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Normally when this is asked, people think about reviving, curing, resurrecting. This question is about who you save if you were transported to a time a little before their death, like maybe a day before or even a week before. Anything about terminal illnesses or diseases contracted don't really count here because, when those things happen, they happen and there's really nothing you could do to have prevented it.

I think I would've wanted to prevent JFK's assassination. I'd tell him "dude, do not get in that limo and drive down Elm Street" and I'd show him a newspaper clip of the day of his assassination. I'd probably be looked at a little crazily and suspected of maybe being involved in something that pertains to that day. But, it's an effort I would've gone through to do that.

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[–] tinfoilhat@lemmy.ml 6 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I would have tipped off MLK, Malcolm X, and Fred Hampton that the FBI was planning on killing them.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I feel like they probably knew. Almost gives a christological / martyr narrative, which I hope at least MLK would appreciate given his background. Certainly took balls on all of their parts.

[–] erev@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

As a trans person in the US, i believe they knew as far as they had accepted the idea of revolutionary suicide. Why did I bring up I was trans? because i intend to soon start medically transitioning and I have to question if i want to legally transition as well, and to what degree because the laws in the US are making it increasingly difficult to legally exist as a trans person. Either I repress myself and exist to conform or i live as myself and risk death/rape for that. and even in the former case it is unlikely i exist without scrutiny or repercussion given the fact I'm clearly not quiet about this.

similarly if you are an activist or revolutionary on that level you have to accept that the state is trying to suppress if not kill you; either you repress your own grievances and continue to let exploitation happen unchecked or you fight back and likely pay with your life. But again, anyone willing to consider the latter is still likely to face repercussions even if they choose the former. choosing to exist or operate outside of the hegemonic system of thought will lead to oppression in all forms, and anyone who is pragmatic will understand that being faced with that option typically means you have already gone too far to turn back. You either rebel or capitulate, and being a bootlicker doesn't mean you live longer it just means you'll be remembered as a traitor.

Thus i believe MLK, Malcom X, and Fred Hampton all knew they were going to die even if they did everything to prevent that outcome, but I don't believe they knew they would die when they did though. At least for Fred Hampton he had a son and a wife; while i dont imagine myself having children i cannot fathom that someone with so much empathy could stomach the idea of leaving their child behind if they could prevent it.

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

John Smith. He was a well-liked and articulate left-leaning ex-lawyer who was leader of the Labour Party in the UK when he died of a heart attack in 1994. He was on the cusp of power and I honestly believe he would have changed things for the better.

I'd liked to have saved him and possibly Kurt Cobain, just because I was a huge fan.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

RBG, at least long enough she can be replaced by a Dem scotus, to prevent ACB from illegitimately taking the SCOTUS. but now you have to deal with timeline changes, you might change the future in ways you cant imagine, it can actually be worst than what it was.

[–] andallthat@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

He didn't die particularly young, but I think this world desperately needs Mr Rogers

[–] remon@ani.social 1 points 10 hours ago

I'll save mine for David Attenborough.

[–] sasek@szmer.info 1 points 10 hours ago

Daniel Naroditsky

[–] discocactus@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

The guy who almost killed Hitler.

[–] argarath@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

What if we prevented Hitler from killing himself just so that he could go on trial and shown to the world hope much of a nut job he was? Maybe that would have helped diminish the mythos that racist bigots today see him? It would be more of a saving to torture him deal for sure

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 11 hours ago

fornsworth did you use a giant laser to kill him.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

"Aaron Schwarz get the fuck out of that IT cabinet. We need to go to Cincinatti zoo and put a bulletproof vest on a gorilla."

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 3 points 19 hours ago

And open the door to thousands different atrocities committed by thousands of different people

I feel you're very optimistic if you think that single key people made all the difference in the world and that without them, no other key people would have stepped up

[–] CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 day ago

If we're just talking famous people and not family/people I knew, Douglas Adams. I don't like living in a world where Douglas Adams dies at 49 and Henry Kissenger lives to be 100.

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[–] nocturne@slrpnk.net 38 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My son. It would likely only delay his death, as he was determined to end his life. Even off it was only for one day, it would give me another chance to let him know i loved him, to let his younger siblings see him one last time.

[–] Bronzie@sh.itjust.works 5 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Man this one hurts to read.
I used to read things like this and be relatively unaffected, but since becoming a father myself, it's beyond my worst nightmare.
Just the thought of it makes me have a physical feeling in my gut.

I'm sure you have control in life, but know that an internet stranger is thinking of you today and wish you and your loved ones all the best.

[–] nocturne@slrpnk.net 2 points 8 hours ago

Hug your kids, let them know they are loved. You never know when it will be the last time you see them.

