaceful place in an often unpeaceful world, much as urban green spaces.

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[–] thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Black liquorice tastes good

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[–] lowered_lifted@sh.itjust.works 20 points 3 days ago

too many dudes in this thread thinking eugenics and pedophilia are unpopular. They're very popular and that's a very bad thing

[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Jack black isn't funny at all. He's worse, incredibly fucking irritating and annoying and a try hard. He epitomizes mainstream US "comedy"; obvious, loud, overstating the delivery of jokes with overwrought physical humor. He and Horatio Sanz must have studied under the same Sithlord. Can't stand him.

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[–] MuskyMelon@lemmy.world 92 points 3 days ago (5 children)

The purpose of government is to take care of the people. I'd rather pay more taxes to make sure my fellow men are fed, clothed, sheltered, educated and cared for because it improves security for my loved ones.

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[–] BellaDonna@mujico.org 22 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Suicide is perfectly acceptable and should be a right, we should all have the choice of when we want to go. Some pain, physical or emotional is too much, or loss can be too great.

I don't care if I could or can get better, I should be able to down some hemlock and leave.

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[–] GnuLinuxDude@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago

I think 10 years ago this would've been unpopular, but today maybe not so much:

systemd is great software. I don't use distros that refuse to ship it. Especially the init system. Thanks, Lennart!

[–] FarraigePlaisteach@lemmy.world 55 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (6 children)

I find it difficult to respect the way we exist in society. Most of us in the west enjoy what we have because someone elsewhere is being exploited. The general pride and vanity we have is unjustified and we should be using that power for good instead. We are focused on the ~~right~~ wrong things.

You could say that this opinion isn’t unpopular, but just try bringing it up in conversation. Many don’t want to know.

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[–] DonaldJMusk@lemmy.today 18 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Most people on Lemmy aren’t as kind or open-minded as they like to appear. There’s plenty of hate here on this side of the aisle, but it gets excused because they believe they’re “on the correct side.”

tl;dr: You’re just as hateful and close-minded as the people you claim to be fighting. Same behavior, different colored hat.

[–] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Ah, the ol' "I have shit opinions and people told me so"

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[–] MdPhoenix@lemm.ee 16 points 3 days ago (3 children)

The Beatles suck.
The Eagles are not as amazing as everyone thinks.

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[–] MTK@lemmy.world 35 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (10 children)

Jeez, this thread is scary, I forget how many crazy opinions people can have.

Mine is probably that non-human animal lives matter, maybe not exactly in the same way that human lives do, but in a comparable and important way. I believe that murder is murder no matter the animal killed.

And also a maybe close second (not really an opinion but you could argue that I'm too dark about it) is that climate change is far past the point of no return and that in 50 years we are all going to live extremely hard lives (if we even survive) that right now would seem like an apocalypse type fantasy movie.

[–] ChilledPeppers@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Climate change is not a lost cause. We are beating any estimates on wind and solar deployment, solar is cheap as fuck, and overall, were just no that bad off.

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[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 125 points 4 days ago (9 children)

Everyone should have to retake the driving test (both written and practical) every five years. And if you don't pass on the first try or are in a crash where you are found at fault, it should be bumped up to every year for the following five years.

People drive dangerously because they've forgotten rules, or rules have changed, or they've had a physical or cognitive decline. And yet we're like "yep, you took a test once decades ago, good to go."

Dangerous driving kills so many people.

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[–] Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml 66 points 4 days ago (30 children)

If you eat factory meat, you're doing something morally wrong that can't be justified.

And the vast majority of people who get defensive about that, deep down know what they are doing is morally dubious at best, but they can't/won't admit it, so they lash out at vegans/vegetarians instead.

[–] Jentu@lemmy.ml 17 points 3 days ago (2 children)

There's something to be said about the ease of access and personal energy needed to deal with changing a diet that has been inherited by birth where the alternative is possibly much more expensive. I don't blame individuals who eat cheap meat out of necessity just as I don't blame people for not recycling since the responsibility of the exploitation and destruction of our planet lies entirely with the people who run the machine, not those who are forced under threat of violence to exist inside it.

