20 is def not a milf ur good lol. I am 20 so it must be young!
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OMG Rachel! It's you! The beautiful vampire hunter from my phone!
Well, if we're the same age...I feel a bit better, lol. Girl, you're so fucking pretty omfg 🩷
You legitimately look cis, no way around it. You're amazing 💜
Thanks a lottt aa. I have worse photos than I share too I just know lighting and posing I can share the worse ones privately if it would make you feel better or anything and for thebrecrd I think you are very pretty vourself and like if not for me being fat you don't have any less boob than me
I have better photos, but even with people telling me they see it...I never will. You don't have to share any photos of me, really. You're beautiful, you're passing and goals and that's that. End of story 💜
This sounds sarcastic, but I really mean it.
Omigosh just stalked your profile to see your face. You look adorable
Thanks...not really. But thanks 💜
Nuh uh I will not take that. IfI have to accept being beautiful as the end of the story than I would like to help see yourself as such too. I will be dming you and talking shit out and helping later
I appreciate the effort, I really do...but I don't think you can fix this, sorry. I started late, my body has been ruined forever. I'll never be happy being this. I'm so sorry...
No sorries. I have been there I know how bad it can get. I started late too. 20 is very much young even if you had started just now and hrt was quite slow for me so it hurts even if you know you might be yourself one day but you hate your "now". I started at 18 which is also after puberty. Sending digital hugs but nothing about you is broken nor unfixable
Every femboi must grow up and become a femman.
It's NOT twink death! It's twink maturity! Men age like a fine wine, I say :3
(Oh god, just kill me for this one, this was way too fucking much 😭)
Men age like a fine wine, I say :3
But they do. I generally like aging (at least in other humans)
They all seem to grow more hair over time, which I like. And greying looks really good sometimes.
Thom Yorke
That image is one of the causes that lead to me questioning my gender. Twink death was a real fear and I was already experiencing it.
Also I saw an older picture of my mum recently, I assume she was in her early 20s in that picture and wow, I wish I were that pretty, I'll settle for what I can reasonably achieve though.
Totally understand. Looking in the mirror at 19 and telling myself "You're aging...like a man" was what finally pushed me to get off my ass and get HRT.
Awww, girlie 🫂
You're so pretty tho! And you're NOT telling me you're past your 20s, I don't believe that at all. You're beautiful and super early on HRT! It'll only get better for you. You can "reasonably achieve" great beauty! 🩷
Aw thanks 💜
And yeah, I'm not even in my twenties yet, so I have no right to say it's already over, but it's hard sometimes, especially with other curly haired girlies, I had the same gender envy literally yesterday lol because a girl from a TV show I was watching both did my their better and had really good makeup!
But yeah, thank you though, I do believe I'll see a girl in the mirror one day.
I'm so bad at guessing people's ages, omfg 🤦♀️
Gender envy is totally real. Sometimes it's slightly painful, but sometimes it's an inspiration! At least...I think?
I do believe I'll see a girl in the mirror one day
You will. I already do (it's you!)
Why do you see other people in your mirror? 🤨 /joke
Aha. I haven't taken my schizophrenia meds 🙂
I'm so bad at guessing people's ages
me too don't worry, and to be fair I do tend to look older than I am
You will. I already do (It's you!)
omfg Miisha that made me really happy thank you 💜!!! I almost made a noise, I had to stop myself it's literally midnight lol
Currently struggling with twink death 🥲 hadn't heard the term but its real useful
Curing ~~all age related diseases~~ twink death.
Estrogen to the rescue! Now for only 50$ a vial :3
walter and jesse
btw, fembears should be totally a thing

Also. 20 is totally parent age. With 40 you already can be a grandparent
It is not.
"Can" is not the same as "usually does." The record for the earliest pregnancy is age five. I don't want to go around telling people 5 is normal parenting age.
The average age for a woman to have her first child in the US is 28.
In my country it’s even 30. But the average doesn’t matter. The youngest parents you know matter more for considering people potential parents. There are a bunch who were in their early twenties. I know one who was 18, but I’m willing to consider that an outlier.
Alright, alright, I get it, okay?! I'm old, stop rubbing it in 😭
How old are you then, clever internet stranger?
20 is NOT parent age also ur being messed with. 20 is the first age a pregnancy is not a teen pregnancy even. You are very young
A GILF in half a decade. I haven’t found any grey hairs … so far
Tbh...I'm really stupid and don't know exactly what that means (I know what a GILF is), but I'll assume you're older than me
GILF is grand*. That can bo basically anything from this list:
- grandmother
- grandfather
- granddaughter
- grandson
I see it mostly used for grandmother. There are more terms with collisions, DILF gets used both for dad and daughter
Interesting 😂
This is much more intricate than I expected...thanks for explaining that...person of indeterminate age 🩷
(I actually completely respect preserving your own privacy, I'm just a nosy BITCH. Don't mind me :3)
GILF would always be the older variant pretty much, I don’t think I’ve really seen the younger one used. There is daughter for when sb doesn’t really look like what is associated with parent age/look. Granddaughter is not useful in that context, since ?ILF is about the total age and not about age gaps
I’m a bit joking about the age you can be technically be a parent. But that is actually somewhere between 12 and 14. Even with just 16 year olds knocking each other up accidentially, 32 would be a reasonable grandparent age.
privacy
I just didn’t want to directly write the number. It’s really just 40-(10/2) in a few months
Oh girlie I’m sorry, idk what the commenters intent was but generally MILF is porn-slang for “doesn’t look 14.” 🤢 Which is silly af anyway, the occasional post I’ve seen you very much look like a young woman in her coming-of-age era (meant positively!).
It’s trite for a reason but I promise you 20 is so much younger than it feels for you right now. 20s are the roughest go of years, it does generally get easier as you get older and your confidence will blossom with you! 🌸
Than you 🩷
It was honestly extremely mean from them, but...idk. I hope things get better.
Thanks!