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The threadiverse is small (compared to other major platforms) and I often see usernames that I recognize. How well do we notice each other around here?

I'll start... my name's "MrShankles" and I do be commenting/posting from time to time

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[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 49 points 6 days ago (6 children)

I generally don't recognize usernames and don't look at them too much

There's the guy who uses thorns (who I have tagged as Nigel þornberry)

There's maybe a half-dozen frequent posters who I'm genuinely not sure if they're masterful trolls, some kind of AI training bots, or just really need to go touch grass (preferably on their way to a therapist's office.)

There's one dude whose username just happened to stick out to me after having a random conversation or two with him and seeing him being a generally pretty decent dude around Lemmy, I tagged him "this guy seems cool" at some point, and at some point it occurred to me that he might appreciate knowing that, so I shot him a message, and sure enough he did. I now consider him to be a pretty good friend, which is a new experience for me, I've never really been one to have online friends, I (somehow) do pretty well at making friends in meatspace and have never really felt a need to seek out an online friendship.

There's a handful of people who have said some incredibly dumb shit that I've tagged (for example one dude who I tagged "Tankie, down vote and ignore" although the last few times I've seen him pop up it seems like he may have mellowed out a bit, so good for him)

[–] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 25 points 6 days ago

Nigel þornberry

Made me laugh :D

[–] tal@lemmy.today 15 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Fully-qualified usernames:

There’s the guy who uses thorns (who I have tagged as Nigel þornberry)

That'd be @Sxan@piefed.zip.

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 16 points 6 days ago (3 children)

þat is indeed þe guy

I also love how bent-out-of-shape people get over the thorns.

I haven't stalked his profile, but I feel like every time I've seen him come up he's also seemed like a pretty cool and reasonable dude (I suppose it's possible he's off being a dick in the parts of Lemmy I don't frequent, but I'll give him the benefit of the doubt)

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 22 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I have snarked him about it, myself. I have no objection to overtly affected personal expression (no hypocrite I). It's just that reading a thorn unexpectedly feels like stubbing my toe, but in my brain.

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[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 23 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I've been here for 2 years and I only recognize violet08 and the_Picard_maneuver. Oh and Nicole, the girl with glasses who wanted me

[–] Big_Boss_77@fedinsfw.app 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Stay away from my girlfriend

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[–] ArgentRaven@lemmy.world 27 points 6 days ago (1 children)

We used to see a MargotRobbie but they stopped. Dunno why. They committed to the bit, though.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 13 points 6 days ago

MargotRobbie

Fully-qualified username: @MargotRobbie@lemmy.world

[–] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 26 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Ladybutterfly or something like that

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 17 points 6 days ago (2 children)

That's me! BTW do you know where I could hire a cult leader? I'm looking for one atm

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[–] tal@lemmy.today 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Fully-qualified username: @LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone

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I don't really pay attention to user names when I read, but there are a few frequent posters that I've recognized

[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 17 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

Oh man, lots. Ada, Kolanki, WorldsDumbestMan, SatansMaggottyCumFart, Neidu, LadyButterfly, CaptainLezbian, CptAggravated, that one guy with the Chinese symbols whose mom is a piece of work, Stamets when he's posting, Sunshine, Blaze, DistantSounds, Sodalite - the list goes on and on.

I may spend too much time here, lol.

[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 10 points 6 days ago (5 children)

I use voyager and don’t see display names, but I’m willing to bet the person with a Chinese display name and shitty parents is @DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works

Clearly I also spend too much time on here lol

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[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 21 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

I could recognise a violet or PugJesus post without nametags! I enjoy both posters' content although violet's is a bit concerning and less educational, lol. Oh, and the guy who only posts anti-Western narratives memes, he always gets downvoted but he keeps at it like Marx's strongest soldier 😅. There was also this maniac called Satan'sSomethingSomething I just had to block on two different accounts. Finally, there are several posters I have personally tagged cause I regularly see eye to eye with them, or at least I consider reasonable, prosocial and capable of having a normal conversation (flaxvert, Maeve, VikingHippie, among others). 👍

[–] tal@lemmy.today 12 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Fully-qualified usernames:

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 18 points 6 days ago (6 children)

If they comment/post a lot and use an avatar or have emojis in their display name, I probably recognize them.

Very few I recognize by name alone.

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[–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (20 children)

I tag folks based off interactions, so after a couple years on here there's a lot of names I recognize. Most of them are regular posters or admins (Pugjesus, Stametz, Violet08, Mrdown, Picard Manuver, Geneva Convenience, ada, db0, etc. who don't need to be bothered with tags) or people who I have a special friendship with like @AntiBullyRanger (I really hope you're doin' okay) or my legit bro @toynbee@piefed.social

Then theres various regular commentators on my NSFW posts like @StrangeBedfellow@lemmynsfw.com and @Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org who I appreciate a ton!

