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[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 points 26 minutes ago* (last edited 25 minutes ago) (1 children)

Canada, US, Iceland, UK, Belgium, Netherlands, Germany, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, Estonia, Poland, Italy, Slovenia, Austria

Stopped going anywhere new though and I just go to Iceland every summer now

I'm Canadian BTW

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 1 points 21 minutes ago (1 children)

Why Iceland?

If it was me (personally) I would pick Egypt

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 points 13 minutes ago* (last edited 8 minutes ago)

I can't get enough of it. The people are so friendly. You pretty much can't get into trouble there - I forgot my camera equipment in a hotel lobby one time and it was still in the same spot 12 hours later untouched. Nobody even locks their cars.

I just rent a car and bring my backpacking equipment and just wing it every time. Aside from Reykjavik 101 the entire country is just amazing. I Iove not having an itinerary and just planning my adventure as the weather permits since that changes daily.

If you get a 4x4 you can travel via F roads (aka fucked up roads) and completely avoid the tourist crowd. Offroading in thorsmork in particular is just the most glorious thing a guy can do.

[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)
  • People's Republic of China - I was born there, not much of a choice. Was there for approximately the first 10 years of my existence. Most of the time was spent around the Guandong Province. Went to Hong Kong (under PRC control) like once, or so I'm told, very fuzzy memories... [How was it: Serious Economic and Political issues at the time I left, so... not good 0/10]

  • Seoul, South Korea (ROK) - Stayed for a few hours, at the airport, waiting for the connecting flight. Never entered into the country. I saw some noodles on the menu at a restaurant at the airport, and it was like 10,000 Korea Won or more, I was a kid that didn't underatand different currencies and exchange rates, shocked me lol. (Probably like $10 to $30 USD) Other than that, don't remember much happening) [How was it: Don't remember much, the airport looked nice, so... 7/10 I guess, but I didn't technically enter the country]

  • United States of America - Been here ever since like I was around 10-ish. Here via Immigration Visa, I have since acquired citizenship. Lived at NYC and Philly, traveled around the NY/PA/NJ tri-state area when going back and forth between NYC and Philly. And went to DC once for a school trip. [How was it: Used to be like 6/10, now it's 2/10]

Does it even count if you never went through customs? Also, depending on the flight paths, I might have also flew over Japan/Russia/Canada's Airspaces... if that also counts 🤷‍♂️

(What does a flightpath from Seoul to JFK look like, anyways?)

I wanna to go to Canada, I've always heard it was a nice and friendly place, even friendlier than the US. But don't wanna face customs issues when returning since... ahem fascist administration, so I guess it'll have to wait 4 years... or more... 👀

[–] dethedrus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)
  • Every state in the US (most in the form of being driven through back in the 70s), including Hawaii and Alaska
  • Mexico over a dozen times, primarily Laredo
  • Canada (for a day as part of a cruise)
  • England and Scotland 4 times, including my honeymoon (about a month in total)
  • Ireland (part of the aforementioned honeymoon, 4 days, including being in Dublin on St Patrick's Day)
  • This part gets a little weird... Italy, Austria, Switzerland, WEST Germany... all before the wall fell
  • West Berlin then East Berlin, the latter being the first time I'd ever had a gun pointed at me (polizei)
  • Hungary as part of a trip to find where my paternal grandparents had lived prior to coming to the US
  • New Zealand for 2.5 weeks to see Hobbiton... as well as a wealth of natural beauty and KORORA
  • US Virgin Islands (St John)

EDIT: also France for 6 hours via the Chunnel ;)

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 4 hours ago
[–] Brotha_Jaufrey@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago
[–] malr@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

American here! I’ve been lucky to travel a bunch for work so some of the countries I’ve been to 10+ times for 1-2 weeks. Others are just for holiday.

Canada - only a few day trip to Toronto Mexico - one week but flying there tomorrow for a second week France - 10+ work trips Italy - 10+ work trips UK - weekend in London with the EuroStar from Paris Germany - a couple work trips China - one week Australia - two weeks Jamaica - two weeks Dominican Republic - one week

[–] wieson@feddit.org 1 points 6 hours ago

Holidays (overnight): 12 Norway, Scotland, England, Netherlands, France, Switzerland, Austria, Slovenia, Italy, Hungary, Croatia, Paraguay

Day trip: 5 Denmark, Czechia, Argentina, Brazil, Poland

Student exchange: 1 Belgium

Work: 4 (1 unique) Luxembourg,FR AU CH

Volunteering work: 3 Slovakia, Ukraine, Romania

sum = 22; 19 in Europe , 3 in South America Loved them all.

