edit: the guy to our guy
Ah yes, trans inclusionary radical misogynist, the TIRM.
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His battle with Rowling will be legendary
Honestly, I don't know if it would be productive but I think it would be a horrid afternoon for Rowling so I would absolutely support this.
No, I don't think it would be productive in the least, but it would be hysterical and worth eating popcorn to!
Please make it happen. OOP, make him social media literate and translate everything to English!
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So, where can I watch this series?
I love trans-inclusive radical misogyny. it's so blursed. imagine if we had this instead of terfs.
You've got me thinking about Pride and Prejudice and how Darcy's flavor of misogyny could be interpreted as hatred of patriarchal limitations on the social class "women" rather than a hatred of what women actually are. That is, he hates the behavior women act out as part of a performance they've been forced into, but he doesn't fully think through the concept of systemic oppression because he has no educational background to support that level of introspection, and so he's left blaming women. I'm sure there's probably quite a lot of writing on that angle already, but it's the first time it's ever occurred to me.
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Amazing. On the surface everything I read is bigotry and disdain, but I can't help liking the guy. At the very least he seems to have the consistency to choose his very own flavor of bigotry.
Not humor though; as far as I understand OOP he's 100% serious. Maybe one of those people that are kinda half aware that they're being an asshole just for conversation.
He sounds pretty autistic, and I mean that somewhat affectionately and not at all as an insult. His manner of thinking feels personally familiar to me.
Say we lived in a society that let dogs vote. You wouldn't have to hate dogs to be real about the fact that they're not our intellectual equals and to be frustrated with a system that gives them decision power that affects everyone in society. And you'd be even more frustrated when people around you say you're a bad person for being dog-phobic.
I think that's the internal world he's living in, based on a series of false premises that he genuinely believes to be true. I think that if these false facts were corrected then his conclusions would naturally improve. It's how it worked for me.
damn this is gold. that guy's a genius. he might have weird views but at least they're consistent and well thought-through (edit: except the "women are all stupid" part).
i also really cackled at the "damn, cheese, gender, what else do they deny themselves?" as if a gender is something you're enjoying. really brightens my day that some people see it that way so instinctively.
If the story is true, and my guess is that is and based in a Spanish speaking country, I think I kinda love the guy. Like a living Wholesome Redneck meme.
Honestly, having worked in kitchens, this is sorta just how chefs are. You really need an oversized ego to run a kitchen well, and you have to be a little crazy to pull it off. They're somehow either the best or worst people in the world, and sometimes you get a Guy like OP's who is both simultaneously.
Couldn't it also be that the guy exists, but the demand for stories about him is larger than him, so OOP chose to cater to that demand?
I like the "accidentally scared a 17yo out of an eating disorder" though, you can't make that shit up.
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Dude is a GTA V side character for real
It's this guy running for political office? Is he going to start a religion?
No shit I'd be OK with conservatives electing guys like this instead of pedo rapists narcissists who sell their souls for a quick buck.
What a fascinating specimen... I wish we had more.
I hope the updates keep coming. We need to study this goober.
I want MORE
Ricky Gervais needs to find this Guy for a new season of An Idiot Abroad.
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What would you even call that? Non-toxic chauvinism?
I mean it still sounds pretty toxic to me. But somehow, I think i could manage to bear it, especially after realising he kind of accepts people for who they are?
Yeah, I'd call him something along the lines of a really hateful good person? Not enough information to make that call but at least that's the impression I got
The rare case of two wrongs making a right
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...what on Earth did I just read?
Is there a pool going on whether "Not Gay Name" is actually gay too? He sounds so closeted, it'd be easy money.
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