Asklemmy

Many of the things you mentioned are not "loosing". They are chugging along. Slow and steady.

I want to live in a better world. You can't change the world (win) by giving up. You can't change the status quo easily and I can't live with myself if I do nothing.

I don't think of them as "losing causes". While it's important to be realistic about the current state of your cause, framing it this way assumes they have already and permanently lost, so nothing can ever change. Assuming a mindset of defeatism is demoralizing even if it is only in the language you use.

1: Because it's historically been the nature of these causes that they're losing right up until the moment they win. Seems impossible till it's done, journey of a thousand miles, single step and all that.

2: pure spite towards the smug, arrogant and cruel status quo supporters. I will.never give them the satisfaction of falling into despair, from hell's heart I stab at them

Morality and ethical behavior are not defined by popularity

I don't agree with causes to win. I agree with causes because they're correct. If everyone stopped believing in gravity I wouldn't follow suit.

There are no lost causes, just struggles you don't face.

I know you phrased it as "losing" here, but it still made me think of that moment in Firefly when somebody refers to Mal having fought on the wrong side in a battle, and he says "May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one."

When a person has convictions and is put at a certain sort of fork in the road, they would rather do anything else before ever seeing themselves transform into the sort of person who would take one of those paths. Some would sell their souls to survive, and some know that their cause is worth several times more than their souls are worth, and the bill comes due at some point.

A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in.

I don’t really understand why you think a lot of these things are losing causes. FOSS is the backbone of IT. Anti-car urbanism is common in some areas of the world. Lemmy and the Fediverse have been doing great over the last 2 years. Socialism/leftist ideology is on the rise alongside the fascist takeover—it would have been unheard of to have “the squad” in the 90’s.

So where you see losing, I see slow and steady progress happening alongside capitalist fascism that is trying and failing to stop it completely.

because the alternatives are unconscionable. Consumerist capitalist mono-culture is going to eat its own tail and kill everyone in the process.

I do think theory is a very good way to recruit people. When the facts are presented fairly, rational people will not choose capitalism.

It's the right cause, and if enough people join it won't be losing anymore.

The saying is "if you build it, they will come," not "if a couple million people want an alternative enough, one will materialize out of thin air"

When debating the efficacy of my privacy measures, my friend asked,

You know, what if it just is compromised already? By the NSA, Facebook, Google, and so forth.

And I said, at least I am making it known that I hate them all, I'll stand up for what is right, and I'm not leaving without a fight.

I want to walk away from Omelas.

Because I was raised on media that glorified the plight of the underdog, beset against on all sides by powerful forces. And my grandpa told me "The hardest things in life are the things most worth doing."

I think you're treating all these mostly unrelated initiatives as an "ideology" in itself and not just things people are interested in.

On the flip side the capitalist consumerist alternatives to all of these benefit from there popularity and thus offer a better value to most people. The question is about what made you defer that better immediate material value in favor of something else.

What makes you think a given person prefers the capitalist options? There are plenty of reasons to like all of these things which is why some people do.

Socialism on a small scale cannot solve the inherent issues of a capitalism that surrounds it.

No, but socialist countries are routinely sheltered from the capitalist driven cataclysms due to their control of the economy. Look at how much China was affected by the 2008 crisis vs Western countries.

Also, socialism in places like Canada necessarily means decolonization of both the Indigenous peoples here and ending our corporate exploitation of both people abroad and Canadians. If that's not a reason to support it I don't know what is.

Veganism benefits from more people becoming vegan and restaurants and grocery stores providing vegan options.

The WHOLE DAMN POINT of veganism is to get rid of a luxury (animal products) because you think it's unethical. Vegans are not bothered by restaurants not catering to them because they simply won't go.

Also, grocery stores providing grocery options? Ah yes the flop of the vegan tomato left the vegan community reeling. What are you buying at the grocery store of all places that you don't think it's always been possible to be vegan? You know you can just buy plants and make your own food right?

FOSS, or more specifically desktop Linux, benefits from more people being on it and software developers designing for and maintaining applications for it.

Linux is measurably more efficient. Like seriously compare the background resource usage of Linux to Windows, Linux can be up to twice as light giving you more resources for your actual applications. Linux is also a lot more private which a lot of people care about over the convenience of a mainstream big tech OS.

Also, the simplicity and dare I say "non-technical user unfriendliness" of Linux is also a draw for technical users who don't want their computer coddling them. It's a niche for a reason.

the fediverse benefits from more people veing on it and more diverse communities so those with niche interests besides the above causes can find community here.

Can you elaborate on this one? I don't know what it means.

I follow my conscience, and I work hard to live up to my principles. If I didn't, I would have a hard time living with myself.

I learned about them, liked them, changed my views (if I had to) to reflect what I've learned.

Because I’m right.

Pay attention to an individual's definition of "win" condition.

I define a "win" for FOSS on a very small, individual scale. I do not define it as widescale adoption by others. If I successfully replace a proprietary service with a FOSS service for my personal usage, that's a win. The only "lost cause" re FOSS to me is a FOSS service shutting or being so complicated to implement and maintain that I have to revert to the google service or whatever.

Similar on veganism, a win is me personally making a step improvement on diet, not contingent on shuttering commercial meat production.

I sincerely believe that none of these are losing. In fact I suspect in the future the current "winning" sides will be viewed as inexplicable barbarism, the same way that making sacrifices for good harvests would be viewed today.