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[–] ReverendIrreverence@lemmy.ml 29 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (23 children)

Becoming a parent is not a right, it is a privilege (I guess). You need a license to get married, drive, hunt or fish, your dog needs one. There should be some sort of class and background check you must pass before being allowed to procreate. Just the basics like: this is the level of care and support this small helpless mammal needs to be healthy and grow to maturity. This is how much, minimum, that quality upbringing will cost and do you meet that bare minimum level of competence and income to raise a healthy baby.

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 3 days ago (2 children)

This is an extremely popular opinion among those who've not unpacked that what you're describing is eugenics

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[–] _Vedr@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 days ago (10 children)

Who decides who can pro-create? What is the criteria?

I don't see a scenario where this works out well.

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[–] zippythezigzag@lemm.ee 12 points 3 days ago (4 children)

COD sucks. The only good ones were world at war and the original modern warfare series. That's it. All others aren't worth a shit.

Now before you respond, yes I know there are many people that agree with this, but with people I know in real life this is unpopular.

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[–] MummifiedClient5000@feddit.dk 36 points 4 days ago (8 children)

Regular expressions are not that difficult and coders that refuse to learn them because they "look like line noise" are terrible at their jobs.

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[–] Contemporarium@lemm.ee 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

OMG IM SO SHOCKED A BUNCH OF SUPER POPULAR OPINIONS ON LEMMY!!

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[–] Mugmoor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 53 points 4 days ago (2 children)

The Beatles are highly overrated. I respect the impact they had, and I acknowledge that the music I like (metal) would not exist without them, but I'll go out of my way to avoid listening to them.

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[–] Aitherios@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago (5 children)

It's insane how many removed call lots of the ideas here "Eugenics". Eugenics is about producing the best GENES possible, while a lot of the replies here say that bad parents should not be allowed to make kids. Nobody talked about stopping people who aren't so "perfect" (biologically-wise) to make kids. Just not have more kids suffering by growing in abusive and broken households or been poor and have it very hard in life.

People are Lemmy are not much smarter that those on Reddit, it seems...

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 3 points 2 days ago

Eugenics is a system of controlling reproduction. Many eugenesists may have believed that being a member of a certain race or having certain congenital diseases made one inferior (and thus unworthy of the right to reproduce), but the basic principle some people should reproduce and some people shouldn't.

Like why do you think people are against eugenics? Because they're afraid we might accidentally bring an end to genetic diseases? That there might be too many blonde people? That they care deeply about people who don't exist yet's rights to be some particular way?

So yeah, when you propose a rule controlling reproduction...

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago

your semantic understanding of eugenics doors not seem to understand why people opposed eugenics and eugenics policies.

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[–] JuxtaposedJaguar@lemmy.ml 20 points 3 days ago

Disabled people should have to ask for a seat on public transit if one isn't available; other people shouldn't immediately get up when a clearly disabled person boards, nor should anyone expect them to without being asked. Similarly, you have no right to criticize someone (who doesn't appear to be disabled) if they're sitting in a seat designated for disabled people and they don't get up when a visibly disabled person gets on.

First of all, the disabled person might not even want the seat. If they do, it's reasonable to expect them (as an adult) to advocate for their own needs (i.e. ask). It's actually more offensive to assume that every elderly or otherwise visibly-disabled person is incapable of that.

Second of all, not all disabilities are easily visible. I'm a mid-twenties guy and I was born with an auto-immune disorder that sometimes makes it very difficult or painful to stand/walk. It's happened multiple times that strangers on the bus have chewed me out for not giving up my seat, even though (statistically) there were probably other people sitting in disability-designated seats that needed that seat less than me and the visibly disable person who just boarded. I can't fucking believe I have arthritis in my twenties, either. I'm just trying to cope with the shitty circumstances I was given and the last thing I need is to constantly have to justify myself to ignorantly self-righteous strangers.

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