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Since we just had the friendliest, let’s look at the opposite. Not exactly the one with the rudest locals but the unfriendliest, be it scams, pickpockets, aggressive touts, unfriendly environment, or bad service.

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[–] unsettlinglymoist@lemmy.world 1 points 1 minute ago

Chile and I've been to ~25 countries. Maybe it's because I'm American but nobody there seemed interested in talking to me, sharing their culture or learning anything about me. I tried multiple times but all my interactions with Chileans were purely transactional and most of them seemed annoyed to have to deal with me. I've never had a reception like that anywhere else and wouldn't bother returning.

[–] dadjokesfordays@lemmy.ca 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

USA 100% Ive been all over Europe, and to central America and the USA (I'm Canadian). The USA is by far the unfriendliest.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 hours ago

They've got a LOT of guns.

[–] FanciestPants@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Oh no, I didn't mean for my pickpocketing scams with hostile service and aggressive touts to mean that I didn't want to be friends 😢. For sure the US though.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 22 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (3 children)

America, by far, and that’s from someone living here. I’ve been to England, France, Germany, Switzerland, Poland, Czech Republic, Italy, Belgium, Netherlands, Iceland, Mexico, Bahamas, British Virgin Islands, Canada, and probably a couple others I can’t remember. I’ve been treated nothing but friendly, with genuine curiosity, even when I shouldn’t have been.

Every day in the US, someone swears at me.

[–] Robotsandstuff@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

As a British dude I hate America the city's are all full of rude self obsessed people

[–] thewanderingbackpack@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Just came back from Jeddah airport in Saudi Arabia to LAX. The Saudi airport staff and Saudia airline crew are both very helpful and friendly, and once I landed in lax the mood completely changed, it felt like that the immigration people hated to have me back into their country ;)

[–] coreray00@discuss.online 1 points 7 hours ago

It feels that way returning as a US citizen too…

[–] thewanderingbackpack@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

Agreed (as an American). Even Saudi Arabia has more hospitable people

[–] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

I'm not American, I've visited many countries, and I agree.

[–] Bruncvik@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

I only have experience with European countries, and from those I pick Austria. Very self-centered people; even service staff is very unfriendly (in the rare occasions where the staff is actually Austrian). Pet peeve of mine: I've never seen people skipping the queue as often as in Austria.

[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago

I'd say Iraq, but being that I was there as a part of an occupying force, it's my fault they hated me for being there, so I totally get it. That aside, America (as an American) definitely has unfriendly people that one is forced to interact with on a regular basis.

[–] Vinny_93@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

I'm European and never left the continent. I found Copenhagen (Denmark) to be one of the least inviting places I've ever been. That's not to say Denmark is like this or even that I didn't have a good time in Copenhagen. It's just that pretty much everywhere, people seem to be in a hurry.

But my baseline in Europe is that everything is just amazing. People are nice, accomodating, helpful. Especially in the slightly smaller cities. I especially enjoyed Krákow and Gent.

[–] Mendicant_Bias@feddit.uk 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Don't want to discredit your experience but...

Me and my wife visited Copenhagen for a short city break back before we were married (and before we had much money). People were very welcoming. For example, we visited a small wine bar and could only afford the very cheapest option, the owner did not care at all and happily hosted us for the duration. Same at the coffee spot across from the hotel - guy there helped us get our bearings.

Now, that's not particularly noteworthy compared to other places in Europe that we've visited, but we definitely never felt unwelcome. The only issue I had with Copenhagen is a me-issue, I'm not a seafood person at all, and that's a huge part of their cuisine. I'm fact, that's a recurring issue for me. Love food, but not seafood! But then love places that love seafood! Argh!

[–] Vinny_93@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Not saying Copenhagen was all in all a bad experience, had loads of good ones too. It's just that in my limited frame of reference, Copenhagen was my least favorite. But it was still pretty good. I've had bad experiences in restaurants everywhere around Europe. But outside of general businesses, I found that I didn't like the vibe in Copenhagen. Sure, in restaurants people are nice. In venues if any kind things are good. It's a prosperous country. But in a way I found that just walking around the city it felt rushed, unkind. Even compared to a larger city like Lisbon.

That said, I didn't really felt at ease in for instance Catania or Rotterdam either.

[–] vvilld@lemmy.world 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Belgium

Of course, when I went it was part of an school exchange trip when I was 17. I was almost always with a large group of American teenagers with only a few teachers as chaperones. It's 100% understandable why people wouldn't want to be particularly friendly to us.

[–] Prok@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

I just want to say while not overly friendly, my wife and I were in Belgium last year and as long as you don't insist on trying to speak English at someone who said "no English" it was a perfectly nice place to be... Even when we were off the beaten path

[–] zymagoras777@lemm.ee 6 points 18 hours ago

Rome, dirty place, except for the tourist sites obviously. Lot's people getting pissed when you ask something in English. Drinking water taps in the streets constantly running straight to the drain. Thank f**k our Airbnb host was a great guy and helped us a lot.

[–] ultranaut@lemmy.world -1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Utah. Other than the staff at a restaurant everyone was rude. I think a motel manager may have lied about not having rooms, at the very least he made it clear he didn't like us.

[–] dustpuppy@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Utah is a US state, not a country - you must be Murican

[–] ultranaut@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Utah is like another country to me.