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If you're about to complain about the censor, I'll let you do something about it. If you edit the censor out I'll replace the image in the post.

I take memes from discord, reddit, or instagram which sometimes censor stuff over the cycle of 20+ reposts. I mainly post on my phone and for me and I have no way to edit it out. Its either this, or nothing. If you can suggest a solution I'll give it a try, there's hardly any good Photoshop type programs that work on a tiny phone screen and aren't subscription based.

I heard Krita is planning on making an updated UI for mobile, but I don't think it's out yet :/

edit: sorry if I sound a bit upset, I've just tried so many different apps and none of them work and it's so infuriating 😭


also OH MY GOD the 'walking on eggshells' stage after the psych ward was SO ANNOYING.

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[–] katja@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 hours ago

It's childish, but I totally get the need to claw some feeling of control back even if it makes people a little uncomfortable. There's been a super focus on you and your feelings lately and you need to get some normality back but almost noone will provide or even get that. It's also funny as hell and you need funny in that situation.

[–] Macaroni_ninja@lemmy.world 15 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Sure when talking to a suicidal person my first thought would be to laugh at their appearance. Or any person in general.

Maybe she feels better to make fun of the situation but most people are not trained psychiatrist to decide "sure she looks okay to me, its time to laugh at her hair"

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

You can skip that awkward egg shells phase by being evicted while in the psych ward. Nobody cares about the unhoused!

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 94 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (2 children)

Some of the funniest people have had severe struggles with depression and other mental health issues.


I'll do you one better than an edit, I'll give you a brand new screenshot at higher quality with bonus dark mode:

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 15 hours ago

It’s practically a one to one ratio with great comedians.

[–] FQQD@lemmy.ohaa.xyz 15 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

god damn it. beat me to it.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Well now there's a dark mode and a light mode version so everyone can choose what works best for them. I'd say that's a win.

[–] Sidhean@lemmy.world 12 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

A win?? No, it's something to fight over! Delete the light mode image or else! /s

[–] Zwiebel@feddit.org 12 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

My phone auto switches back to light mode when the sun goes up, so you better put it back tomorrow morning my timezone

[–] JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 16 hours ago

Dark mode is perfectly legible while read from light mode. Light mode is someone turning on the light when you get up to pee in the middle of the night when you're a darkmoder

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 18 hours ago

Fuck yo phone, use the brightness slider /s

[–] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

That story was a bit confusing for me 🥴

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 9 points 11 hours ago

Alex turntine faked a terrible haircut. People who loved Alex bullshitted that it looked great because they were worried about causing upset to someone who had recently attempted suicide (an understandable anxiety, but also in my experience, having people walk on eggshells around you can make things worse). This prank may have been done to try to break the tension a little, or perhaps Alex was just enjoying the absurdist humour.

[–] riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 18 hours ago

ngl idk if i could shit on anyones appearance to their face, without them first explicitely soliciting it. i dont wanna hurt people or make them uncomfybin their body :<

[–] FQQD@lemmy.ohaa.xyz 21 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 14 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

thanks queen 🩷.. or king, or monarchist if you're enby (I cannot see bios on Voyager)

[–] riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 hours ago

stupid monarchies, stupid monarchs >:c