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I don't regularly watch any of it whether normal weekly show or special event, but wrestling. I still read up news and stuff about wrestling but I can barely consider myself a fan.

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[–] 1995ToyotaCorolla@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

Anything related to computers/networking/IT. I was big into computers when I was young, and was a founding member of my high school's tech club. After graduation, I immediately went into tech school and lived/breathed tech until I got my degree. I LOVE the academics surrounding how computers and networks work. It is genuinely amazing that I can type some bullshit on my keyboard, and then that is sent as an electrical pulse, as an electromagnetic wave, as LIGHT, and decisions are being made on the fly as that bullshit flies through any number of autonomous systems on its way to your screen. In milliseconds. And that is a GROSS oversimplification. Just amazing.

Then, I went into the working world and had that love systematically ground out of me. Worked for a small regional MSP, and was the admin for a small, now defunct college. These days I teach digital literacy which is rewarding in its own right, but trying to get grandma to understand what a password manager does is... a lot.

Over the years, I've watched everything in tech get polluted by right wing freaks and corporate interests trying to squeeze every bit of profit out of their userbase they possibly can. Google went from a beloved institution to silently removing their "don't be evil" motto from their headquarters. Microsoft was always evil, but at least they pretended to care about their products. The open source space seemed like a bunch of punks trying to democratize computing, but they're owned by corporate sponsors and rely heavily on contributors on <corporation's> payroll. The technology we have is truly amazing and a great achievement. But it's saddening seeing it all being used for mass surveillance, oppression, being enshitified into oblivion, as the concept of owning anything becomes a fringe ideology. I still keep up with everything because I kinda have to, but there's no joy in it anymore.

[–] Furbag@pawb.social 4 points 11 hours ago

Magic: The Gathering.

The game, as it is right now, barely resembles the game I learned to love when I started playing it two decades ago. The new card mechanics simply don't interest me, the power creep has frankly gotten out of control which forces you to play formats like standard or commander to balance it out, and both of those formats are hard on the wallet if you want to be/stay competitive.

Also, part of what drew me into MTG in the first place was the rich lore and history, and now it seems like they are just constantly pulling in 3rd party IPs to make guest sets and it ruins any kind of immersion I might have had. I used to like building decks that were thematic and flavorful, but when I sit across from someone playing Ninja Turtles or Deadpool themed decks, complete with artwork and custom mechanics for each of them, it drags me out of the universe that I became so familiar with and reminds me that I'm no longer the target audience.

The ultra-exclusivity of the newer stuff also is a big turn-off. Secret lair drops and collectors edition boosters, alternate artworks, etc. all feel really scuzzy and I want no part of that. It was bad enough gambling on standard booster packs in the past that I tried to not make it a habit. Now all the new product seems to have FOMO as a main selling point.

I still check up on new stuff from time to time, but I barely play anymore (and when I do, I use old decks that have been outclassed for the most part by newer released stuff). I certainly haven't spent a dime on any product in probably a few years now. Nothing about the game or the new sets interests me at all, and when I play I'm just going through the motions.

Not holding out hope that WotC or Hasbro will reverse course any time soon, especially with the way people have been voting with their wallets since Secret Lair #1.

[–] KeavesSharpi@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 hours ago

Star Citizen.

[–] LogicOverFeelings@piefed.ca 2 points 11 hours ago

Age of Empires 2, I played it when I was young so it's kinda nostalgic. I don't play it nowadays since I'm really bad at RTS games in general but I still like to keep myself informed of changes brought to the game by watching Spirit Of The Law's channel on YouTube.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago

All of them.

For a long time I followed my favorite NFL team. Eventually I just could not stomach how problematic it all was so I stopped. My favorite coach retired soon after. I used to spend hours on both their subreddit and a separate fansite arguing with people, looking up stats, listening to my favorite podcast by a former player.

Before that it was baseball. I spent a few years following our town's team, keeping an eye on all the minor league teams and how prospects were doing, evaluating the results of trades years after they happened. Eventually I realized that it was purely a pay-to-win league, and my town's team was never going to pay enough to win.