[–] volore@scribe.disroot.org 45 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lincoln's.

I've no idea whether Reconstruction would've been successful with him at the helm, but it almost certainly would've gone better.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Andrew Johnson pardoning nearly every traitor so they could rot our country from the inside out like a cancer definitely didn't help.

[–] Soulifix@piefed.world 8 points 1 day ago

Sounds pretty damn similar to what the current corrupt administration does. So, before anyone dares say "No president in history has done this!" all they need to look up is Andrew Johnson.

[–] Jumi@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)
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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 2 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

my uncle. because he would have beat my fathers ass for the disrespect he showed my mother.

I would never have been born, and thus never would be alive in this timeline.

bonus, I get to personally test my theories about paradoxes.

[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Ignoring the post's restrictions, my grandfather. I think he would have beat my father's ass for how poorly I was treated.

[–] 7upCoconut@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] MeatPilot@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago

We could have had utopia, but instead we killed Harambe.

[–] dparticiple@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 day ago

My friend, Chris, who ended his life. It's been years, but I'd give just about anything to have him back.

[–] leadore@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In terms of US History, Abraham Lincoln, by far. What a completely different country this would be today. Or at least would have had a good chance to be.

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

go further, kill Alexander the Great...prevent Romes rise entirely

[–] HeHoXa@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago
[–] happysplinter@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Probably Elliott Smith, though I don't think he'd want it.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] yesman@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

Fred Hampton. I don't mean to pass over other civil rights martyrs, but the Black Panthers were something special. Real revolutionary politics, organised, and taking direct action; the high-water mark of leftest politics in modern America.

[–] myrrh@ttrpg.network 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

...i think if yitzhak rabin hadn't been assassinated, the trajectory of twenty-first-century globalism would have been very different, potentially sustaining the progressive momentum mustered in the early nineties...

(not that he was personally responsible for that trajectory, but then butterfly-effect tendrils of his assassination run deep and wide)

[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

My wife's father. He committed suicide back in 2019 after a few years of him getting more and more distant and depressed. Of course it is a gamble since we do believe it was his brain deteriorating kind of similar to what Robin Williams had, but at the same time i also believe he was kind of miserable having to deal with his family's problems which consisted of his 3 daughters and his wifes issues. A week after he passed his wife was then diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and she also passed within 3 months as well. It was a crazy year to say the least. I just wonder so much what he would have done if he was alive to see his wifes passing if that would have changed his decision because i really feel like if he knew he no longer had to take care of her he wouldnt have had to worry so much about living out his life in fear of running out of money anymore and that he may have finally been able to do what he wanted to do which i think he felt trapped.

[–] WongKaKui@piefed.ca 5 points 1 day ago

Sun Yat Sen (孫中山)

I wonder if my birth country would've been in a better place, be making more friends in the world instead of antagonizing everyone like PRC and CCP is doing, destroying the reputation of my people abroad, and causing widespread Sinophobia.

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago

My late father. He passed away July 21, 2014.

Back in January that year, I came home from work, and he told me that he made some eggs and grits. But when he ate it, it was too hot, but his reflexes made him swallow it anyways. Which basically boiled his insides.. ☹️

He refused to let me call emergency services, hell he even told me that if I did so without his permission, he would shoot them, and yes he slept on a couch loaded with multiple guns under the couch cushions. He even threatened to kill me if I called emergency services without his permission.

5 months in, I realized that daddy wasn't gonna recover, as he was seeking cell phone signal the morning before I was about to head out to work. Daddy like never called anybody, so when I saw him seeking a good cell signal, I asked him if he wanted me to step out and call 911 myself.

He said, and I quote, "Hold the fuck on, I'm getting ready"

Needless to say, I missed work that day. I got him to the hospital, where he lived for another month or so, but passed away because he didn't tend to his health back in January when the situation happened.

I'd write out more about this, but it's too sad for me to think more on.

Damnit daddy, I coulda saved you, if you weren't so stubborn!

☹️😭💀

[–] devolution@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

RBG. I wound have forced her to resign.

Kevin Conroy. Some other actors can do Batman's voice fairly good but no one tops Kevin.

[–] brainzzz@piefed.world 14 points 1 day ago

Martin Luther King maybe?

[–] getFrog@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago

Kelvin Kiptum. He was one of the greatest prospects in really advancing marathon world records. It might take another few generations until someone with the same kind of potential enters the scene.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago

My dad. Fuck cancer.

[–] akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Mine and my family's. I don't know how to cope with and accept the finality of life. Hope ghosts are allowed here.

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