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I recently saw "Rampage" from 2009. Its basically a movie where a spree shooter is portrayed as the good guy/anti-hero. Several parts gave me that pit in your stomach, teeth gritting uncomfortable moment. I really hated it. Although I'm not surprised there are sequals I am disappointed and will not be watching them.

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[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 2 points 12 minutes ago

Trainspotting

Requiem for a Dream

Both movies were good. Both movies were absolutely a one time watch and never again.

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Old Boy. The 2003 Korean one, at least.

[–] daq@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 33 minutes ago

Modern one is not much better. Same story.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I don't remember what it was called, but there was one I watched in theaters in 1st grade for a class field trip that would absolutely freak me out today. It was a documentary on bugs.

Edit:

I misread it as non-horror documentary.

I cannot think of any films right now that really scared me, but I might come back if any come to mind. Closest I can think of would be things from cartoons, like the moon spirit thing from Courage The Cowardly Dog or a Goosebumps commercial where they show a scene of a mummy rising and the kid banging on a door because they couldn't get out.

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Watership Down. It's animated. It's a kid's movie.

Also Plague Dogs.

[–] DrSoap@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

I read Watership Down as a 10 year old. I loved to read but couldn't go out much, so id often pick up the fattest books at the library so they would last me a while. Book messed me up. I didn't know there was an animated movie. Seems like a bad choice.

[–] Bakkoda@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

A Serbian Film.

I guess it could qualify as horror so maybe not but... Only movie Ive ever regretted watching.

[–] HeHoXa@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 hours ago

Seven Pounds

Watched soon after untimely death of a loved one.

Spent like a week in bed after watching.

[–] shrodes@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

All great recommendations here

For a recent one I thought The Drama was quite tense and uncomfortable, worth a watch for sure.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 hours ago

Replied previously but adding:

Kids Gummo

[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 7 points 5 hours ago

They've both been mentioned below but mine are 'Grave of the Fireflies,' and 'When the Wind Blows.' They hit harder than 'horror' movies because they are, in a way, the real human horror for which a 'genre:horror' movie would be an abstraction.

[–] lobut@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago

Amour

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1602620/

If you've never seen Michael Hanake movies then it's hard to describe. It's not like horror like any of the others just getting us to confront things were uncomfortable with.

[–] onemancult@crazypeople.online 2 points 4 hours ago

Compliance might be cheating because it's based on a true story, but it's not s documentary despite being an almost exact retelling of the original events. Which just makes it more fucked up.

[–] testaccount372920@piefed.zip 7 points 8 hours ago

First one that came to mind is Grave of the Fireflies, a Studio Ghibli movie unlike any of the other movies they ever made.

[–] Thorry@feddit.org 9 points 9 hours ago

The Prestige

I absolutely love that movie, but the first time watching, when that one moment hits. Such emotions I've seldomly had when watching a movie.

Maybe honerable mention for Seven?

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 6 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Requiem for a Dream
Happiness

[–] kureta@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

happiness is unreal. fantastic film.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago

I added Gummo and Kids in another post.

Schizopolis is really good and weird but doesn't leave you as hollowed out as those others.

It's been a while but I remember Visioneers giving me a similar feeling of bleakness.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 37 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

The Wolf of Wall Street. That movie gave me nightmares.

At the risk of sounding prude, seeing so much excess and chaos crossed the line from being morbid to becoming genuinely unpleasant, like seeing drunks and drug addicts in real life. I hated DiCaprio’s character with a passion from start to finish, and that night after watching the movie, I had a nightmare where I was at one of those parties and they were abusing me and my friends.

Knowing that it’s based on real events, that the guy DiCaprio plays is free, and that there are people who admire him even after seeing the movie makes me feel dejected.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Yeah I fucking hate that movie. It feels like it made their horrendous behavior into a joke. None of it is funny in the context of reality. So glad to hear someone feels the same way about the movie.

[–] redsand@infosec.pub 8 points 9 hours ago

And it's relatively tame compared to some billionaire's realities.

[–] leraje@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Threads - UK based movie from 1984 which is a speculative fictional account of what would happen in the event of a nuclear war.

