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Having fancy china/dish sets for display isn't really a thing the youth is worried about. It used be a social thing, having guests over to eat off (or just see the display) your fancy dinner plate is probably the social equivalent to having the box of 64GB of ram on a shelf above your computer. In other words "yes, we have money and you can shut about it up Aunt Gertrude"

A closed cabinet with glass doors to display what ever you collect is a nice thing to have. The doors help keep dust and cats out.

My parents (Gen x) have one that they got from my boomer grandma passing. They have a billion different sets of china they're trying to sell or auction, but no one wants it. They've told me it'll be mine when they pass and ugh. I appreciate that it's nice and all, but truly I'll probably just donate it to a rage room or something. A soup kitchen so they can all feel sophisticated. Dunno. I don't want it.

Nope. I think it’s mostly a dead idea.

My mom is still hoarding (for me) a set of fine china dishes I inherited from my grandmother. They’re really nice.

But what am I going to do with them? Add specific furniture to my too-small home to store them so I can pull them out for certain dinner parties? We barely host for dinner anymore, and when we do, we keep it casual.

I think china cabinets go along with a whole bunch of social niceties that were important in the 20th century and have since withered.

You mean cabinets manufactured in China? Yeah, a whole kitchen full.

My peers aren't buying china, but a couple are using china cabinets or hutches to display the things they do collect. There's pretty much an open request that if anyone spots good quality used furniture, to put it in a group chat.

My mom still has all of her mom's old china from when she passed. It fills up an enormous, ugly, heavy cabinet that eats up a pretty significant chunk of the living room and doesn't go with any of the other decor. I have never, in my nearly 40 years of existence, seen her use a single piece of it. It was always "for special occasions", but we always went out for special occasions, so they still never got used.

I think she only keeps them because they were important to her mom, who inherited some of it from her mom, and possibly even further up the chain. I don't think they're even worth anything; she could maybe get a couple hundred bucks if she were to sell the whole collection, maybe a bit more if she got creative with the listing. There were times growing up where we were dirt broke and couldn't even afford soap to wash a dish and ate dinner off of paper towels, and she still wouldn't let anyone use the china. But it was important to those before her, so I think my mom just wants to preserve it in their memory.

China is a pretty big country not sure how it would fit in a cabinet.

I built one for my parents last summer.

I do have one myself, inherited from my grandmother, full of the dishes that are too precious to break out for Pope God The First because he's not holy enough for early 20th century China my father "remembers from when he was a kid." It's not as large as the one I built for my folks though.

I do...kind of hate them as a trophy case of consumerism?

The best thing you can do when someone dies and people try to pawn china off onto you is immediately throw it in the cupboard with your regular plates. At least it has a chance of serving a purpose, then.

So. Funny enough. Yes. You see its massive and the people did not want to try and move it when we purchased the place. We also got a dining room table and chairs. They actually tried to suggest a few hundred to have them and we are like. Nope. So they just gave them to us.

I don't know about the cabinets, but you can find used China really cheap at thrift stores. Most people don't care about it anymore, so it isn't worth much. As the boomers are dying their stuff is getting donated.

I personally don't care about fancy dishes, but a lot of folks like to use it 'just because' rather than waiting for a special day.

I inherited most of my grandma's mid-century dining room set, so yes. I keep her china in the bottom, and use the top as a display case and liquor cabinet. She wouldn't exactly be thrilled with my setup, but she'd be happy the furniture stayed in the family.

I have a display cabinet! It has Lego in it. I don't have fancy China.

They are a common wedding gift in some rural communities.

But I don't have one yet.

Used to until we moved. We left the china and the china cabinet behind. Only thing we took that was in it was my mom's snow globe collection.

I wouldn't bother getting another. I have no desire to have a set of fancy dining ware that gets used maybe once a year. The only fancy dining ware I need is anything not paper and plastic.

(Speaking as an early Millennial)

I have a gigantic cabinet in my dining room/kitchen (not much wall between them so it's kinda the same space). It's 8 feet tall, solid hardwood except for the glass doors, and was originally a built-in from a house in the next neighborhood over. They put it out on the curb and I saw it, hitched up my utility trailer, brought it home and installed it. Best curb find so far.

