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The threadiverse is small (compared to other major platforms) and I often see usernames that I recognize. How well do we notice each other around here?

I'll start... my name's "MrShankles" and I do be commenting/posting from time to time

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[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 54 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

I feel like I recognise maybe 80% of the posters I see...

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 3 weeks ago

I always recognize my admin. *waves

[–] zikzak025@lemmy.world 19 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

There's a 4/5 chance that Ada notices me?? 😯

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 weeks ago

I tend to recognize usernames I see at least once a day, if they're phrases or words. Not if they're like strings of random characters...

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[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 49 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

I generally don't recognize usernames and don't look at them too much

There's the guy who uses thorns (who I have tagged as Nigel þornberry)

There's maybe a half-dozen frequent posters who I'm genuinely not sure if they're masterful trolls, some kind of AI training bots, or just really need to go touch grass (preferably on their way to a therapist's office.)

There's one dude whose username just happened to stick out to me after having a random conversation or two with him and seeing him being a generally pretty decent dude around Lemmy, I tagged him "this guy seems cool" at some point, and at some point it occurred to me that he might appreciate knowing that, so I shot him a message, and sure enough he did. I now consider him to be a pretty good friend, which is a new experience for me, I've never really been one to have online friends, I (somehow) do pretty well at making friends in meatspace and have never really felt a need to seek out an online friendship.

There's a handful of people who have said some incredibly dumb shit that I've tagged (for example one dude who I tagged "Tankie, down vote and ignore" although the last few times I've seen him pop up it seems like he may have mellowed out a bit, so good for him)

[–] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 25 points 3 weeks ago

Nigel þornberry

Made me laugh :D

[–] tal@lemmy.today 15 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Fully-qualified usernames:

There’s the guy who uses thorns (who I have tagged as Nigel þornberry)

That'd be @Sxan@piefed.zip.

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

þat is indeed þe guy

I also love how bent-out-of-shape people get over the thorns.

I haven't stalked his profile, but I feel like every time I've seen him come up he's also seemed like a pretty cool and reasonable dude (I suppose it's possible he's off being a dick in the parts of Lemmy I don't frequent, but I'll give him the benefit of the doubt)

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 22 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I have snarked him about it, myself. I have no objection to overtly affected personal expression (no hypocrite I). It's just that reading a thorn unexpectedly feels like stubbing my toe, but in my brain.

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[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 34 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I recognize kolanki (I doubt I'm spelling it correctly, but the person with the large blue name), pugjesus, the picard maneuver, violet08, that fucking cm0002 with the 5,000 alt accounts, and that's about it.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 18 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Fully-qualified usernames:

EDIT:

kolanki (I doubt I’m spelling it correctly, but the person with the large blue name)

Also, I can't resist: Every dog has his day.

(Kolanaki has a canine fursona.)

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

(Kolanaki has a canine fursona.)

I changed it recently. Still kind of a canine, but it is technically a Poon from Atlyss, though the race customizations have dog-like parts I used.

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[–] Today@lemmy.world 32 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

What happened to flying squid? They had some health problems and then talked about moving and then disappeared.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 44 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I think this place wasn't too healthy for them mentally, and I'm fairly certain after moving they just bowed out of coming back and focused on rebuilding their life in a new country, or at least I hope they did. Lemmy also skews heavily US American (less so than reddit but still largely) and so maybe they just wanted to disconnect from things here in the USA. If I was in a new place I think I'd spend more time trying to get my bearings locally than reading endless news about the place I just left.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 32 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

If you check in lemvotes you can see some activity from time to time, so I don't think they are dead. It could be a federation issue but they at least appear to have logged in and had some vote activities in December.

Regardless they did not have a healthy relationship with Lemmy. They were averaging something on the order of 15 comments, per hour, per day. That's a comment every 4 minutes, all day, every day, for years.

Idk. We should still probably build something to remember them by. Or to piss on, depending on how you viewed them. They were very political and were doing a lot of "pre blaming" for the, at the time, election which hadn't happened yet. I think it may have broken them.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 21 points 3 weeks ago

I think it may have broken them.

sure as fuck broke me.

whatever hope I had left in humanity putrefied.

[–] Today@lemmy.world 17 points 3 weeks ago

They spent a lot of time traveling and waiting for medical tests and results with their mom. I attributed the activity to the stress and excess time on their hands.

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Flying Squid was an auto-block for me, as soon as I made my account. He always used to ban me because he couldn't win arguments with me in the comments.

Edit to spill the tea:

Hello Lemmy.world admin team, I am writing to complain about the conduct of the moderator FlyingSquid.