For a few years it was League of Legends. A friend of mine installed it on my computer when i hosted a Halloween party in 2013 and got drunk. I spent the next 3 years playing with him and other people, and playing fantasy LoL, watching all the professional matches of the biggest leagues in the world.

I spent a few years diving into cheap Chinese gaming handhelds. Then I got my Steam Deck in 2023and stopped. I've realized now from seeing new devices in my feed that I've been so out of the loop in that community that I have no idea what is going on.

I waa recently diagnosed with autism, suffered sone pretty severe burnout the past couple years. I think part of that was from just... No longer having any sort of special interest. Still trying to figure that out.

[–] WillieShen@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

being alive

[–] grumpo_potamus@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

Skateboarding. I'm old now but seeing street/park/ramp skaters (sorry longboarders and electric skateboard-esque enthusiasts) now still gets me stoked.

I was a skater growing up and probably how most who knew me would describe me even though I was also into snowboarding, mountain biking, and punk music.

I lost a lot of my crew when dating became more of their thing in HS, then all of my crew when we went different ways after HS. I tried to stick with it in college but got frustrated with losing a lot of the progress I'd made and always skating alone. I got back into it briefly in my 30s when a couple guys at work expressed interest in hitting up a nearby skatepark over lunches. I could actually do a few things but only at a fraction of my former ability but I went easier on myself and acknowledged that a lot of time had passed since I could do cool stuff consistently. That job and those guys are gone now and I've moved. I've still got the deck in my garage but it's been at least 15 years since I've skated. I'll watch an old 411 or see a kid trying to ollie in the neighborhood and that brings me joy (and some sadness)

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Web dev in React and game dev with Unity. I used to spend so much time building projects but AI drained my interest out of it. I still wish I had the same passion but things are not the same. Tried Godot but the way it does things didn't click for me.

[–] spizzat2@lemmy.zip 62 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Building PCs. I used to find cheap PC parts and throw together a slowish, but functional computer for the fun of it. I built a few computers for "word of mouth" customers.

I got into other things, and lost touch with the previous clients.

I decided to get back into it a few years ago because my parents needed a new machine. I had to do quite a bit of research, and things were way more expensive than they had any right to be (this was even before the RAMpocalypse), but I got it done. It was still fun, but I realized it's not something I want to spend a lot of time doing anymore. I still try to follow all of the tech news/tips/reviews, just in case, though.

[–] Malica@lemmy.zip 2 points 12 hours ago

For me it's a hobby I get back into when I decide I need to build a new PC. Then it's a furious month or two of research, creating PCPartPicker lists and building. Once I'm done, I put the hobby on hiatus for a few years. I don't find it interesting enough to keep up with year round.

[–] criticon@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 days ago

Similar. I am/was the go to for my family regarding technology. Last year my uncle asked me about laptops for her daughter that was about to enter college and I had no idea. I have been using an inexpensive core i3 for the past 7 years with linux for my personal laptop and my work changes me my laptop wave 2 or 3 years but it is so bloated that it never feels fast and I no longer have any idea about the trends or requirements nowadays

I used to have 2 custom PCs and upgraded them little by little every time I found something interesting on sale

[–] s3rvant@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

Beyond All Reason

I was late to the RTS scene though I do enjoy them. Unfortunately I don't have the time to play these days. I do still watch the occasional match on YouTube especially if I happen to catch a live tournament.

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 2 days ago (4 children)

video games in general. there was a time when video games were my number one hobby by a huge margin. if i had free time i was playing a game, and the only times i would do something else were when i burned myself out or finished something and didnt have anything else to play yet. im not entirely sure what changed over the past decade or so but i slowly stopped finding games engaging enough to hold my interest. i kept trying new games hoping something would hit the way it used to, and sometimes id find that for a while, but now most games i cant play for more than an hour before i get bored and drop them forever. its kind of sad because i used to get so much joy from video games and now i just dont.

