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[–] GalacticSushi@piefed.blahaj.zone 149 points 3 weeks ago (18 children)

I think it's mass anxiety caused by uncertainty across the board.

Political uncertainty as far right and authoritarian movements pick up speed in various democracies.

Labor market uncertainties due to companies tightening their belts in the face of economic uncertainty, and trying to replace workers with AI.

Economic uncertainty due to wars disrupting energy and supply chains and the looming specter of recession/depression.

Geopolitical uncertainty due to several ongoing wars and several tense situations that could devolve into actual conflicts, not to mention the major paradigm shift happening where the US is actively ceding its position as a global leader to China.

Climate uncertainty as we refuse to address climate change and burn mountains of coal to power plagiarized chat bots.

The weirdest part is everybody is for the most part pretending everything is normal while silently being anxious on their own.

[–] cmbabul@slrpnk.net 48 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Honestly glad it not just me that realizes everyone is pretending

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 63 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Honestly a lot of people around me are not pretending when you talk to them. They acknowledge it. They just dont know what to do on an individual level, trapped in their individual situations.

[–] queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone 25 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

That's been my experience as well. A lot of discussions that used to be an occasional hypothetical now happen more frequently and are a lot more brass tacky:

  • what do we do if the federal government collapses / splits? Flee or hunker down? Either way, where?
  • How are we going to get food and water over the next few years?
  • how do we keep ourselves and our neighbors safe from the snatchers?
  • how do we maintain supply lines for medications over the next few years?

We are all long on questions and short on answers. but the questions are bubbling up to the surface more quickly as more people catch on to the fact that the US is out of control. Donald Trump is literally building a bunker compound, or trying to anyway. He's not leaving that office without a fight. The situation on the ground in the US is bad right now, but it's going to get a lot uglier before it gets better.

[–] West_of_West@piefed.social 23 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I told my wife i was feeling really anxious today. I think that freaked her out more than anything. She was like, "but you dont get anxious!"

Well damn love, today I am.

[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 7 points 3 weeks ago

It's the opposite for me. If I told my spouse I was feeling relaxed and calm she'd start to get worried.

[–] Cherry@piefed.social 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I’m seeing it. A lot of people are shutting down discussing it anything…usually with the line of …I don’t talk politics.

The best you can do is remind them that their voice counts. They count. That we are communities that outnumber the rich and oppressive. That they can take small protections with their privacy.

We are not powerless.

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[–] ieGod@lemmy.zip 50 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

It's been off since covid for me. 2020 is where I lost a lot of faith in humanity. Masks off (literally) on selfishness, greed, fascism, and anti-intellectualism. Corruption blatantly on display. Decorum and civility have taken a massive hit. It's been downhill since.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 36 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

2016 for me. The moment a person like Donald Trump can win a presidential election is the moment that decency was completely dead. The worst people were suddenly empowered to be as terrible as they want to be. They felt justified in their racism, bigotry, disrespect for others, and hatred. It’s only been stoked more and more since then. Then, yes, Covid was the gasoline on the fire.

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[–] queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone 44 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

The largest empire in the history of the world is in the middle stages of Mad King Disease, that sort of thing has ripple effects.

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[–] PrimeMinisterKeyes@leminal.space 35 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

We're on the very edge of a new age of feudalism which, as we speak, is being ushered in by murderous fascists and their axiomatic drive to start civil wars.
A small cabal of billionaires totally stopped caring, or at least pretending to do so, about the common folks. They really want all the money and all the power in the world, and it's now within their reach.
The "opposition" is either complacent or terrified.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Yes I've been noticing that for years. Talking about it is always well received on social media.

I've also been noticing people's attention spans and analytical skills deteriorating, as they take as little time as possible to process an item, make a superficial judgement that confirms what they already think, and continue scrolling. The goal of information consumption seems to be to process as many little items as fast as possible, spending as little time and brain power as possible on each one. But talking about that on social media isn't usually as well received.

One thing that never changes is people's selectivity about problems they're willing to face vs ignore.

[–] UPGRAYEDD@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Also worth noting that this has happened throughout history many times.

What is new is the power a small group of people can truly have due to technology. The algorithms of social media and ai can now push the general populations opinions. Not unlike the propaganda of the past, but much stronger and more subtle. The surveillance of every citizen can be used to squeeze and silence the population on an individual level.

Throughout history, the level of wealth inequality and corruption we currently see often causes a revolt, usually followed by a dictator. But this may be the 1st time in human history that the technology enables a small group of people to prevent revolution essentially forever.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I agree up to "forever". People with too much wealth and power tend to feel invulnerable until they find out they aren't.

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[–] fahfahfahfah@lemmy.billiam.net 33 points 3 weeks ago

Feels like everyone I know, myself included, has had some kind of mental breakdown in the past few months. Life has become fucking crazy.

[–] ComradePenguin@lemmy.ml 27 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It is off. The US empire is falling, and falling fast. They are lashing out in all directions, and hurting almost everyone. People credit Trump too much for the chaos, that is really frustrating. Yes, he has a lot of power to do idiotic things, but there is an armada of people controlling things and contributing here. Trump is mostly the facade. Never forget that Americans wanted this. They knew what he was, but they still voted for the republican fascists.

The same authoritarian development is happening in a lot of democracies at the moment. It's honestly very worrying. I also feel quite powerless.

[–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

I've been trying to grapple with this recently. And I always end up with " well, the macro level might be fucked, but I can still work on my house and enjoy small hobbies and focus on the micro level of existence."