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 2 points 8 hours ago

Somewhere between 17-19, but only on the Northern hemisphere.

One thing I've learned is that humans are very much alike everywhere, both good and bad, but mostly in a good way. I will never understand racism or patriotism. Borders are artificial.

[–] tankplanker@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

UK.

I've worked in: UK, Ireland, Spain (Marid and Barcelona), France (Paris), Italy (Milan and Rome), Germany (all over), Belgium (Brussels), Denmark (Copenhagen), US (New York and New Jersey), Canada (Toronto and Montreal)

On top of those I've visited: Japan (many times), US (many times), Sweden, Holland, Iceland, Turkey, Greece, Cyprus, BVI, Antigua, St Martin, Barbuda

I've sailed in BVi, Antigua, Barbuda, Italy, Greece, and obviously the UK.

If I could, I would live in Japan, by far my favourite place

[–] makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 hours ago

Australia Hong Kong Taiwan China England Wales France Spain Catalonia Germany United States New Zealand Thailand Singapore Kenya Papua New Guinea Indonesia

Plus a bunch of airports, of course.

[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Barely any. Just Poland (my country), Czechia, Slovakia and technically Austria (for few hours).

I definitely want to go to Baltics (Lithuania/Latvia/Estonia), Belarus, Ukraine, Hungary and Austria in the relatively near future, but I haven't even explored my country that much, so it's also on my bucket list.

The biggest problem is that I don't really have anyone to travel with, so for most of my life I just didn't do that, and only recently (couple of years ago) I have started to do it, but still very rarely.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Canada: 2 days, visiting a friend in Quebec.

Mexico: Longest was a whole week; but accumulated over how many times I have gone there is probably a whole year or more. Always just been for fun (the week long stay was via a cruise); mostly just Tiajuana though.

Germany: 2 weeks, for work. Never got to see anything outside Bremerhaven.

Ireland: 2 hours. Had a layover there on the way to Germany.

I live in California, and have been to every state in the US except for Alaska and Hawaii. Almost got to Hawaii. That work in Germany I mentioned? It was because I was hired as a crewman for the Pride of America, an NCL cruise ship and it was just finishing being built when I got aboard. Was supposed to be touring Hawaii, but I tripped down some stairs on the way across the Atlantic to New York and fucked myself up enough that I couldn't continue working. Missed out on crossing the Panama canal and seeing Hawaii. 😩

[–] lucg@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)
  • 2 decades: Netherlands
  • 2 years: Belgium
  • 2 months: Finland
  • 2 weeks: Iceland
  • 2 days: United Kingdom
  • 2 hours: Switzerland
  • Somewhere between 2 minutes and 2 seconds: Netherlands, Germany, Belgium all at once

  • 6 years: Germany
  • 6 months: France
  • 6 weeks... this is getting tricky, Luxembourg is probably closest but not close enough to claim this tier
  • 6 days: Poland
  • 6 hours: Sweden
  • 6 minutes: I give up

I didn't realise it was a life goal of mine to spend 6 minutes in a country until this post, but now I'm not sure I can unsee this list. Maybe the Vatican is a good candidate for that? Italy can go in the 2 days slot, bumping UK up to 6 weeks another time. Germany will exceed the 6 years slot soon though, maybe I'll need to visit all sixers to get bingo on a row of sevens instead. And where are we going for 7 seconds? Another tripoint, does that count?

[–] oktoberpaard@feddit.nl 2 points 13 hours ago

I’ve been on holiday in 32 countries. Quite a lot! About 2/3 of those were European countries (I’m European).

[–] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 1 points 12 hours ago

Canada, Mexico, Iceland, Ireland, Italy, France, Germany, Greece, Austria, Spain, Portugal, Sweden, Denmark, Japan, Thailand, Indonesia.

Been to every US state except for Alaska.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 1 points 13 hours ago

About 10, I guess.

No, I am not rich (in money). They are just near.

[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 13 hours ago

3, of which I have 2 citizenships and am looking at a possible 3rd

[–] Maiq@lemy.lol 12 points 23 hours ago

I'm the Johnny Cash of Tamriel, Khajiit goes most places.

  • Skyrim
  • Hammerfell
  • High Rock
  • Morrowind
  • Valenwood
  • Summerset Isle
  • Black Marsh

And of course Elsweyr.

[–] Hugin@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

USA, Canada, Mexico, Bahamas, Dominican Republic, England, Norway, Italy, France, Germany, Iceland, India, Dubai.

That's not counting places like Finland where I was only there for a layover.