[–] Malica@lemmy.zip 3 points 12 hours ago

I'm too old, it sucks

[–] Vlyn@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Same here, could be just depression or having other stress in life. Every now and then though I do find an absolute gem of a game I can sink hours into (before dropping it again).

This weekend I actually managed to finally get some people together for Meccha Chameleon and we had a blast, played for about 5 hours :)

[–] DrBanjo@reddthat.com 3 points 1 day ago

Time goes so fast when playing Mecca Chameleon! So darn fun

Not saying this is you, but ive noticed society in general had our brains friend by big tech and smartphone use. If you start detoxing and going back to 03 levels of tech use, you start to enjoy things like long form games and books again.

Or maybe you just need a good game series. I'd recommend life is strange (very movie like), or the Alan wake series (Control is an amazing game).

Or, maybe you just value more important things in life than games right now. Thats fine too.

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[–] fritobugger2017@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Learning the Vietnamese language and tie dying clothes.

[–] Boozilla@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I do little to no woodworking, but I enjoy watching woodworking videos.

[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Same. Paul Sellers is a fucking wizard.

[–] Boozilla@sh.itjust.works 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I'll check him out. I watch Steve Ramsey and a few others.

[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

He uses pretty much only hand tools, it’s a really cool process to watch, he makes it all look so damned easy.

[–] Boozilla@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 hours ago

Sounds a bit like Roy Underhill.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't play and am not interesting in playing Rocket League anymore; but I still watch an occasional pro match.

[–] Akasazh@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago

I find it funny that Steam says I have over 1000 hours in CS2 despite only actually playing like 2 or 3 matches of CS2 because CSGO became CS2.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 39 points 2 days ago (3 children)

D&D. I'd love to play again, but reality is, I haven't in years. But I do enjoy keeping up with the culture.

[–] gastroglizzy@piefed.social 14 points 2 days ago (4 children)

As someone who learned on AD&D 2nd Edition, I gotta say, I find the 5th Edition rule sets (very annoying that there's two versions. again) painfully slow and tedious to play. The rule set and focus has shifted from large-scale battles with dozens of participants and 3-4 armies to smaller encounters of only two teams and 4-6 participants on each team. Just one large-scale encounter on the 5e rule set would probably take multiple sessions.

The culture and the way people play has also changed dramatically. Pencil, paper, and dice used to be all you need, but is seen as "inadequate" now. Terrain, D&D Beyond, and miniatures are the new standard. Everyone uses a tablet or laptop and browses Reddit between turns. Every turn is treated as an opportunity in the spotlight to have their big moment of the session.

I hate to sound like a boomer, but this new stuff ain't it.

[–] thymos@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 day ago

Everyone uses a tablet or laptop and browses Reddit between turns.

Then why play at all? I thought the fun was doing something together with a group of people, you know, to get away from the internet and back in touch with friends.

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[–] Vlyn@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's such an awesome hobby, but I burn out way too quickly, especially as DM. You prepare each session for several hours, then the session itself takes 4+ hours easily. Super fun, but on a schedule it starts to feel like work.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That's the hardest part. Good luck finding a consistent 4-6 hour window that is convenient for everyone.

[–] Soggy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

The key is finding 3 or 4 other adults that understand the value of consistency. I've been in a weekly game since before COVID and we simply don't make other plans on that day. No "eh, it's just D&D I can skip it to go to the movies". No grief for legitimate reasons to miss a session (but we try to do a replacement activity to keep the schedule rhythm) because we all trust the rest to take the commitment seriously.

There's people with children in the group who make it work. If you can't handle a weekly game you just don't want to do it enough. It's not a matter of convenience.

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[–] whyrat@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I used to keep up with distance running and ultimate frisbee, but after having kids didn't have time to stay competitive. I'll still run solo, or play an occasional pickup game, but not doing it regularly makes me a little depressed that my skill level and physical condition aren't what they once were. 😓

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 27 points 2 days ago

I used to be big into cars, but they got too complicated, expensive, and I just need something that works reliably, and I don't have space for a project car. Also I think new cars are way too expensive, but I still like seeing the new tech and what different manufacturers are making.

