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For me right now, it's books followed shortly of watching things. And I mean watching things that isn't YouTube. Recently, I've been donating totes of books, books I've spent a long time having thrifted for and waited to get without having to cave to spending online.

And those books just sat there for months and months without being picked up to be read. Even books I wanted! I used to have a 5-shelf bookcase filled with books, another 3 shelf filled with books, a structure compromising of a shoe shelf and TV-stand filled with books. Now after donating things, I am only down to a single three-shelf bookcase just packed up with what books I have decided to remain with me.

As for watching things, I've discarded over 120+ DVDs from my collection, I still have a hefty amount, like I have nearly 5 full disc books filled with discs of a wide variety of movies and shows to watch should I ever not be online or want time off from being online. All just continue to sit there unwatched as I just keep watching YouTube video after YouTube video.

I just think I am coming around to the acceptance that I just will not give myself time to these hobbies and that they're probably dying out, I predict that if I don't do anything in the next couple years should they all sit and gather more dust, I'll just let them all go.

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[–] Kennystillalive@feddit.org 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Dancing and Theatre. I used to love doing improv and dancing Salsa. Now I can't find the time and energy.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 4 days ago

Ok I wrote a response but I was never into dancing but they had free swing stuff that I would go to occasionally. Never got that good but it was a fun thing to do once in awhile. I also have been in various choruses and choirs and they are really fun but also really sorta exhausting. Anyway your response made me add two things to my list.

[–] whereyaaat@lemmings.world 2 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Nothing, really. I've spent most of my life focusing on what matters to me, and so as time goes on I just get more dedicated to the things I already like.

I don't play competitive online games any more. They are a waste of time and exist to reward whoever puts the most amount of time into them. It's a race to the bottom to see who's the biggest loser.

I still play games though, just ones where I'm not the product.

[–] arararagi@ani.social 1 points 4 days ago

I fail to see how you are the product by playing a competitive game, do you think game companies make money by data harvesting?

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[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Probably playing video games at the moment. I just dont really have time for them right now, especially given how addictive they can be.

[–] Bunbury@feddit.nl 2 points 5 days ago

For me it has also been gaming. Some part of my brain is always reminding me about all the chores I have to do and all the crafting projects I could be working on instead. Also the cats keep on demanding attention every 5-10 minutes so that takes me right out of the flow if I ever manage to get into it.

[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

The piano. I used to play almost everyday and I got pretty good at it but I rarely play it now. Just yesterday was the first time I played it in a couple years

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 2 points 5 days ago

Gaming.

I'm just shit at it now. I used to love FPS games, now I can barely hit anyone let alone get any kills.

[–] classic@fedia.io 3 points 6 days ago (4 children)

After a lifetime of reading comic books, and amassing a pretty large collection, i just... stopped. It wasn't so much losing interest as I'd gotten what I needed from them. I just don't need them anymore. Now I'm left with 50 some boxes of comics to get rid of...

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Im not sure how much I miss it as I to am a recovering comic book collector. If you have anything from the powerline series (powerline, doctor zero, saint george, or critical mass) from way back and are near chicago and care to exchange let me know.

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[–] Fyrnyx@kbin.melroy.org 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

At the very least, you could be sitting on some issues that collectors could pay a pretty penny for. I would be hesitant on giving your comics to those used games store that have just turned into these like 'nerd-caves' where they mark up nearly everything you give them.

If you know of any comic stores or so, those could be a route too.

[–] classic@fedia.io 2 points 5 days ago

I'm resolute on not selling to any sort of store. I'll get 25¢ per comic at most. And then, yeah, they'll sell at much more of a markup.

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[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 3 points 6 days ago

Satellite and space tracking. Satnogs with some custom hardware.

I've done it for a number of years, helping citizen scientists all over the world. But because of the cuts and less and less people getting into the hobby, its been hard to keep being motivated.

Took down the setup a bit ago for some repairs and haven't put it back. Probably won't.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I lost books sometime in the aughts. I miss them but its just to easy to do other things. MMO's are another. That is sorta the reverse in that they suck up to much time and there are personal reasons I needed to drop them. Going to cons also fell out about the same time as reading and its fun to hang with fen folk. Ill say along with cons just any in person nerd thing. free thought groups, makerspaces. they are all sorta part of the same thing I think which is essentially just hanging with nerds and geeks.

[–] arararagi@ani.social 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Ironically, MMOs that do cater to the busy adult life end up being the worst to actually sit down and play since they have auto battle, auto pathing, auto questing.

It just becomes an idle game with extra steps.

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[–] sturmblast@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

Art. I used to do all kinds of art. Now mostly I do music instead.

[–] timetraveller@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You should use an app like Topaz AI to upscale all your old dvds and watch shows in HD. I’ve recovered so many old series, like ALF, that will never be released in HD, now very watchable at 4x using the Iris2 upscaler.m settings and some parameter adjustments.

*I’m in no way affiliated with Topaz, only a user of the app from early days in 2020/2021.

New hobby for me!

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's a fun one, but I desperately wish there was a way to run it without needing a VM or something. It's all just windows or mac based, but they do have the best models

[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

What's wrong with VMs?

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 1 points 6 days ago

I two primary hobbies are music and basketball. I’m still making music and not intending to stop anytime soon. But I don’t think my body can do basketball anymore, especially when I go for pick up games and everyone is younger, faster, and stronger than me. Not to mention people are competitive and I don’t fit in as someone who just wants to play casually for exercise.

I’ve been trying to find a steady group of people to play with who are looking for the same thing, but have been unsuccessful so far. I might have to hang it up pretty soon.

[–] mrdown@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago
[–] vane@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago

Life, each day I feel it's less of it.

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