Except the macro issues (higher gas, inflation, ice, climate change, etc) just completely dominates the micro level. What good will enjoying my hobbies do when I can't get the materials for them and the world outside is burning? Feels too much like burying my head in the sand.

Yes I vote every election, state and federal. Maybe get off the internet? But again, feels like burying my head in the sand. Idk anymore really.

[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 27 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, since 2014 when they turned the algorithms on.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 5 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

agreed. i remember when everyone wasn't pigeon holed into their weird alternative realities and people thought you were crazy for believing crazy bullshit, but now they celebrate you for it as being heroic or something.

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[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 18 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

another virus is going around, people around me are getting sore throat, mildly painful, because people arnt vaccinating or isolating when they are sick, but not sick like flu, covid, or the cold. i do not want another covid infection, like i did last sept.

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Husband had that 2 weeks ago. He said he felt like he was going to die. Couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, cold sweats, fever, etc. Took a COVID/flu AB test and negative.

[–] Scrollone@feddit.it 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

So there's something new going around...

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[–] dparticiple@sh.itjust.works 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I feel okay, personally (other than being horrified by the polycrisis taking place in the world), but share your sense that we're in the middle of a tectonic shift. Multiple friends, usually talkative, usually stable, have gone silent, and I know several people who seem to be having low level mental health crises.

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[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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It's not just you. In my area people are driving worse, people are being less patient, and folks seem to be getting weirder. Hell, I just had to delete an article about skinning a cat from a vegan discord group. I have no idea what's going on, but I'd guess it's stress, weather, and endless conflict weighing on people.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 11 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I’ve been vegan since 2019 and it’s hitting me lately that in those days things were looking bright for veganism. Now a lot of vegan restaurants are turning their backs on animals by serving meat then closing up shop a few months later after alienating their customers. It’s getting more difficult to find vegan options and it just breaks my heart.

(There’s also like 10,000 other problems I’m going through too.)

[–] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Inflation and restraunts generally struggling are the causes

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[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 4 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

probably veganism, vegatarian food isnt really profitable compared to meat based, eggs, milk products. its only a subset of people that will willingly go to these, perhaps. i think they are better selling vegan products to chain store.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 10 points 3 weeks ago

Oh yeah. Not sure how much is a us in particular thing. I think the last thing I complained about here is paper towels but I really feel like everything. Absolutely everything is just not working as well as it used to. I blame worker reductions and things just not being maintained as well. I think they are requiring folk to do more such that they can't do it as well and they have lost knowledge on how things work but penny pinching on maintenance. Combined with little to no real oversight and by and large inspection is done internally and that is a good place to pinch pennies. I sorta feel like the country is going like the soviet union. Its like we talked about how inefficiently they ran but they still had cities and people working their jobs and going about life. Similarly we do and people are like see its fine because things are still happening. Its such a slow degredation.

[–] Beth@piefed.social 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Everyone seems scared to talk about what they’re scared of even though we all know. Even around the like-minded. It’s like saying it out loud makes it real and worse.

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[–] stretch2m@infosec.pub 10 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

At least in the US, a big factor is wondering just how fucked up things are going to be on November 4. Or if the puppet masters will conspire to cancel the general election entirely. Makes it hard to plan for the future, wondering if an actual revolution is unfolding.

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[–] BanaramaClamcrotch@lemmy.zip 9 points 3 weeks ago

Time freakin moves, buddy. Like MOVES. Like HAS motion. It’s crazy how quick the days/weeks/months freaking fly by.

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 9 points 3 weeks ago

Things fall apart more. Everything is breaking down and nobody gives a shit because there's soo many things breaking at the same time.

In the chase for efficiency offered by computers and internet, everything from physical products to services are now depending on some broken code that only works when conditions are optimal. The systemic dependency between seemingly unrelated events is insane.

[–] SunshineJogger@feddit.org 8 points 3 weeks ago

It is a downward spiral. Worry, loss, wory, loss, worry andvmore loss.

Loss of future perspectives, worry over basic needs, losd of health, worry over future of kids, loss of mental health, worry over wars, etc.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

Gravity seems extra strong some mornings.

And yellow coloured things seem to whine at a slightly higher octave than normal.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 7 points 3 weeks ago

Usually the balance of dark and light carry the day. Lately, it's been more dark and the balance seems out of whack. I feel that too (I was going to say "in my bones").

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 7 points 3 weeks ago

I noticed that most articles have this strange AI feeling to them, I can't say what specificaly, but I kust know.

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Can you give us any examples? Personally, I just finished doing a series of highly weighted uni assignments so for about 3 weeks everything was off in the world and suddenly jumping into traffic felt very alluring, lol.

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 26 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Maybe it's just me or an American thing but everything seems like it's changed. People seem to just be surviving. Nobody wants to do anything anymore. Nobody can afford to do anything anymore. People don't really talk to each other much. Etc

[–] velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It’s not just you. Majority of Americans don’t have even $1,000 in savings. The Iran war has been dragging for weeks and weeks and gas and groceries are only getting higher. People are feeling the pinch.

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[–] bitofarambler@crazypeople.online 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

That struggle is very real and has been for a long time.

There are lawyers fighting for civil rights and elections happening, plenty going on, but there is also a mass disillusionment about the undeniable disadvantages of living in the US that you're picking up on.

I started living abroad 15 years ago because of the broken social compact in the US and it is shocking how much worse the US got so quickly since then.

It's very comfortable living abroad, way cheaper, better food, better medical care, better a bunch of stuff. Head over to Travel or shoot me a message if you're interested.

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