I use it as a pantry because my house small and doesn't have a closet-style pantry.

I also have a set of fine china that a friend gave me as a wedding present (even though we didn't have a gift registry), but the pattern isn't really our style and I've never taken it out of the box. I don't have plans to buy other fancy dishes, either. I'm very happy with my cheap Corelle (except for the fact that they discontinued the pattern and I wish I had more sets of it).

So, technically, I "have" both china and a china cabinet, but it is very much just a Boomer thing anyway.

Mostly swedish

Sorta. A relatively inexpensive Ikea cabinet for our nice dishes. That’s about it. Not one of those hulking wall-sized oak monstrosities full of “collectibles” that were popular many decades ago.

I have several. I don't want them. Please come take them. I'll give them to you for free to save me the hassle and money of getting rid of them. I didn't want them to begin with and I don't want them now. I did not buy them. They do me no good. They make my life worse.

I had a really nice one, and couldn't sell it at any price. I couldn't even give it away, even to used furniture stores. They can't sell the ones they've already got.

I thought about turning it into a humidified guitar display cabinet, but I don't have the time or place to do that right now, so I just left it in the storage unit when I closed it out.

No. I never understood the point of having dishes that get used a few times a year. I suppose that, for people like my grandparents, they got more use hosting bridge nights and the like but even my parents didn't host that much. As someone in his mid-40s, I definitely haven't done much of it.

Boomer thing. My MIL keeps trying to give us hers but we don't have the space or the need for plateware that will never be used.

You call it China cabinet, I call it booze box.

Have no fancy plates, that shit is obsolete.

If I were going to host a fancy dinner, I would go to a restaurant.

Wtf good is China that you have to spend hours hand washing? I don't have servants and I don't have a dining room either. I mean I did, but I put a stereo in there instead. We used the dining room 3x a year. I listen to records every day.

Priorities.

I guess I had one or something like it when I first moved out. My parents gave it to me along with a matching dining table, all of which had been sitting in their basement. My wife wasn’t a fan of it and when we moved out of the house we listed it for sale, eventually selling it for a few hundred dollars, after sitting on the market for close to 2 months and dropping the price a few times.

My parents were upset when they found out; it turned out they had had that table custom made earlier in their marriage when they could finally afford new furniture. They said they would’ve bought it back for more than we got had they known. But a couple days later they begrudgingly realized they didn’t have room for that furniture and it wouldn’t have made sense for them to buy it.

A few years later they moved into a smaller home since all of us kids had been grown and moved out for years. As they tried to sell furniture and other things they weren’t going to have room for, it became depressing to them to see how little these things were worth that they had spent a lot of money on new. They had a set of china for each of us kids, one they bought or received as a wedding gift, others they had inherited from dead relatives. But it became apparent that we all preferred the same set, the one with the simplest design, yet it also was clear that we would only rarely, if ever, use the china and it’s largely a waste of space for any of us.

I think we might even have our set already, but we never use it and it’s not on display. If we have it it’s in the bottom cabinets of a console my wife loves. Also there are a couple very nice crystal bowls my uncle bought us, that my wife is almost terrified to get out of their box out of fear of breaking them. We understand they’re all nice items and expensive, but we might’ve preferred to have that money spent on things we’d get more use out of.

Plain and normal kitchen drawers. We actually use our China every day.

Lol fuck no

Yup.

Since we have a living room now (decided to stay 2 when the last roommate moved out) we have the luxury of space and my roommates parents wanted to get rid of theirs.

It has Doors with windows at the top where we actually put our China. The button cupboards are for various Household stuff (cleaning utensils, tools etc.)

No. Closest thing we have is a Germany Cabinet, as we bought a large set from a German manufacturer last year. It's more high end than our everyday stuff, and mostly use it when we have people over and birthdays and stuff.

When I hear "China Cabinet" I think of somewhere easily visible and with glass doors so that they're also on display when not in use. Ours ate hidden in the back along with other stuff we don't use all that often.