Congrats, enjoy getting rejected by both genders.
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rejected by both genders.
You didn't need to tell the truth on the Internet xD.
Don't worry, there are way more than two genders to strike out with! Think big!
Now you can enjoy explaining to people how you have double the dating pool but are somehow still single. Unless you arent i guess...
let’s be honest, we’re on lemmy. double zero is still zero.
the famous "attracted to everyone, but no one attracted to you" 😔
double the dating pool
More like, 5% bigger dating pool if you went hetero→bi.
But also 20x the dating pool if gay→bi.
I just assumed that OP is so attractive that any man or woman would instantly fall for them.
Bad Luck, I am the most ugliest fucker born in my entire bloodline 😭. Even my Grand Grand Pa was mogging when he was young.
Is that every other sexual or twice every sexual?
It means they only finish every other sex. Semisexuals are twice per sex.
I thought those were hemisexuals this is so confusing
gaaaaaaaaay
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Good for you and all my love to you.
Just a reminder, nothing about human sexuality is set in stone .... we are very complicated beings.
What your preference today is not the same as it was a year or two ago and it may not be the same years from now. We grow, we evolve, we change with time, environment, genetics, mentality and circumstances.
Some people maintain their sexual preferences the same all their lives .... some people change over time ... some people are just all over the place.
What I do know is that none of it matters. The common denominator is that you feel love, want love, want love shared with you and you want to share love with others.
So no matter what you think or feel, as long as you are safe and the person you are with loves you and you love them and both of you consent to whatever it is you both want to do .... none of it matters to the rest of us or the world ... who you are at this moment is perfect.
Nice. Now go do crimes.
Congrats on the self-acceptance, and welcome to the club! 😊
congrats! hope you find someone to tell that to irl
Double the dating pool, nice!
congratulations on your public enemy arc. enjoy being hotter than everyone else 💪
Yay!!!!!!! <3
Congratulation on accepting the person that you are. I hope that you get to live your best life soon. 🏳️🌈❤️
Congratulations on finding personal acceptance of an important part of one's identity.
Not everyone will be welcoming, though you will one day be able to use this as foresight to guiding yourself towards good people - people who would accept you irl as well as online.
Stay good to yourself.
Neat.
Congratulations :)
Fuck yeah ✨️
Awesome! No shame, be the best person you can be!
Congrats!🥳🙌
Neat! I'm in a similar situation. I have no need to come out to anyone but my wife, and she's cool, so she's the only person who knows me who knows.
Same. Lol I am looking for some thing profound but that's kind of it. Neat, and same 😊.
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Congrats on accepting yourself! It’s a tough road, but believe me it’s worth it <3 <3
let's be honest bisexual is best
Mhm, but what about Pansexual or Asexual?
Asexual? What's the matter, didn't study hard enough to be A+sexual?
Congrats. You get the best of both worlds.
bsur
Mazel tov! It's pretty great, not gonna lie
In the same boat. Comfortable with who and what I am, not comfortable with the world knowing.
Awesome! I had an awakening moment a while back and I actually feel better about myself because looking back a lot of things make sense now in my personal life.
ayy congrats! :D
Congrats! 💪
Congrats on being greedy and indecisive - it's the best!
Congrats on misinterpreting other sexualities as character flaws.
If you had to decide not to find people of the same gender sexually attractive, you're not as straight as you like to think.
I could have sworn that the comment you were replying to was satire. I suppose that due to Poe's Law I can't be sure of that though...
Maybe, but like you say, is this an absurd parody of an insane rightwing nutjob, or just an insane rightwing nutjob? So hard to tell, and these days I find Onion headlines about what the GOP says completely plausible, no longer reacting "surely not?!" but instead "of course they do."
In any case this is an attitude from yesteryear that should have stayed there and needs calling out.
If it was sarcasm, I'm agreeing with the intent of its author and if it wasn't, I'm gleefully disagreeing.
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