(Personally, I was once asked out of the blue by @WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today to give my opinion in a discussion about battery tech. I think at the end this will probably be where I consider my life to have peaked.)

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[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 17 points 6 days ago (2 children)

When I start recognizing a username it's usually because that person is about to get blocked. Applies to quite many users mentioned here too.

I think the small size of the platform is a bit of an issue in this case. The only way to not get "famous" here is by constantly having to make new accounts.

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[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Are they called MrsShankles?

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[–] LemmyFeed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 days ago (8 children)

I tag users occasionally when they stand out to me, so I recognize those people but often forget why I tagged them as such lol

[–] SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I didn't know this was a thing.

[–] LemmyFeed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 6 days ago

ROFL! I've always wondered if anyone had tagged me. Now I know!

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[–] Nora@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 days ago

I recognize a decent number of people, lots of famous frequent posters have already been mentioned but I also tend to remember trolls and people with bad takes.

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I don't recognise many, but there are a few that pop up regularly like PugJesus, Picard Maneuver and K O L O N A K I.

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[–] grue@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago (6 children)

So far, nobody's mentioned recognizing me, despite the fact that I feel like I comment a lot (an unhealthy amount, really).

I'm not sure whether to feel insulted or relieved.

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[–] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I only tend to recognize the users I have assigned custom tags to. Usually to mark them as trolls or suspected bots, but sometimes just because they told a funny story or are enthusiastic about something specific.

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[–] cepelinas@sopuli.xyz 2 points 4 days ago

I mainly recognize PugJesus, SatansMagottyCumFart and like the other two or three lithuanians on here.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 10 points 6 days ago (2 children)

For me, one of the great things about this general style of "News Aggregation" social media is that it's community/topic focused rather than being focused on individual personalities/identities. So, in that respect, I really don't notice or pay attention to the usernames, aside from blocking/filtering out all the crumby people that make this place a much worse experience for me. Out of sight, out of mind, so I couldn't even tell you who those people are.

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[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago (7 children)

I'm actually a bit surprised by the responses here. I know a lot of the names mentioned here, but there are more I don't recognize than I had expected. Sometimes it does feel a little small of a group here, but seeing both the number of names I do recall aaaand all the ones I don't both help me feel this place is about 50% bigger than I had felt.

It seems there are more of you I've yet to get to know. 😄

What I'm really curious of is how many people's block lists I'm on. I'm pretty rarely controversial, but I'm sure I've had to have annoyed someone by now or bored someone to tears with endless owl superbness.

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[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (7 children)

This is gonna sound really terrible, but... I generally don't recognize people by name so much... maybe something dyslexia related? I think there are a couple of rare exceptions, like the user with two letters and then four numbers in their name.

I recognize lots of avatars, as I scroll around, but I don't generally register the names or even descriptions of the images, just kind of like... my brain just remembers purplish-blob shape, red glowy circle, monochromatic goblet.

Oh, and dancing banana, and blue name furry. I actually remember his, it's Kolanki I think

All of you users with no avatar, go get one so I remember you all please! It's an accessability aid in a way :p

[–] Reyali@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Wait, Lemmy has avatars? I use an app 99% of the time, and the app doesn’t have them so I never realized that was a thing, lol. Whoops.

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[–] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Never had anyone recognize me (I post and comment sparsely and in short bursts) but I recognize a lot of other names. Most of which I'm sure the average Lemmy user recognizes.

[–] Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 4 points 5 days ago

The big ones I recognize:

  • SatansMaggottyCumFart
  • Stamets
  • The Picard Manuever
  • poVoq
  • PugJesus
  • fossilesque
  • Cowbee
  • ComradeSharkFucker
  • ThefuzzFurryComrade
  • lumpenproletariat
  • GodlessCommie
  • Bad
  • UniversalMonk

There's a few more that I can't think of off the top of my head. It's nice that the community is small enough to recognize people so often.

[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 13 points 6 days ago (3 children)

There's a guy who thinks I'm some kind of troll or bot and tries to "call me out" by name every once in a while, I suppose that counts.

Personally, I try not to pay close attention to usernames - I want to engage with what's said, not form opinions about the people saying it.

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[–] triple_entendre@infosec.pub 6 points 6 days ago (3 children)

There's a few big names, I usually find it interesting seeing which instances people are on and whether they carry some kind of theme. The people in the Star Trek instance, forget the name, usually have pretty good memes for example

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 4 points 5 days ago

I don't really pay attention. I come here to quip. It's like a mental purge for me.

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