I used to shoot and reload ammo multiple times a week. I still have everything, but it mostly collects dust. I go skeet shooting maybe twice a year and deer hunting for a week. Besides also getting pretty expensive, the majority of people I run into are, shall we say, not my type of people these days. So I typically don't want to spend time around anyone at the range. My club membership is like $30/yr, is 5 minutes from my house, and I can bust clays with my brother now and then and make sure the deer rifle is sighted in, and that's good for me.

I still enjoy watching histories of weapons and ammo development because I learn a lot of world history and see some cool engineering. Most GunTubers also suck though.

I follow a lot of music production and guitar things to see all the new gear. I only ever learned the basics of guitar and bass, and now I play piano and the linear layout of things makes more sense to my brain. Guitar has by far the coolest gear and gizmos though, so I still check out all that stuff. I'd like to check out all these amp modelers, but I don't own a computer, so there's that. 😂

[–] JonnyW@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago

Formula 1. Watched it religiously for many years then the regulations got weird so my interest started waning. I check in from time to time but the last race I watched was around 5 years ago.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 26 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Making music. I've been collaborating with a buddy off and on, but I used to have a strong drive to work on music daily and now I'm just passively consuming media and generating little creative output. I watch from the sidelines when cool new tools warrant a look, but I wish I still had the drive.

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[–] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago

Used to be big into assembling PCs when I was a kid. Haven't done so in ages, but still keep an eye on the latest hardware.

[–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Despite my better judgement, World of Warcraft and Blizzard in general. I know Blizzard isn't Blizzard anymore, and they are constantly releasing patches that have clearly ignored bug reports (for example they had a content patch that included a "hide and seek mode". Hunters were able to use their 'track humanoids' ability during it, and hiding players would get disqualified for "being idle". These issues where reported by people playing on the beta test servers yet somehow still made it into production) and sound like they are having AI make decisions for them. But I still read articles about what they're upto next out of some bizarre curiosity that stops me from looking away from the train wrek.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

I'm not as passionate about Star Wars since Rise of Skywalker, but I still watch every new series

[–] gastroglizzy@piefed.social 21 points 2 days ago

Rust (the video game, not the programming language)

Can't stand to play anymore, but I still keep up with the major patches and still watch some RustTubers.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Dating and relationships.

Used to be something I put a lot of effort into and it was kinda fun, now not fun anymore so there is no point in putting effort in.

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[–] lntl@lemmy.ml 17 points 2 days ago

NetBSD

I dailied NetBSD for 5 or 6 years until I replaced my ancient laptop. The new laptops wifi chipset wasn't supported so I moved on to Linux. I still read NetBSD and pkgsrc release notes, but its not like it was.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I dont play Rust anymore but I do watch some Rust YouTubers to help remind me why I don't play rust anymore

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[–] Pholous@piefed.social 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Cars. I used to know all the models and their figures, like combustion chamber volumes. Now I still like cars as kinda closed, autonomous systems that are super complicated but an amalgamation of design and functionality. But I also hate them because they are loud, dangerous and because of them our cities and landscapes are plastered with concrete and tar that heat up, are ugly, prevent plants to grow and make cities less walkable.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago

unoftunately I don't bike as much as I geek about biking now. table top rpg. regulary look at pf2 things. was that way with my mmos but got back into them. well the one for now.

[–] sic_semper_tyrannis@lemmy.today 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Photography. I hope to get back into it one day

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[–] thericofactor@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 days ago

The Commodore Amiga. I used several Amigas productively long after their heyday, but I loved these machines and their OS. Way ahead of their time. Some people are still developing new versions of the workbench OS and newer hardware to run it on. However, the technology gap is now too big for any of it to catch up. Against my better judgement I'm still rooting for some of these products to succeed and be a viable alternative to Windows, Mac or Linux PCs.

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