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How many days of missed sleep do you think you could hide from people?

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[–] LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

One, like most people.

But the more interesting question is: how long can you go with too little sleep? Like, with 3-4h naps? Or a few 30 min naps?

Obviously much longer, as anyone with little children or a tight thesis deadline can tell you. But I catch myself making mistakes and generally saying and doing things I shouldn't, quite similarly to mild alcohol intoxication. I would describe 2-3 days with too little sleep as maybe 3-4 beers, you can still force yourself to focus, but you really shouldn't drive or write that important letter any more.

[–] antlion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 9 hours ago

I stayed awake for 8 days but there was no hiding it.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 2 points 10 hours ago

I start getting loopy at about 36 hours awake

[–] redsand@infosec.pub 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

One now. As a teenager no one noticed until 4. Damn shadow people will make you look paranoid flicking your eyes or whole head at nothing

[–] ButteryMonkey@piefed.social 1 points 9 hours ago

I get massive screaming headaches that usually start mid-late afternoon and don't go away until I sleep, but sometimes start up again first thing the next morning if I sleep poorly. If the person knows me well enough to know that, and knows what it looks like when I have such a headache, maybe 2 days? Only because theres a lot you can hide behind the fog of pain and saying “yep, this is the same headache I’ve had for two days, I'm very tired of it”

Everyone else thinks I’m in dire need of sleep basically always, because I’ve become fairly low-energy (other than my stims, which are often not obvious anyway), have very thin skin around my eyes, plus often foggy and slow from headaches. And nod off whenever I'm slightly bored. But they aren't wrong, as such, I could seriously sleep 15+ hours a day if I didn’t have shit to do.

[–] trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 20 points 20 hours ago

Less than a full day

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 9 points 17 hours ago
[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 14 points 20 hours ago

0.3.

If I miss 2 hours of sleep I'll be a zombie a couple off hours after lunch.

[–] anothermember@feddit.uk 9 points 18 hours ago

The most I've gone is 36 hours, basically a day-night-day missing 1 night of sleep, I don't recommend it. The second day I was limited enough in functionality that I didn't do anything I'd planned to that day but I was able to function on a basic level, though in terms of "hiding" it I think I succeeded since I still had normal interactions with people and nobody seemed to suspect anything. I was a lot younger then.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 7 points 17 hours ago

My misspent youth included methamphetamines. I spelled it out because "meth" seems worse somehow.

Anyway, about 3 days without sleep comes with debilitating brain fog, hallucinations, and wild mood problems. You could probably pass for the fist day, because meth intoxication isn't as obvious as others, but people will notice that you lost your mind.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago (4 children)

I mean, "days" is vague

48 hours without sleep and it's obvious, you can't hide it

By 72 hrs microsleeps start happening, your brain will have a 2-3 minute dream in under five seconds of zoning out, this is where methheads are when they randomly accuse people of saying/doing something.

They had a micro sleep and in their dream you did something.

Close to 100 hrs I had visual hallucinations that were obvious hallucinations, and I tapped out around 105ish.

It's insanely dangerous and you really shouldn't try it. Even if it sounds "cool" it's not an enjoyable experience, but it is an experience. Definitely under no circumstances use stimulates to stay awake that long. If you try to do it naturally and can't, just accept that you couldn't and move on.

And if you do try it, don't have anything planned for during or a day or two after. Don't expect yourself to handle anything competently after the first night missed sleep, although during that time you will likely think you're killing it, that's just because you're not thinking straight. You're really fucking up almost everything you do and just not noticing.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 5 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

Been there done that. First time when I was 13.

I too, recommend avoiding it.

You're very right in how methheads behave. But I think you're sort of making a false dichotomy a bit there as well.

It's more like almost a waking dream at that point. The reality mixes in with the dreams, instead of just you being in one or the other.

See this here jailcell. They denied me my meds and I was awake for three days straight. I ate my pinky bloody so I could use it as a red magic marker. Anyway. What starts out as rather complex philosophical quotes (see top left of the image) goes through simpler ones into basically ACAB with large stick letters... and then by the 78h mark or so... I could no longer read any of the text I had written on the walls. It was fucking weird, but I couldn't read. All of the marks, letters, just looked like dancing ballerina figurines, and I could not make any of them up for what they meant.

So like, yeah, you're right in that the methheads have been awake for too long and dream things, but the dreaming happens while they're awake. The dreams mix with the waking world.

One night missed sleep is like nothing tho. I used to pull 20+ hour shifts while driving a taxi. (Despite what you might think, there's absolutely no drivetime regulations like with HGV's, even here in Finland. Also no minimum wage, I drove on commission)

Well written though, well described.

[–] papalonian@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

That is quite the experience. Thank you for sharing. Hope you're doing better.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 2 points 13 hours ago

Honestly one all-nighter sounds like most I'd do. I don't think its worth it, I can just look up how others experienced it without feeling awful in the end

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 8 points 19 hours ago

You're really fucking up almost everything you do and just not noticing.

So, it's just like a regular day for me.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Pretty sure I am having microsleeps by Monday afternoon

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

If you're serious, and you might be because it's possible, talk to a doctor.

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

One. If I have access to drugs and I don't have to go to work, two.

[–] 1D10@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

I'm the opposite, with drugs I get between 5 and 10 hours of sleep, without drugs I stay awake for days (10 days is my record).Though we may be on different drugs, mine are mood stabilizers and seditives.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

Depends on the amount of stimulants used.

Without any, 2.5 at the most.

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 2 points 17 hours ago

Depends on who's observing. I dose off regularly when bored regardless of how rested i am, some will already assume it's from tiredness.

Cognitive effects start to appear after 24h, but with short power naps i can remain functional up to 5 days.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 2 points 19 hours ago

I usually don't sleep during the days :)

But seriously: Not even one night. It was easier when I was younger ofc.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 2 points 20 hours ago

My brain starts breaking about 4 hours after I was supposed to go to bed.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 1 points 20 hours ago