[–] thewanderingbackpack@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

USA, Canada, Mexico, Bahamas, Bermuda, UK, Ireland, France, Italy, Germany, Sweden, Denmark, Poland, Czech Republic, Hungary, Croatia, Slovenia, Turkey, Greece, Cyprus, UAE, Saudi Arabia, India, Bhutan, Japan, Korea, Taiwan, Thailand, Australia

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I'm surprised that there have been very few people who go to Turkey despite it being 5th most visited

[–] thewanderingbackpack@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I’m even more surprised that nobody went to China despite being the 4th most visited

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 1 points 23 minutes ago

maybe Chinese diaspora returning? Either way I actually do wanna go to china

[–] MrMobius@sh.itjust.works 8 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
  1. France (born in it)
  2. Germany: (grandparents live next door on the border. I have great memories of tasty sausages and cool public playgrounds from my youth)
  3. Germany: (again) as an exchange student in middle school. I still have a seering memory that I didn't even know what my home region name was in German (Lorraine = Löthringen)
  4. Luxemburg: dad was a smoker, cigarettes were cheap there, end of story?
  5. UK: went three time, in middle school, high school and with family. Best time was in high school when I boarded at this Elvis double's. We always listened to great music and he made pancakes EVERY morning ❤️
  6. Denmark: exchange student in high school. It's a beatiful country with great history. Too bad that my pen pal/exchange student and I were both timid :[
  7. Catalogna, Spain: with friends. Lasting memory is that I took some pleasure swimming again there. Wasn't my thing since PE teacher said to my face I could'nt swim… 😬

Looking back, I'm quite privileged 😅

[–] Nibodhika@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Catalogna, Spain:

I think that one was supposed to be Catalonia (or Catalunya or Cataluña), the gn as ni is an Italian thing, it's not like that in Spanish nor in Catalan.

[–] bonjour@feddit.org 4 points 11 hours ago

I believe its catalogne in French.

[–] MrMobius@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

You got me! It was my inner french that seeped into my english 😄

[–] Nibodhika@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

Ah, didn't knew that french also did the gn as ni, that makes a bit more sense, I found it weird that a French person was using an Italian phonem when writing English and was wondering if maybe there was a place with a similar name but google didn't seemed to think so.

[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago
  • US (live here)
  • Australia
  • Canada (many times)
  • South Korea (twice)
  • Kuwait
  • Iraq
  • Jordan
  • Ireland
  • England
  • El Salvador

Notes:

  • When I was in South Korea, I visited the DMZ both times and stepped over the 38th parallel into North Korea both times. Does that count as having been to North Korea?

If we are counting airports, I have also been to:

  • Germany
  • Slovakia
[–] univers3man@lemmy.world 6 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I'm American, so predictably I've never been out of the country. If money weren't an issue I'd love to travel to Germany, Japan, and China to start.

[–] CiderApplenTea@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Why specifically Germany? And why is it at the top of your list?

[–] univers3man@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I've got some German heritage, and I've always wanted to see the Black Forest. Plus there's the Brandenburg gate and castle Neuschwanstein.

[–] wieson@feddit.org 1 points 6 hours ago

Oof, you'd be on the road a lot. Black forest - in the very south west, Neuschwanstein - pretty south east, Berlin - very north east.

I might suggest going to the black forest, visiting all the historical castles in the Mittelrheintal (middle Rhine valley), and instead of Brandenburg gate maybe Stuttgarter Schloss etc. Neuschwanstein is basically castle-cosplay. I think in the middle Rhine valley you'll find cooler things and it's closer .

[–] 5ibelius9insterberg@feddit.org 5 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Countries I’ve been to for some kind of Holiday:

  • Austria
  • Belgium
  • Czech Republic
  • Denmark
  • England
  • Finland
  • France
  • Germany
  • Israel
  • Italy
  • Netherlands
  • Norway
  • Poland
  • Spain
  • Sweden
  • Switzerland

That’s more than I initially thought..

[–] thirtyfold8625@thebrainbin.org 3 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I refuse to answer, since "what is the first country you traveled to" is a recovery question used by at least one online service I've used, and I don't want to risk letting someone else have a better chance at guessing the answer I used.

[–] dunz@feddit.nu 2 points 11 hours ago

I just write curse words or pick some random option for those.

[–] PlzGivHugs@sh.itjust.works 7 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Tip: if you trust yourself to keep track of stuff, you can just use another password for these fields. I know this is pretty common knowelege in the privacy space, but a lot of people never think of it.