[–] BreadOven@lemmy.world 7 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

That's a tough one to get though. Check out "When the Wind Blows" for an animated take on the same topic. It's equally as bleak for different reasons.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago

Want some dread from an animated movie? Watership Down, especially the original, was nightmare fuel in my wife's childhood.

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[–] n4ch1sm0@piefed.social 16 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

Falling Down (1993). The main character attacking minorities, saying American conservative shit, and enablement of urban paranoia was pretty unsettling. The black comedy undertones did get me to chuckle once or twice, but overall just an upsetting thinking of some people sympathizing with the MC in a way that led conservatism to what it is today. The fact that he killed a neonazi does not balance it out.

[–] kaklerbitmap@lemmy.world 5 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Been a long time since I've seen this movie, but I always thought the point of the neonazi was specifically to point out how alike the two were. At the end of the scene where he kills him, the scene is shot in a reflection in a mirror. He kills the nazi, nazi drops out frame in the reflection, leaving just the MC, who then shoots and shatters the mirror itself.

https://youtu.be/Y6JqwQfli7Y

Wasn't he also watching the neonazi through reflections in a store's security mirrors earlier? It's really been a long time.

I always assumed the point of the movie was to show how stupid the idea of the "White Man's Burden" and white persecution complex was, with some critique of American exceptionslism thrown in.

I shouldn't be surprised that some people took the exact opposite from the film and empathize with the MC. Kind of reminds me of Fight Club in that sense.

[–] n4ch1sm0@piefed.social 2 points 2 hours ago

I always wished I had an eye for that kind of thing; no I haven't noticed that!

I always assumed the point of the movie was to show how stupid the idea of the “White Man’s Burden” and white persecution complex was, with some critique of American exceptionslism thrown

Throughout the movie, I wanted it to be satirical, and wanted to believe that it was exactly this because of how ridiculous and exploitative aspects of this movie are. But there so many moments where the film was intentionally trying to get me to sympathize for the character and made it feel very sincere.

I shouldn’t be surprised that some people took the exact opposite from the film and empathize with the MC. Kind of reminds me of Fight Club in that sense.

Absolutely this, and in more extreme cases with movies like American History X too. But American History X's message is obvious to me and I really believe you'd have to be pretty moronic, as neonazis usually are, to believe it's a pro-white supremacy movie and feel empowered by it. Fight Club is more subtle, but I believe it gives more opportunity for people not to identify with the opposite of the message, even for those that don't know or get it. I just didn't feel that way about Falling Down.

But I don't know man, you've actually inspired me to want to rewatch it; see if I feel any differently.

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[–] Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus 19 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (5 children)

The Hunt (2012). Sweet guy gets accused by the child of his best friends to have abused her, thanks to suggestive questioning. Whole town turns against him, even though he's innocent. I couldn't finish watching it, because I was trembling and couldn't watch the hopelessness and unfair treatment. Even worse, it's based on a true story.

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[–] scytale@piefed.zip 12 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Nightcrawler. To think there are real people like that.

Incendies. Messed up revelation. Also had my biggest non-horror/thriller jumpscare.

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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

1 hour photo.

the scene where Robin Williams has broken into their house and is shitting on their toilet was just too fucked up for me and I turned it off. never finished it.

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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

at the time I worked at a similarly blue vested retail space and there was a gentleman who worked in the photo department who looked and acted like the MC from the movie, unironically. he had been that way before the movie even came out, so it was just his personality.

the movie was just...too real for me and I couldn't ever finish it.

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[–] kip@piefed.zip 19 points 14 hours ago (7 children)

Requiem for a Dream is likely to come up. maybe Leon as well. Poor Things might be too close to horror to count, The Girl Next Door definitely is. Watership Down is another common one, Plague Dogs is similar and potentially more uncomfortable. for other animations you could count Perfect Blue and Grave of the Fireflies

Gummo is mentioned elsewhere, the only other Korine film i've seen is Kids (1995) and it's fucking grim

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[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 14 points 13 hours ago (2 children)
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[–] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago

When I was a 13-year-old girl who didn't know she was queer I watched The House Bunny at my friend's sleepover birthday party and ran out of the room crying because it confirmed all my fears about young adulthood.

[–] FrederikNJS@piefed.zip 6 points 11 hours ago

For me it was The Butterfly Effect.

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