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[–] sunsofold@lemmy.zip 4 points 19 hours ago

'Country' music. There is a specific style of country which is the most prominent, and it is so stupid it's a parody of itself. It's what you would make if you wanted to make fun of Americans, but made and listened to in full sincerity. Then there is the rest of it. Johnny Cash is technically classed as country but there's no way I'd class him as being anything like Garth Brooks. More modernly, Poor Man's Poison uses country sounds, but doesn't bemoan the loss of their truck, dog, and wife with the same chord progression that hasn't changed in decades.

[–] BeerStainedBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Older pop music like Lady Gaga. I didn't like the overzealous fans she had

[–] shartgargle@lemmy.zip 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"older" damn yo, don't do that to me.

[–] NickwithaC@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just Dance was only like 5 years ago right?

Just like that Wii game that came out only a few years ago... Wait...

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

There have definitely been songs, especially of the vocalsynth kind, where I avoided them any time they'd be recommended to me on yt because the thumbnail alone didn't make it look all to enticing. Especially compared to other songs with more enticing thumbnails.

I mean, load the thumbnail for this video and tell me you would be enticed compared to this video. Ignore that I commented on the first video since I eventually did watch only to find it's a good song.

[–] ExperimentalGuy@programming.dev 92 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Years ago, I thought Linux was for nerds(which it is) and performed badly and was hard to use. Now I haven't used Windows as a daily driver in 5+ years and every time I have to use someone else's non Linux machine, it feels like an ancient machine with absolutely no character to it.

[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

it really has come a long way in a short amount of time. took me only 2 months to learn it to the level that made me comfortable on it as a daily driver and even then i think 2 months is too generous if not for the fact that i built a very specific spec box for a very specific tech purpose using lots of core.if not for that it would have likely been less than a day to be setup on a linux workstation out of the box doing average computer stuff.

And wine and window emulators are plenty on linux so you can run windows programs anyways so there really is no missing out. i run windows office software and 7zip out of heroic only cuz i like having buttons and icons and a ui.

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[–] Apeman42@lemmy.world 74 points 2 days ago (6 children)

My mom boiled brussels sprouts and I hated them. As an adult who knows to roast them, they've become one of my favorite vegetables.

People also did a lot of work to reduce the bitter glucosinolates https://www.bhg.com/news/brussels-sprouts-less-bitter/

[–] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago

My mom's cooking was terrible in her 30s aka my childhood. It really has improved so much since. Guess with raising kids she just did not want to bother putting in the effort just to end up with something delicious which your kids refuse to eat anyway.

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[–] daychilde@lemmy.world 38 points 2 days ago (10 children)

Ritalin.

I'd heard all the stories about zombie kids and such. Then at 30 I was diagnosed with ADHD and it explained so much. My first ritalin was a life changer. Not a zombie - I could focus on what I wanted to, get things started, music stuck in my head gone, so many other things. Not perfect, but so much better.

I'm still pissed that for most of my life since I haven't been able to have it or anything else to help.

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Keeping and maintaining ADHD medication is so freaking difficult these days. It's exhausting.

[–] daychilde@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My wife has AuDHD - diagnosed with ADHD about the same time I was (age 30 for her, too). She's still able to take meds, and yeah, it is a damn struggle every single month.

And recently, the hospital system her PCP is in changed the rules so that you have to have therapists re-confirm the diagnosis every three months. She already had to drug-test every three months (ironically to make sure it was detected so they know she's taking them and not selling them...... :eyeroll:)

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Yeah my boy friends pharmacy refused to fill his script because they deemed his dose so high and called all the pharmacies around so his doctor had to lower his dose and now it doesn't do anything for him. Yeah it sucks to have ADHD these days.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Damn how high a dose does that need to be? I've known people on 90.

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

He was on 120 but spread over 12 hours. He was on this for 8 years multiple doctors, multiple pharmacies across 3 States. This was the only pharmacist to have an issue with it.

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[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (8 children)

Veganism.

Their entire basis of preaching guilt over the consiousness angle was egotistic, overzealous and unproven.(either all plant matter and all animal matter are consious or they are all not. Therefore everyone, no matter what matter they consume to survive, remains guilty of ending a consiousness or not and therefore neither diet maintains the higher ethical ground to guilt from. I will not be convinced otherwise. And especially not while every white paper starts with defining consiousness is always in their own pure hubris)

It was not until it was called 'Plant based' that i got on board as that research is proven. yes: it is healthier, yes: less emmissions. yes: uses less matter to consume. yes: more sustainable. (Although not sustainable for those who remain unable to digest beans as a form of protien. but that is another story)

Ethical? in the form of 'less matter' one might try to argue but i would not use any guilt angle on ethical stance so long as any matter that may be argued to contain consiousness is consumed. No ethical stance starts with measuring anything in value as 'less than' another so long as it is used just to justify to find their own comfort to judge others from.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

either all plant matter and all animal matter are consious or they are all not

man what

[–] Baggie@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Consciousness is very poorly understood, because we don't understand brains very well at all.