[–] thirtyfold8625@thebrainbin.org 1 points 16 hours ago

This is true. However, if a service uses a "recovery question" at all, and doesn't allow me to use a physical security key, it means they don't really care about security. Moreover, it probably means that they will want me to answer a "recovery question" while talking on the phone or visiting somewhere in person, and I would probably prefer to not appear to be different to other people in a situation like that.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago

Just 4. US, Canada, England, Wales.

[–] TheThrillOfTime@lemmy.ml 3 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)
  • Live in the US.
  • Canada
  • Mexico
  • Jamaica
  • Grenada
  • Trinidad and Tobago
  • Nicaragua
  • Costa Rica
  • Colombia
  • Brazil
  • Chile
  • Uk
  • Ireland
  • France
  • Spain
  • Germany
  • Netherlands
  • Italy
  • Sweden
  • Denmark
  • Turkey
  • Saudi Arabia
  • Pakistan

I think the shortest was 1 night in Trinidad Longest was 2 years when I lived in Grenada.

[–] DrainKikoLake@lemmy.ca 2 points 23 hours ago
  1. Canada (I live here)
  2. USA (many many family/friend visits since I was a child; also lived there for ~6 years as an adult)
  3. England (one week in London, one week in the South Downs)
  4. Denmark (three weeks for a family visit)
  5. France (a weekend in Paris)
  6. Belgium (about 2-3 days in Bruges)
  7. The Netherlands (about 2-3 days in Delft)
  8. Germany (roughly 6 hours, driving from Belgium to Denmark)
[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago
  1. Went to Canada. No earthly idea why. Drove through London on our way to the Niagara Falls, then looped back around, saw hydroplane races in Syracuse, and stayed in the weirdest motel ever somewhere in Penn or Ohio because it was really cheap. This was the most WTF vacation I've ever been on. No idea what my parents had in mind. I literally only remember being on the car.
  2. Went to Thailand for about ten days. Stopped in Laos for an afternoon and got a t-shirt and snake whisky. Almost set foot in Cambodia, but the border was closed so we got our passports stamped and that was all. Saw a bunch of monks on cell phone's and smoking cigarettes. Saw so many freaking temples. Went to the bridge on the river Kwai. Ate some good food. Saw the red light district. Thought it would be sexy, but it was just depressing. Loved the people and the experience and want to go back some day. Also saw Tokyo through airport window.
  3. Went to Mexico to get drunk and eat good food for a week at a resort. Got drunk and ate well for a week. Went to a xenote and swam.
  4. Went to the Bahamas to get drunk on boat for a week. Twice. Got drunk for a week both times. Also snorkeled at some point and visited pigs on an island.
  5. Headed to the Dominican Republic to get drunk in Punta Cana for a week in about ten days. Might do a topless cruise depending on how my wife feels. Jury is still out, but I have a feeling I'll successfully get drunk for about a week.
[–] scytale@lemm.ee 1 points 21 hours ago

9, but around half of them were just quick layovers.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

Australia, New Zealand, United States, Portugal, Germany, Belgium, Luxemburg, and Netherlands.

I have transited via Thailand, Austria, UAE, and Singapore but I don't count those as visited.

[–] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

Around 82. Most of them by train, bus and boat.

But the country count is irrelevant. Travel should be a personal experience, not a form of conspicuous consumption. Mass airplane travel in particular is completely unsustainable, which is why I hardly ever do it. I've been to a ton of very remote and interesting places but I don't blog about my adventures or post anything on social media. Only a handful of people ever hear anything about it, which is the way things were for everyone until approximately yesterday. Traveling slowly is not particularly expensive, it just requires time and a patient mindset.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 1 points 23 hours ago

I've been back and forth to Australia, because I have family there. Melbourne and a dusty little coastal town in South Australia called Whyalla. I've also attended a Worldcon there, and I think, accidentally insulted Charles Stross.

I've also been on a month-long trip to Europe which covered the Czech Republic, Austria, Hungary, Germany and the Netherlands. I fell in love with each and every one of those countries as I toured through them, although it was a little bit disappointing to be trapped in Essen while my wife attended Der Spiel because of a public transport strike.

We had plans for a trip to the US next year, which may not happen now. Perhaps we'll head back to Europe.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 1 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Norway
Sweden
Denmark
Finland
Germany
Poland
France
Czech Republic
Slovakia
UK
Ireland
Spain
Portugal
Croatia
Austria
Belgium
Netherlands
US
Brazil
Malaysia
Nigeria
Cameroon
Equatorial Guinea
Singapore
Saudi Arabia
Bahrain
Hungary

The shortest stay was in Bahrain, for three days. I'd add duration and impression to the list, but that'd take me forever. So instead I'll just say that my favorites are Singapore, Malaysia, Czech Republic, and Croatia. Honorable mention: Bahrain