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Hey smorty, we've never talked before but I wanna say I love your posts and your writing style. Always makes me happy to see you when I'm browsing local. I hope you don't change too much for the lemmy worlders, they're exaggerating their discomfort when they say they're "having strokes" or whatever. I hope you do whatever makes you happiest!
:(
Remember that most people only respond when there is something they don't like occuring, but remain silent otherwise. For every dissatisfied user, there's probably many satisfied ones. Were.
NOOOOOO!!! Smorty the adorable bean has to limit her power. She was just getting too powerful honestly she would have taken over the whole platform otherwise
Smorty you don't know me and I don't know you, but ur posts have always made me feel warm~n~happy I just wanted u 2 kno that <3
;_;
this makes me so sad, especially since i know you won't easily change your mind (。╯︵╰。)
just know that you don't need to change to fit over people's mold, especially the mold of lemmy world plebs
I second this and want to reiterate that you should not change because someone else wants you to. Only change what you want to change.
please reconsider and don't change yourself - you are unique and brought me, a lurker mostly, smiles everytime you post or comment :)
if people can't handle the real you, how you want to be, that's their loss
a greater tragedy there never was, fuck the haters, your better than all of them, and i like you more than them anyways, so why should i care what they think, i only care what you think is best, so keep doing what you want girl <3
Aww man, I am sorry if I came across as mean the other day.
And I am still conflicted. On the one hand, now every smorty post is instantly readable, on the other hand, now smorty is sad :/
dont worry, u r not the only reason ~ <3
Didn't assume I was, but still, you're a good person and I didn't wanna hurt u (see, it's infectious)
Aww no, I loved old smorty. Your posts and comments were very adorable.
You know, I was initially kinda annoyed by it, but this just feels wrong. You should freely express yourself however you feel comfortable doing so.
If nothing else, maybe be more readable, but don’t turn down the spice, temp, or fun. You be you and fuck the haters
Smorty no... 😥
NOOO I just found out about you from this post (don't go on c/196 normally) but this makes me so upset! if people can't be our honest unfiltered selves on anonymous social media then where else??
If others don't like your posts they should get over it or mute or something, not make repetitive unfunny jokes about having a stroke :( I respect your decision ofc but it's really sad people are like that
hope you have a good day op, you seem like a lovely person with a charming style and good opinions <3
noooo :(
wrong direction
(but u know do what you gotta do)
woah u pulled up thad old post - means u remberd it!
this means a lot to me, thanks for remindin me of the old ways i used to be - - -
(i didn change thad much, its fine - mostli >v<)
Smorty posts are refreshing unique OC on here one does not simply forget :3
A great loss for this universe. Your goblin comments will be missed.
they will not fully disappear. i will jus make sure peeps all around cn kinda understand what i mean, thus reducing variety in my commnts. but not completeli removing it.
EDIT: also: goblin!!!! ~ ??? see... this makes me feel uncomf...
Goblin was not intended as a negative word. I lovingly call my friends goblins all the time.
hmmmmmm oki! <3
Hey, at least they didn’t call you a mind goblin
oki u must be trollin now. thad was verry uncomfi.
"mind goblin" is a d##z n##z joke
oh... well i dun like that.
Please don't make changes just to please strangers on the internet, especially if you don't want to yourself. Let the hates hate, the have nothing better to do anygays
This is my first time seeing you Smorty, and reading through the comments, I already understood the entire backstory of this post and regret the loss we suffered today.
So, suggestion: dedicated alt-text bot that follows Smorty around, and comments a translation under each of her posts/comments.
u kno what? - thats what dear fxomt was workin on.. Imma contact them again to get som updates! <3
maybe they got news! :o
You picked a bad time for me to start lol. I have exams this week and i barely have time for myself 🥲
Once i survive till thursday i'll start working on that bot.
I like the spicy high temperature. If I don't have several strokes while reading your comments, then what the hell am I doing?
i didn like peeps saying thad they hav a stroke when readin my stuff...
i wan them to be comfi... not genuinely uncomfy.
I was joking about having a stroke. I've never had a problem with your comments.
But I support you in doing whatever you think is right and what makes you comfortable <3
i woll nur mal sagn, i hab echt nie probs gehabt deine kommentare zu lesen, und i freu mich voll dass d wenigstens nich ganz aufgibst ♡
weisst d manchm wenn man so’n mega süssen welpi oder katzi sieht und a liebsten quetsch will (i glaub das nennt man "cuteness aggression“ oder so)? genau so fühl i mich bei deinem schreibstil hach
:o
thank u very very much for perceiving me lik this! <3
I already miss the old smorty
thanksies ~ <3
i will remain somewhat spicy though - - -
wut hpn if smort go MAXYMUM SPICCY
oooh u dont wana kno >v<
ngl i think it's more important to tone it down for the fact that anyone who has a screen reader would be like completely unable to comprehend your posts
yeaaaaa ur right...
big fan of this. the smore
Smorty rule before and rule now. But do what feels right for you 🏅
it doesnt feel right... bt peeps want it so... here we r...
;'(