However, because we don't know how it works, it's possible that every system with chemical reactions, moving parts etc, might be conscious. It's a bit of a mind fuck.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sure, for a generous definition of "possible". However I don't see how you get from there to "either all are, or all are not".

Like, you could at some point have said we don't understand magnetism. You couldn't from that argue that either all metals are magnetic or none are.

[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

that's the thing: no one knows. No one agrees. Not even vegans. It doesn't stop them pushing out misinformation about it.

For all the facts we do actually have and agree on i could make just as many claims that there is consciousness as they claim there isn't.

Meanwhile you have anti abortion claims that life starts at conception. This makes an assumption of when consciousness starts. Still not fact.

And scientists don't want to be withheld from work on plants for the fear of ethics. (Yet they tear mice apart)They will go as far as make no effort of reference or crosscheck even on the discussion of consciousness(even shows in the above link at the bottom of the study) like they know so little they can't even begin with reference that was ever agreed upon and burry any that contradict their hubris while making an assumption on consciousness.

All three of these groups are in constant contradiction depending on comfort level of ethics around consciousness. It's like a shitty ballet around a non fact.

[–] SnoopSqueak@lemmy.today 20 points 2 days ago (40 children)

either all plant matter and all animal matter are consious or they are all not.

Plants do not have brains or nervous systems, they are not conscious.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8052213/

I am aiming for a vegan lifestyle, but it is difficult to escape hidden milk and eggs in unexpected places. I hope everyone can agree that factory farming is needlessly cruel and should not be supported. I am happy with any steps taken to reduce suffering in the world. I think too many people view it as all-or-nothing, and they can't do all so they do nothing. But every choice we make affects the world we share; any individual can make a difference, even a small one, and they add up.

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[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Kudos man.

Vegans on the internet seem like a psy-op and full of trolls. The vegans I meet are rarely that fucking crazy.

The cost of meat has gotten so expensive over the past decade that they vegan/vegetarian alternative is so much cheaper. I'm not a vegan. I'm just not going to spend $40 for a chunk of steak.

Even at dinner parties, I make tofu/vegan stuff. I make chicken patties, spaghetti and meatballs, Asian stir fry... All using mock protein. I tell people and they're convinced it's good too.

[–] Linktank@lemmy.today 3 points 1 day ago

It's the same concept of people being assholes online, but applied to those belief structures. They are just taking the freedom that anonymity provides and acting like their true selves. They're just too afraid to be such insufferable assholes in person because of the response they KNOW they would receive.

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[–] NeatNit@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 day ago

Deliberately misinterpreting "bad representation": Darwinia, the PC game (one of the first ever non-Valve games on Steam).

As a teenager I thought it had "bad graphics" because its art style was all polygons and 2D sprites. So the game's representation on-screen was bad. See what I did there?

I don't even remember why I bought and played it at all, probably just curiosity, but it wasn't long before I fell in love with it. Within a week I switched from "this game sucks" to "I love this game".

[–] hakase@lemmy.zip 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (6 children)

Green beans. My mom always made nasty-ass soggy canned green beans when I was a kid, and so I thought I hated beans for like two decades.

Then one day I decided to try sauteing some with garlic one day as an adult, and oh. My. God. Do I love green beans.

My mom's canned beans still taste like shit.

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 9 points 1 day ago

I actually liked Guy Fieri. His face is on my local restaurant because he visited and that "Fieri bump" gave them a lot of traffic.

That was until I learned he may lean Trump.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

People make fun of him but he's just a happy dude who likes food.

[–] CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I just heard someone on a podcast point out that they never actually show him eating food in his shows. They always cut away and then back to him just as the 'bite' is hidden away inside his mouth.

Do with that what you will.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 10 points 1 day ago

Interesting. Apparently the criticism is that he never swallows. But I did a quick search and found this: https://www.wired.com/story/this-streamer-has-convinced-the-internet-guy-fieri-never-swallows-food-on-diners-driveins-dives/

As critics of the conspiracy theory were quick to point out, some of this sleight-of-fork is to be expected in the production of DDD. Fieri visits lots of restaurants in a short span of time and can’t eat full meals at all of them. Sometimes a second or third (or tenth) take is necessary, and it’s not practical to take a new bite for each. Certain editing choices are no doubt for the sake of continuity and flow: does the audience really want or need those few extra seconds of awkward silence as Fieri finishes chewing a morsel of barbecued meat and gulps it down?

Others simply disputed the accusation that Fieri is faking it. “Not true,” Joe Sasto, a chef who has competed on a Food Network Tournament of Champions series hosted by Fieri, commented on the Doctor Spaghetti video that ignited the no-swallow controversy. “I’ve filmed plenty of shows with him. He eats EVERYTHING.”

[–] NegentropicBoy@lemmy.world 25 points 2 days ago

Soups!

I think my first experiences as a child were tomato soups that just tasted bad to me.

Now I love minestrone, chicken and corn, beef and vegetable, pea and ham, and more! Often a slice of toast or crackers or croutons with.

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