On two occasions I have had negative interactions with FlyingSquid on the /world community, both times he has used, or threatened to use, his moderator powers against me, because of his personal disagreements with me.

I am happy to refer you to both conversations:

link 1

In this conversation, we had a long conversation about laws and politics. Personally, I feel he acted in bad faith on several occasions throughout our conversation, in my opinion, he was trying to bait me into getting upset so he could righteously ban me.

And your silly prediction is wrong. I am not going to ban you for this despite the incivility rule violation. I am just going to stop talking to you.

But you have just earned yourself the eye of a moderator who will not tolerate your rule-breaking with anyone else. Including if I see any in your recent history.

More recently, we had a conversation today:

link 2

Again, in this conversation, he was, in my opinion, highly rude, dismissive and arguing in bad faith. He even admitted as much. I said I wasn’t interested in talking with him, he continued to push me for an answer, and then said:

You didn’t let me down, because I knew you didn’t actually have an answer

I completely understand that sometimes people get heated or struggle to deal with arguments where they care about the topic, so I am totally willing to look past that. However, I am not willing to look past his abuse of power.

What a bullshit cop-out. I have asked you multiple times what the next step is and you're now claiming I'm not interested?

That's two lies you've told about me now. That is coming close to trolling. This is seemingly a pattern for FlyingSquid - goading people he disagrees with into becoming frustrated with his bad-faith arguments, then accusing them of “trolling” when the people he experiences push-back, and using that as an excuse to ban someone he disagrees with.

I was writing a response to his post pointing out that he was arguing in bad faith when I accidentally submitted it half-way through, when he suspended me for “trolling”.

I do not believe that he has the disposition to be a moderator if he gets so upset at a polite discussion that he feels compelled to use moderator powers to silence dissent. I go out of my way to be as polite, kind and compassionate as possible and to give people the benefit of the doubt, but I do not believe we should allow those in a position of trust or power to use that to settle their personal disputes. I know there has been some issues with that recently regarding the vegan community so I am hopeful that you will do the right thing and either remove his moderator powers or at the very least let him know that his abuse of powers is not tolerated.

I would prefer not to make a community spectacle out of this, hence the email.

Thanks and all the best,

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 20 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, squid did deep and lasting damage to the fediverse with how they used bans to editorialize communities and those scars remain implicit today.

At the same time they were a prolific and dedicated poster and that's huge in a small community like ours. I didn't like them, at all, and I think they had some deep problems around politics, identity, and some very weird narcissistic tendencies and victims complex. But I think they were also an important member of the community, if one who shouldn't have played the role of moderator.

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[–] ArgentRaven@lemmy.world 27 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

We used to see a MargotRobbie but they stopped. Dunno why. They committed to the bit, though.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 13 points 3 weeks ago

MargotRobbie

Fully-qualified username: @MargotRobbie@lemmy.world

[–] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 26 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Ladybutterfly or something like that

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

That's me! BTW do you know where I could hire a cult leader? I'm looking for one atm

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[–] tal@lemmy.today 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Fully-qualified username: @LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone

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[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 23 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I've been here for 2 years and I only recognize violet08 and the_Picard_maneuver. Oh and Nicole, the girl with glasses who wanted me

[–] Big_Boss_77@fedinsfw.app 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Stay away from my girlfriend

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[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 21 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I could recognise a violet or PugJesus post without nametags! I enjoy both posters' content although violet's is a bit concerning and less educational, lol. Oh, and the guy who only posts anti-Western narratives memes, he always gets downvoted but he keeps at it like Marx's strongest soldier 😅. There was also this maniac called Satan'sSomethingSomething I just had to block on two different accounts. Finally, there are several posters I have personally tagged cause I regularly see eye to eye with them, or at least I consider reasonable, prosocial and capable of having a normal conversation (flaxvert, Maeve, VikingHippie, among others). 👍

[–] tal@lemmy.today 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Fully-qualified usernames:

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[–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 19 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (20 children)

I tag folks based off interactions, so after a couple years on here there's a lot of names I recognize. Most of them are regular posters or admins (Pugjesus, Stametz, Violet08, Mrdown, Picard Manuver, Geneva Convenience, ada, db0, etc. who don't need to be bothered with tags) or people who I have a special friendship with like @AntiBullyRanger (I really hope you're doin' okay) or my legit bro @toynbee@piefed.social

Then theres various regular commentators on my NSFW posts like @StrangeBedfellow@lemmynsfw.com and @Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org who I appreciate a ton!

(Personally, I was once asked out of the blue by @WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today to give my opinion in a discussion about battery tech. I think at the end this will probably be where I consider my life to have peaked.)

