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[–] Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 hour ago

The people who say that about younger women probably had Grandmas who were still in households that could be sustained on a single income.

Not saying it was ideal that their only choice was homemaking, but it stands to reason that a more significant amount of them got good at cooking and baking.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

In her defense, we're quickly approaching the point where the only food we'll be able to afford is depression era food. Welcome back to splitting one streak between 7 people and water pie.

[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 6 points 2 hours ago

It can't be overstated how many of those recipes were some con to sell canned shit that Grandma cut out of a magazine. There's very little "in the old county we cooked like this..." that made it through the Boomer food filter. Best case scenario is it's Betty fucking Crocker.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 7 points 2 hours ago

Both my grandmothers were great cooks. I guess I had a lucky childhood in that regards.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I grew up in the 70s with casseroles that would make your god cry.

If I’m diagnosed with cancer, I’m blaming old-timey cooking. Some things should be left in the past.

[–] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 2 points 2 hours ago

When I was in high school my older brother brought a cookbook with recipes from around the world. I tried to make couple that were fairly easy to make and was amazed by the taste. I couldn't believe food can have that much flavor. I later realized it's not that the recipes was so special. My mother's food was simply very bland. Not bad, but it was just variations of salt and sour. I don't make or miss any of her recipes. She makes very good deserts tough.

[–] trem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 hours ago

Yeah, even just having more different ingredients and spices available makes those recipes of old somewhat obsolete. But then you also have the internet to tell you all kinds of new recipes, so if the local cuisine isn't great to begin with, it is easier than ever to not bother with it.

[–] lifeinlarkhall@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I have three sets of grandparents. Only remember one of my granddads cooking, one of my granddads would bake.

Dad and granddad (his step dad) were the consistent, enjoyed cooking and playing with flavours cooks in the family 😅 none of the women in my family, including me, enjoy it other than my sister maybe!

[–] sadie_sorceress@sh.itjust.works 14 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

My grandma hand-wrote down all her recipes for her daughters before she died. A few years ago I decided a nice gift for all of them would be to transcribe the recipes into a printed book. While trancribing the recipes I realized that 80% of her dishes were just variations of ground beef, cream of mushroom soup, oleo, and shredded cheese.

[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 2 points 2 hours ago

I would bet you money that is you search for the exact recipes online or in some newspaper archive, a fair number would pop up as having been published elsewhere first.

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (2 children)

I had an elderly aunt that made "oyster stew" on special occasions. The recipe was as follows:

One gallon of 2% milk
One 16 oz. jar raw oysters with juice
Salt and pepper to taste

That's literally all that was in it. She'd mix it together, heat until steaming, then serve. Just a big pot of hot, oyster scented, salty milk, served with oyster crackers. Everyone hated it and none of her children carried on the tradition.

That recipe deserved to die.

Edit: oops, broken line breaks.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Oyster milk! It's fight milk but you get a refreshing seaside holiday while you drink it

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 3 points 7 hours ago

It's fight milk

I didn't see any crow eggs in the recipe.

[–] myrrh@ttrpg.network 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

...oh my g*d what a horrible day to have eyes...

[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 1 points 2 hours ago

Your god, maybe.

The god of chaos demands at oyster milk sacrifice!

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 53 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

My grandmother would put food in the oven before turning it on. When the timer would go off, she'd be frustrated that the food was dehydrated and undercooked, so she'd try her best to salvage it by starting the timer again for the same amount of time. Then she'd ask "what smells funny?" before pulling the food out from the oven, and complaining that the recipe was bad.

She never cooked before she got married, but she was married for somewhere around 70 years.

70 years.

In 70 years, she was never able to understand the concept of preheating the oven. When I was a child, she'd come over to my parents' house. If my mom was preparing dinner, and the oven was preheating, my grandmother would turn off the oven and tell my mother that she shouldn't leave the oven on. My mom tried so many times to explain preheating the oven, but my grandmother insisted that it was a waste of energy.

[–] fullsquare@awful.systems 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

that's not a waste of energy, but i bet there was also other habit that is: unless you want to specifically evaporate water, things will get boiled just the same on low or high heat. (heating up to boiling point is most economical using high power) there's zero reason to keep thing boiling on high heat then add water. also, using hot tap water. water heater is much better at heating water than open gas flame, yet i see people insisting on heating entire pots and kettles of cold tap water

[–] Derpenheim@lemmy.zip 36 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Sounds like granny was a full blown dumbass.

