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You put them all in because you think it will be fine, I put them all in because I don't care. We are not the same.
Said like a man who didn't have to go to high school gym class with pink Fruit Of The Loom tighty-whities.
user error. why would you have white underwear in the first place? terrible colour for hiding my skid stains when working under the neighbour's sink
Well I guess you're right, I don't have any white underwear.
I thought this was too, until I washed my white work clothes with a bright yellow shirt. Suddenly my white shirts look permanently dirty.
Going to sound dumb but get some Bluing Dye. The name is a bit of a misnomer. It'll brighten them back up
This is the first I've ever heard of this substance. Thank you kind stranger!
one time my red pullover converted one of my white sjirts into a pink one, but otherwise ive got a clean slate in the last 10 years
Real rule:
You can drop them all together, coz all clothes are so low quality, those won't last long enough to lost colors during mixed washings.
Me who wears clothes that are 12+ years old:
also don't use a clothes dryer and your stuff will last way longer
I just use a clothes dryer on low or, sometimes, even extra low. There’s an even an air-dry option that works better than just leaving things to hang.
This goes especially for humid climates. My stuff would never in the summer and even in the winter it would take a long time. The button-ups and pants that I do hang to dry take forever to be ready.
Some additions.
You can mix colors, just don't add white clothes, especially when the color clothes are new.
I've still heard that you should wash new clothes on their own as they might have residual colour pigment in them which could affect your other clothes. But yeah, things have changed, and for the most part I don't care about that stuff anymore.
Maybe it's because we wash our clothes mostly around 40°C now and with enzymes as opposed to whatever the F they used to do.
I always wash new things separately now, after a I bought my son a Sonic blanket. That thing covered everything in the washer and dryer with blue fuzz.
Mmmm... microplastics 🤤
did dyes/laundry detergent change/get better?
because I swear it was an issue when growing up.
Same with ironing clothes.
Yes, actually
A combination of better dyes that don't bleed as much, and detergent that works better in colder water (which bleeds less dyes).
Yeah someone on tumblr (? Ok i forget where) had a great explanation about the improvements in “clothes-cleaning juice” over the years.
Tl;dr it’s not a problem anymore, usually, but it used to be.
Depends on the items and their age, but yes, you should generally be fine.
The last time I had an issue was some coloured pillow cases that bled all over my white bedsheets.
It must be detergent or washers are easier on clothes. Growing up, all my clothes eventually became the same dirty pink color when I’d wash colors together. These days I just dump everything in and toss in some laundry soap, maybe some softener if we have it around, and I still have clothes that are 20 years old and in regular rotation. Colorful as always.
Do you wash in hot or cold water?
This is the right question. I always use cold water unless something is soiled. Or maybe towels if there's nothing else in there.
I think detergents have gotten good enough to work just as well in cold water, and that's mostly why it's better.
Yeah, cold for everything except whites (they get warm plus bleach). Else these days I do still try to separate them into dark and light colors. Jeans do still fade but it doesn’t transfer to the rest.
It never happens. Untill it does. Ask me how I know.
Enjoy your new pink shirts though!
Solution: don't own white shirts
Or yellow, or tan, or light grey, or baby blue, or anything striped with white/any of those colors…
I've never had issues mixing unlike colors, I think the key is to set the water temp to cold.
Yeah as long as you don't fucking boil the mixed colours you'll be fine.
Generally, the problem is if you wash brand new synthetic clothing, the dyes will be fresh and leak onto other clothes, this isnt really a problem if you have the same shirt for a long time or buy thriftee clothes
go back few decades and it was a given, dye chemistry has changed since then, so it doesn't happen unless you buy a piece made by someone trying to save a penny on dye
Put in a freshly bought red item and something white. Works every time if you want your stuff to be pink.
White clothes and heavily colored stuff with a "wash separately first time" label goes separately. And thats about it 🤷
Cold water, separate white items. It really only takes a couple minutes. Eventually even if there isnt an immediate stark change in tint on the item, over time it'll steadily become more and more off-white. It looks noticeably worse imo.
Is that a washing machine with a vertical drum?
They’re called top-loaders and they’re so much less efficient that the Energy Star requirements straight up allow them to use more water than a front loader while still being called “high efficiency”.
Better for slam-dunking your clothes, as you can see.