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 18 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

If they comment/post a lot and use an avatar or have emojis in their display name, I probably recognize them.

Very few I recognize by name alone.

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[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

When I start recognizing a username it's usually because that person is about to get blocked. Applies to quite many users mentioned here too.

I think the small size of the platform is a bit of an issue in this case. The only way to not get "famous" here is by constantly having to make new accounts.

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[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

Oh man, lots. Ada, Kolanki, WorldsDumbestMan, SatansMaggottyCumFart, Neidu, LadyButterfly, CaptainLezbian, CptAggravated, that one guy with the Chinese symbols whose mom is a piece of work, Stamets when he's posting, Sunshine, Blaze, DistantSounds, Sodalite - the list goes on and on.

I may spend too much time here, lol.

[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 10 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

I use voyager and don’t see display names, but I’m willing to bet the person with a Chinese display name and shitty parents is @DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works

Clearly I also spend too much time on here lol

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[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (7 children)

This is gonna sound really terrible, but... I generally don't recognize people by name so much... maybe something dyslexia related? I think there are a couple of rare exceptions, like the user with two letters and then four numbers in their name.

I recognize lots of avatars, as I scroll around, but I don't generally register the names or even descriptions of the images, just kind of like... my brain just remembers purplish-blob shape, red glowy circle, monochromatic goblet.

Oh, and dancing banana, and blue name furry. I actually remember his, it's Kolanki I think

All of you users with no avatar, go get one so I remember you all please! It's an accessability aid in a way :p

[–] Reyali@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Wait, Lemmy has avatars? I use an app 99% of the time, and the app doesn’t have them so I never realized that was a thing, lol. Whoops.

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[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"He's just this guy, you know?"

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[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

There's a guy who thinks I'm some kind of troll or bot and tries to "call me out" by name every once in a while, I suppose that counts.

Personally, I try not to pay close attention to usernames - I want to engage with what's said, not form opinions about the people saying it.

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[–] JetpackJackson@feddit.org 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I recognize anon6789 from superbowl, deathbybigsad, and Picard maneuver I'm going to bed soon tho so that's all I've got for now

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I don't really pay attention to user names when I read, but there are a few frequent posters that I've recognized

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 10 points 3 weeks ago

Way too soon to notice specific people. I suck at focusing on/distinguishing people. They all melt together into one homogeneous background mass, in online world and in real life.

It takes repeated exposure in the same environment under same conditions for me to start noticing them and even then there's no guarantee that outside said training environment i notice them.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I recognise SharkFucker420 for some reason ...

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[–] Tja@programming.dev 10 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

I don't recognize anyone, I don't focus on who says stuff but what is said. I ignore the user and the instance (like ignoring ads on websites) and read the content. Only when it's uncanny pro Russia I check if it's an ml user. I never block or tag, too much work.

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[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

I'm actually a bit surprised by the responses here. I know a lot of the names mentioned here, but there are more I don't recognize than I had expected. Sometimes it does feel a little small of a group here, but seeing both the number of names I do recall aaaand all the ones I don't both help me feel this place is about 50% bigger than I had felt.

It seems there are more of you I've yet to get to know. 😄

What I'm really curious of is how many people's block lists I'm on. I'm pretty rarely controversial, but I'm sure I've had to have annoyed someone by now or bored someone to tears with endless owl superbness.

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[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

For me, one of the great things about this general style of "News Aggregation" social media is that it's community/topic focused rather than being focused on individual personalities/identities. So, in that respect, I really don't notice or pay attention to the usernames, aside from blocking/filtering out all the crumby people that make this place a much worse experience for me. Out of sight, out of mind, so I couldn't even tell you who those people are.

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[–] Quetzalcutlass@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I recognize a few dozen usernames on sight, most of which have already been mentioned. Voyager tracks how many times you've up/downvoted each person and shows it next to their name, which makes it easy to recognize accounts after a while.

Though looking through the comments here there are only three posters who I've never upvoted, two of whom have the new user tag, and almost all that do have votes have two or three digit upvote totals. The Fediverse is definitely small and held up by the frequent posters. It's rare to see a truly new face.

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I thought I posted too much on my alt on another instance.

Glad I don't see the username here, cause at least that means I wasn't super annoying lmao

I think everyone here has already posted all the names I usually see.

There's also stamets, though I haven't seen them active in places I visit in awhile. Also a few users with custom names like Admiral Patrick or Riker Maneuver.

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[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I don't recognise many, but there are a few that pop up regularly like PugJesus, Picard Maneuver and K O L O N A K I.

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