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[–] lemmyng@lemmy.world 13 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

My dad couldn't cook rice for shit. Always put way too much water in the rice cooker. On his last Thanksgiving, he made rice with something that turned it pink, honest to God not sure if he used food dye or something else.

And I'm convinced my hatred of liver ties back to how he'd drop beef liver in various soups. I'd never know if the meat I was biting into was goat, turkey or liver until it was too late.

He also gave us food poisoning twice. Yeah, he was a shit cook. Fortunately his cooking died with him.

[–] trem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 hours ago

Might've been beetroot. It's excellent at coloring things pink and also used as a food dye...

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 102 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

Turns out I don't actually dislike vegetables, I just dislike how my mother's and grandmother make them. Did you know they can be served with colour still on them?

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Turns out I love Brussels sprouts, so long as you don’t cook them til they’re grey.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 hours ago

Also, the new cultivars are WAY less bitter. You can still grow the old type yourself at home, and it's really a huge difference.

[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Frozen is way better than canned

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 hours ago

Canned veggies aren't that bad. But my mom used to treat them like they fresh.

So instead of just warming them up in the liquid, she would rinse them, then boil them like normal (which was already too long).

[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 34 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Do you mean to tell me vegetables can be cooked some other way besides boiling? And you can put seasoning on them?!? My grandfather would be disgusted by the thought.

[–] RickyRigatoni@piefed.zip 11 points 7 hours ago

Even boiled vegetables taste good if you don't go stupid mode about it.

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 15 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

I got fucking microwave steamed frozen veggies with no seasoning at all not even butter and if I didn't eat the freezer burnt slop I wasn't allowed to leave the table.

Trauma bonding hell yeah. 👊

[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I get the microwaved steamed veggies now. But I at least toss them in some olive oil or butter and season them. Usually I'll microwave them halfway to thaw them then fry them in some oil to get a nicer char. Not gourmet, but perfectly fine.

[–] lemmyng@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

I used to stir fry my veggies, but they'd end up soft due to the resulting moisture.

Then I baked them in the oven hoping that'd be better, but I'd overcook them just a bit and they'd be too hard.

I finally decided to air fry my veggies, and they were juuuuuuuuuuuuust right!

[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 8 points 8 hours ago

Boggles my mind oven roasted asparagus and broccoli were not a thing as a child.

[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 42 points 11 hours ago (8 children)

Church potluck every Sunday when I was a kid. A whole buffet line of jello based not dessert dishes. Usually peas in green jello, shredded carrots in orange jello,or hotdog in jello abominations. If not jello, there were at least 10 mayonnaise based atrocities.

I ate a lot of dinner rolls.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 hours ago

Mayonnaise PLUS jello, with hotdogs. Perfect.

[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 2 points 2 hours ago

I've always thought this was some sort of mass hysteria. Who ate any of that stuff and thought "oh, hell yeah, so good"? Who would make it twice? Let alone more?

[–] socsa@piefed.social 17 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

I still can't do potlucks because my parents forced me to eat all sorts of random bullshit at the church potluck, because they felt like being seen eating someone's dish conferred some weird church status.

"Go over and tell Miss Borley how much you liked her chicken liver and salmon casserole."

On the other hand, this also contributed to my powerful disdain for church, so I guess that's something. The only way out is through... a senile lady's disgusting casserole, or something.

[–] lemmyng@lemmy.world 10 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

"Go over and tell Miss Borley how much you liked her chicken liver and salmon casserole."

Okay, Mommy!

goes over and vomits all over Miss Borley

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 6 hours ago

Sometimes the holy spirit just moves through you.

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[–] reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net 33 points 12 hours ago (10 children)

My grandma wouldn’t give me her recipe for my favorite dessert and she died:( My aunts try to reassure me by saying she probably didn’t have a recipe she probably felt it out.

[–] luxadazy@lemmy.zip 30 points 11 hours ago (8 children)

my grandma’s famous brownies turned out to be box mix with chopped walnuts added 😂 and the box mix ingredients changed so they’re just not the same anymore.

i came up with my own deeply indulgent recipe that i prefer anyways.

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