I think the interesting thing about the US is that its propaganda sews the seeds for eventual dissent. It runs on ideals about freedom, democracy, equality, individualism, progress, prosperity, etc. The national mythology isn’t “fuck all the poor people.” The trouble is, the US isn’t any of these things. It just makes it hard to recognize that or what the alternatives are. So I wouldn’t say I moved along the political spectrum as much as I slowly started to notice that I wasn’t where I thought I was. You grow up seeing Obama go from “Hope and Change” to continuing to do all the wars, torture, and spying… it makes you realize “hey I don’t think these people were being honest about sharing my values.” And it’s just a long, slow trip from there to figuring out what movements actually represent your politics.

lol FOSS is winning, if you're paying $20/month/seat for every calculator app that you might use once, you're probably the looser.

At this point, being on this planet is a losing cause.

I strongly disagree that unpopular things are automatically a losing cause though. I use and do some unpopular things because it's more ethical or more beneficial overall, but I'm not at all troubled with it. I just try to be a somewhat decent citizen where many others would just be like "lol I don't care about any consequences, just give me the cheapest or most convenient option". I'm not like that. And I think more people shouldn't be. But, again, at this point... it's definitely a losing battle. But I still do it because then I can tell myself that I at least tried to do the somewhat right thing. It's kind of just to have a clean conscience, whereas some others are completely fine burning the world for their own short-term gain. That's basically the difference.

Maybe I wouldn't consider them losing causes, since we have our small wins here and there. Every positive difference you make, is rewarding when it amounts even to the tiniest win. You posting this question and other Lemmings like me answering is itself a little Lemmy W.

But yeah, things for me don't have value only because they are popular. Yes, popularity can affect that I get recommended stuff that I end up liking, but I consciously reject being told to like something without being aware of the full details.

Here's some contrasting examples: PEAK is a game I got on the bandwagon for, after seeing it posted on GamingOnLinux via !pcgaming@lemmy.ca . Seeing the gameplay, it looked like fun, and I had friends to play it with so it was worthwhile. On the other hand, trends like Stanley Cup, blindbox toys like Labubu, "Dubai Chocolate", I'm not going to get any of those, despite their explosive popularity, unless I see a legitimate use for my own needs.

Also, my values are set towards lasting ownership of stuff then renting/BNPL schemes.

It's not a losing cause if it's growing

I'm adopting FOSS because commercial products are inevitably enshitified for profit. Fuck the billionaires, I like my money and my personal data and I am not ok with them putting their grubby, sticky little fingers in my personal shit. I was raised a private person and I like my privacy.

I'm not vegan but I reduced my red and pork to 0 because it's unhealthy and I don't really like eating things for breakfast that are as smart as small children. Ew.

I fucking hate cars and always have. They smell bad, they're expensive, they take up huge amounts of time, and idiots on a power trip are always being assholes in them. Coal rolling trucks make me want to puke in disgust. It's always a guy and he's always a dropout moron on a power trip who's gonna die of lung cancer at 56 while complaining about chemtrails.

Socialism is necessary because capitalism promotes the tragedy of the commons and I like my clean air and drinkable water. I grew up on stories about the wilderness, I lived running around in the woods, I value a healthy ecosystem rich in genetic diversity. I am also an absolutely enormous asshole at heart who is cheap as fuck and who hates litter, and homeless people are untidy, expensive, and dangerous. Sticking them in apartments to keep their shitty decisions out of my view is cheaper than cleaning up their feces all the time and dealing with begging and grabbing and crime, and it makes me able to ignore them more easily. Out of sight, out of mind, I get to live my life in peace knowing they're not homeless anymore. Also their kids don't deserve that shit even if their parents are depressed abusive junkie trash who couldn't keep a job if it was "lay here all day long".

somebody gotta do it

Most of the causes you list are not defined by losing so idek what this is asking

Well, I was born here and it seemed like the thing to do.

Knowing something's right - yet dying/loosing - doesn't make it not worth it. You might just end up without the thing. But at least you weren't part of its downfall nor responsible. Quite the contrary.

I guess it's that simple. If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem.

better to be ~~feared~~ right than ~~loved~~ popular

or something like that

Education. Good luck

I think I was broke at a young age to stand by things I think are true even if I'm liked less. There's definitely something to be said for social cohesion but I already have a lot of issues with hating myself and a lot of things that American society demands of me for social cohesion involve hating myself for more things that are less and less problematic.

So eventually it's just easier to identify with being a "principled" pariah. And then all the pro-social concessions I actually do make are things I can keep to myself to preserve that identity.

• FOSS - Because I have been in it since almost the beginning of my tech career (first Linux was Red Hat Halloween) and in a tangential manner have helped it along in many ways. It's my default.
• Veganism - Technically I am an inveg (involuntary vegan). I was pushed into a whole food plant based diet because it turns out I am genetically predisposed to coronary disease and absurdly high levels of cholesterol, arterial plaque, and inflammation. Built to run hard and die young, and I'm all out of young.
• Fediverse - I am old enough to remember the old Internet and the Fediverse has a bit of that vibe. This is probably Lemmy leans more Gen-X/Xennial than other platforms.
• UBI and other Socialist safeguards - I am a capitalist but I am more so a pragmatist. If we do not ensure the survival, viability of the population and access to the means of success to majority, then the system will collapse and we will all be fucked. Rich, poor and everyone in between. It's just common sense. Rich fucks and politicians are always focused on fast, short term gains and never in longevity and sustained success.
• Netrunner CCG - Because it's just the best card game ever made (sorry MtG, but it's true). I buy every new set, even if I don't have anyone to play with anymore.

I have no doubt there are many other lost causes I support or follow that I am blissfully ignorant of their niche status.

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• Final Space - I pre-ordered the book so I can find out how it ends.